Title: Brother and sister do not fit hands, dad and grandma calmly watch, netizens: it makes sense
People often use the deep affection of sisters and brothers to describe the deep feelings between brothers and sisters, brothers and sisters are originally the closest relatives besides their parents, they perceive the world together from knowing nothing, calling the same pair of parents as parents and mothers, such feelings are precious.
In the process of growing up, the brother and sister live under the same roof, eat the same pot of rice, when they are young, they do not understand things, and it is inevitable that they will quarrel or fight because of some small frictions, which is difficult to avoid, after all, it is impossible for parents to raise their children separately.
In fact, the brother and sister start to fight, the parents are also very difficult, the palms of the hands and the back of the hands are meat, if you go to the fight, whether it is the sister or the brother will feel that the parents are partial to the other side, but most of the parents are still unwilling to see their children fight, most parents will see their children fighting will also pull the fight.
But this does not mean that all parents are like this, some parents will be like bystanders watching the hilarity, moving a small bench, eating melons, silently watching the brothers and sisters fight.
On the evening of December 13, in Dalian, Liaoning Province, a father was sitting on the floor of his home hall checking his children's homework, and his two children were also playing in the hall.
The two brothers and sisters originally played each other and did not interfere with each other, but they did not know what the younger brother said to the sister, and suddenly angered the sister, only to see the sister who was sitting on the ground with one hand supporting the sofa, the other hand supporting the tea table, and suddenly stood up and rushed to the younger brother.
The younger brother felt that things were not good and wanted to escape, but it was too late, he just stood up, the sister rushed to him, and then the sister pushed the brother's arm with both hands, and the younger brother was pushed to the ground, the younger brother reacted very quickly, and quickly stood up.
After that, he wrestled with his sister, but due to his young age and shorter height than his sister, after a few rounds, his brother was completely subdued by his sister.
And in this process, the father and grandmother of the sisters and brothers are in the hall, they witnessed all this happening but did not say a word, did not pull the fight, calmly watched the brother and sister fight, during the period, the father was also worried about being hit by the brother and sister and the pond fish, moved behind them, to make room for the brothers and sisters to fight.
Some netizens asked this father, why did he let the sisters and brothers fight and not pull away? What if I get injured?
The father said that he felt that these two children were his own, and if he pulled the frame, it would make both children feel that he was pulling the frame, so in the absence of too much of a problem, he would not pull the frame, but would only watch silently and not let them make a big deal out of it.
For the father's approach and statement, netizens said that the father said it was good and reasonable, and I was speechless.
So why did the sisters and brothers fight?
I think there is a fight between one party who feels that their interests have been violated by the other party, and in order to protect their own interests from being violated by the other party, it is the instinct of animals.
People are also animals, especially children, and have not yet formed a rational logic of thought, so the reactions they make when they face the infringement of interests by others are animal instincts, including fighting.
As a parent, you can not be partial to any party, but you must teach your children to let them know that each other and themselves are a family, interests are common, there is no you and me, let them understand that sisters and brothers should be humble to each other.
Children are constantly learning and growing under the influence of their parents, so some of the things that should be said must be said, let them know what they are doing wrong, should be criticized, and which things are done well, worthy of praise, only in this way can they help them establish the right values faster.
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