When you were young, did you ever fantasize that the real Ultraman came to your side? There is such a father who fulfills his son's wishes.
When the father dressed in Diga Ultraman costume came to the classroom, it caused everyone to laugh, and netizens said: The real name is envious.
First, do not become a "witness" in the growth of children
Liu Yong once asked: In many pictures depicting dad, you will find that dad does not have hands, why is this?
Because in the child's memory, the father is like a shadow, can see but can not touch.
In life, too many fathers are lacking or even missing the companionship and education of their children on the road to growth.
There was a previous report like this:
A school held a "Daddy Salon", why engage in such an activity?
"Because every parent-teacher meeting, almost all the mothers come, and the teacher wants to communicate with the child's father this time."
As a result, on the day of the parent-teacher meeting, most of the mothers who came were still mothers, only two fathers, but they did not even know how many classes the children were in.
Many fathers slowly become absentees as their children grow up.
Second, a visionary father knows how to give his children companionship
High-quality companionship is not just about being there. For fathers, the impact of words and deeds on children is profound.
Exercise with your child and encourage your child to take risks
In life, the way of education between father and mother is sometimes very different, the mother will always remind the child to stay away from dangerous things, and the father will always encourage the child to try boldly and bravely take risks.
Although the father with the baby is very "wild", it can always bring the child enough courage to embrace the world.
As a father, take your children to exercise and play more, exercise your children's coordination and flexibility in physical exercise, and boys will become more brave and confident because they have more opportunities to explore.
Hands-on with boys and develop creativity
Studies have found that children raised by dads tend to have higher IQs and better grades. Dad's hands-on and imaginative ability will bring more creativity to children.
A father in Shenyang, because of the production of the sun, earth, moon and three-ball instrument with his son, is popular on the Internet.
That day, the mother went to the kindergarten to pick up the child, and the child looked at the dark sky and asked, "Why is it so early in winter?" ”
The mother tried her best to explain, but the child still did not understand.
Later, in order to let the child understand the principle, the father bought a bunch of materials from the Internet and made the "Sun, Earth, Moon and Three Ball Instrument" with the child.
Dad's personal efforts not only eliminate doubts for the children, but also stimulate the children's interest in astronomy.
Third, be the guide of the child
There is a saying that goes like this: The mother decides how far the child flies, and the father decides how high the child flies.
The influence of fathers on their children is self-evident, and it will even determine how high the child's future can reach.
Children who grow up in the father's love, have a strong sense of security, self-confidence and sunshine, and the courage to take risks, tend to have higher ceilings.
Parents have a "validity period", and when the child needs to be accompanied the most, if the father is not present, it is impossible to make up for it later.
As a father, don't take the time to prove that your child is intimate with yourself, but also create intimacy with your child. You know, no matter how big the world is, with the guidance of the father, the child will not be afraid of getting lost.