The recent popular TV series is the "Xiao Min Family" in which Zhou Gongzi and Huang Lei have cooperated again.
The audience who is familiar with Zhou Xun is basically impressed by the "Orange Red" that she and Huang Lei originally cooperated.
The plot full of tribulations and dangers left a sense of CP between Zhou Xun and Huang Lei that made people sigh and look forward to it.
The setting of "Little Minjia" is a warm realism style.
The story takes place in Beijing, revolving around the discussion between North Drift, children's school entrance examinations, divorced love and parent-child relationships;
The story between love and family revolves around how divorced men and women balance their new families and children.
Liu Xiaomin, played by Zhou Xun, is an obstetric nurse with a son who is preparing for the college entrance examination.
Had an unpleasant past with her ex-husband and lived alone in a cozy house in Beijing.
Because of some misunderstandings with his son, his son has been reluctant to come to Beijing to prepare for the exam.
So the son has never known that Zhou Xun secretly made a boyfriend when he was working alone in the big city.
Liu Xiaomin's boyfriend is Chen Zhuo (played by Huang Lei), who is also divorced with a daughter, and Chen Zhuo's ex-wife and Liu Xiaomin are small.
Liu Xiaomin met Chen Zhuo at their previous wedding, and they only walked together after many years of divorce between the two parties.
After the divorce, Chen Zhuo took his daughter to work alone in Beijing.
Chen Zhuo and his ex-wife divorced very early, but for their daughter's education, both of them are dedicated.
After his ex-wife (played by Qin Hailu), he found her current husband, and the two of them did the training business together, so that the company could go public and make a fortune.
They have been divorced for a long time, but in the face of the pursuit of love again, everyone has many concerns.
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Caution of divorced men and women
Liu Xiaomin and Chen Zhuo have been secretly patting and dragging for a year, but every time the two people meet, they have to avoid acquaintances and secretly meet at the contact point.
For the matter of open relations, Chen Zhuo is very optimistic.
After all, the ex-wife has long been married, even if she has a new love partner, I believe that my daughter is also acceptable.
But Liu Xiaomin's attitude is very cautious, and before he is ready, the two people have to be as careful as the agents in the spy movie.
When Chen Zhuo was planning to take Liu Xiaomin to celebrate the first anniversary, he suddenly encountered Liu Xiaomin's mother and son coming to Beijing from their hometown.
In a panic, Liu Xiaomin called Chen Zhuo a ride-hailing driver.
After Liu Xiaomin settled his mother and son, he specially invited them to eat a high-end buffet.
In order to let Chen Zhuo clean up the clothes and traces left in Liu Xiaomin's home.
Chen Zhuo went from her boyfriend being arranged to become an online ride-hailing driver to sneaking back to Liu Xiaomin's house to pack his luggage.
Chen Zhuo joked with Liu Xiaomin in the midst of the chaos: "It's like we're going to break up."
And Liu Xiaomin also understands her boyfriend's pampering, and gently comforts him: "Just endure for two days." ”
The fragile psychology of divorced men is revealed to their current girlfriends through jokes, just like the relationship between them, which is neither open nor particularly weak-minded.
And this emptiness is just a divorced woman who does not know how to confess her new relationship with her son.
Fearing his son's opposition and wanting to keep a relatively stable new relationship, he can only cover up his uneasiness with an underground love.
Because they have been divorced once, they are afraid of facing family conflicts again.
Hidden love is nothing more than a stopgap measure used by an adult woman to protect her hard-won love.
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Many minefields of divorced love
Unlike Chen Zhuo Liu Xiaomin, Chen Zhuo's ex-wife Li Ping (played by Qin Hailu) has already found a new love.
But in order to work hard, the two people have not planned to have children for many years.
Now that business is stable, the two men have been trying in private to get pregnant and have a child.
Li Ping's current Hong Wei is very kind to her daughter Chen Jiajia and holds a grand party for Jiajia's birthday every year.
At this year's birthday party, Jiajia accidentally found Li Ping's pregnancy test stick.
An enraged Jiajia leaves the banquet and cancels her mother's planned trip abroad.
The daughter did not admit in front of Li Ping that she was angry because Li Ping was pregnant again.
However, in front of Chen Zhuo, he changed his mother's title to Li Ping, and counted down that his mother wanted to give birth to other men for money.
Although Li Ping and Hong Wei have been married for many years, in Chen Jiajia's eyes, Hong Wei will always be another man.
He is the bad guy who destroys his own family, the robber who robs his mother.
When the mother is pregnant with Hongwei's child, she will build a family of three together, and she will be an outsider from then on.
In Jiajia's eyes, his father Chen Zhuo is his own person who has insisted on being single for many years in order to take care of himself.
Dad gave time and energy for himself, and gave up the pursuit of love in order to give himself complete love.
Although her mother will buy herself a lot of expensive gifts, if Jiajia has money, she will still be filial to her father first.
Just like after Liu Xiaomin's divorce, her son was estranged from her, because she did not get companionship, and the child automatically thought that he was the one who was abandoned.
The show also reveals the thoughts of children in some divorced families:
Even if your parents are divorced, the one who accompanies you is the one who cares most about himself.
And even if one of them will give themselves a lot of money, if they start a new family, they are the ones who are abandoned in their hearts.
Divorced men and women who want to remarry and have children face complex parent-child relationships, while taking into account new families and children who have grown up.
Proper and continuous communication is the best way to resolve misunderstandings.
Instead of giving the child what she thinks is the best, like Li Ping, she only gives the child what she thinks is the best, and ignores the softest things in the child's heart.
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Companionship is the rarest romance between divorced men and women
Although Chen Zhuo's plans to celebrate the first anniversary were disrupted by Liu Xiaomin's son and mother.
But Chen Zhuo prepared champagne and flowers after settling his daughter and waiting for Liu Xiaomin's son and mother to sleep.
And Liu Xiaomin simply and romantically celebrated the first anniversary of the love affair of the two people in the garden.
Adults really value a relationship and will also be full of rituals.
Delicate flowers and fragrant champagne, but also record a video of two people celebrating as a souvenir.
These detailed memorials are hints from adults: this feeling is precious.
Sons and daughters always have to grow up, live in school, enter social work, and get married and have children.
Divorce does not represent the end of love, but the beginning of another journey.
As Chen Zhuo said when he advised his daughter:
"Mom and Dad got married and gave birth to you because of love, and Mom and Uncle Hong Wei got married and had children for love."
Whether Mom and Dad divorce or remarry, Mom and Dad love you. ”
This passage really tells the voice of modern divorced men and women, marriage is for love, and remarriage is also for love.
Of course, not everyone is as optimistic as Chen Zhuo, and Liu Xiaomin has been immersed in the regret of her divorce.
Liu Xiaomin's sister spoke up for the divorced woman by comforting her:
"No one is deliberately divorced, and the children will always understand that the mother is not having a good life, how can she have the energy to love the child well."
Whether it is divorce or remarriage, it is to find a way to get along more well with your loved ones.
When you are happy, you can give your children the care you can, you can't live well, and how to take care of others.
It is lucky to find a relationship that can be cherished, and it is the beginning of a person to regain happiness by being able to face the bad past and face the future with renewed optimism.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.