The formulation of various national policies will certainly be based on the current national development needs and current situation, such as the formulation of fertility policies, from the original family planning policy to "open two children" and now the state encourages the opening of three children.
However, with the improvement of people's living standards, parents will find that whether it is to raise a family or a child, the cost is also increasing, resulting in the state's proposed policy to encourage three children is obviously ineffective.
In order to solve this problem, ren Zeping, a professor of economics, once proposed that some subsidies should be given to parents of three children, and preschool education should also be included in the compulsory education stage.
And also proposed to help women solve the employment problem, manage school district housing; and even proposed that if the elderly help with children, it is also appropriate to give some subsidies to the elderly, which may be more meaningful for the promotion of the three-child policy.
Professor Liang Jianzhang of Peking University has also advocated this aspect, and the strong support of parents for the proposals of these experts is related to their own interests, which can naturally improve everyone's enthusiasm.
Although this proposal is very good, it is difficult to realize in reality, mainly because the state's financial resources are limited, this proposal is a bit too expensive for the national finances, and it is also easy to cause unfair events in society.
Therefore, for this matter, everyone should also look at it more rationally, and at the same time, if there is a family with a second or third child, it should also consider some practical problems in reality and make plans for the future growth of the child.
So, if some families want to have three children, what factors need to be considered?
Whether the family wants to have three children, the main consideration is to look at the economic conditions of the family, many parents raise a child, feel some pressure.
Take care of children's lives, supervise children's learning, and although children attend primary and secondary schools in compulsory education, it also requires a large amount of expenditure to cultivate hobbies and hobbies, and the better the economic development of the region, the more it costs.
Nowadays, the education of students is the top priority of all problems, and if they cannot provide a good educational environment for children, it is not suitable for students, who will be left behind from birth.
At the same time, families with multiple children in the family, the problem that is easy to appear is that they cannot achieve "a bowl of water", parents sometimes have eccentric situations, and parents must consider this problem before having children.
Although children can also understand that parents will be partial to younger children, children who feel unfair will also feel uncomfortable in their hearts and will feel that their parents do not like themselves.
Some children will also have inferiority complexes, which is not conducive to their growth and development. After all, everyone knows that they are all born and raised by the same parents, and if the treatment gap is very large, I am afraid that it will be difficult for anyone to accept.
Although the three-child encouragement policy is good, each family situation is different, and whether to have a child depends on oneself
Whether to have three children is a matter for each family itself, according to the actual situation to decide whether to have three children, do not blindly follow others, some people like children, and family ability is not bad, it does not hurt to have more than one.
If you can't give your children a better life after giving birth to three children, the quality of life after giving birth to three children is not as good as it is now. In particular, some young parents do not want to lower their living standards because of their children, so they should consider it carefully so as not to regret it in the future.
In fact, parents should think carefully about the purpose of three children, in fact, some parents think that raising children to prevent aging, but whether children can provide for the elderly in the future is not the number of children in the family, but more on how parents educate their children.
Cultivating children into filial piety and outstanding academic achievements has a lot to do with the parents' education methods, and concentrating on cultivating a child can make the child more excellent.
Although some experts put forward proposals that represent the position of parents, parents are naturally very happy and agree, but in reality it is more difficult to implement.
Because the subsidies given are too much and affect the state finances, whether to have three children or not really depends on the actual situation of each family.
When a child grows up, parenting is more important than raising
Although the number of people in our country is gradually declining, we cannot arbitrarily give birth to a second or third child in order to meet the national conditions, if we do not want to give birth to how to educate and cultivate, it is also irresponsible for children.
Now with the development of our country, the problem of students' education is a bigger problem, and only by continuously improving the overall quality education of the Chinese people can more people serve the country in the future.
We cannot blindly have more children in order to increase the population, but on the basis of multiple births, we must also pay attention to eugenics, and after the children are born, they are a separate individual, we must be responsible for them, and we must also pave the way for them to go in the future.
But it is not easy to teach a student well now, and parents also need to know more and know more than before, so for the sake of the next generation, everyone must study harder from now on!
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