Eight tips for parent-child communication

1. Caring eyes

When talking to children, parents must look at the children with caring eyes, pay attention to the children's expressions and behaviors at any time, and give counseling and assistance in a timely manner, which can also make the children feel more valued.

2. Use more short sentences

When talking to your child, if you want to fully attract your child's attention, you must let your child understand it. Therefore, it is best to use short sentences and repeat what you say until your child understands.

3. There is a change in tone

Without affecting others, the tone of speech can be higher, or there are some changes in ups and downs, ups and downs, which can attract children to pay attention to listening.

4. The content should be specific

The content of the speech should be specific and say what is happening now, otherwise the child will not be able to raise enough interest to communicate.

5. Be gentle

Don't always use a reproachful tone, use a gentle, suggestive tone, such as "Otherwise, you talk about it..." "Mom wants to hear your thoughts", so that the communication atmosphere will be good, and the child is more willing to say his heart.

6. Be smiling

When the child is willing to say what he is thinking, please smile and listen carefully, so that the child feels that the parents are very concerned and value themselves. Don't listen to your child while doing other things, so that your child may not be willing to communicate with his parents in the future.

7. Can find advantages

Parents should take the initiative to discover the advantages of their children and give encouragement in time. Know that rewards are often more effective than punishments, and parent-child relationships are not too tense.

8. Empathetic thinking

To compare hearts to hearts, parents should think more from the child's position, which helps to enter the child's inner world and bring them closer to each other.