At about 10:00 a.m., I went to the market to buy vegetables, and happened to meet a girl wearing a mask who took out a piece of paper from her bag and wrote, "Temporarily encounter difficulties, ask for help for 6 yuan to eat and hitchhike, thank you!" "The white paper the size of A4 in black characters is placed on the ground, and small stones and pen pads are also placed on the four corners of the white paper. Girls look also attend high school or freshman or sophomore years. In my doubts about whether she is a liar (after all, a normal person should not carry A4 paper and that kind of ink pen, these two cost at least 3 yuan to buy, to 6 yuan including eating and taking the car is difficult to be a local, even if you eat 1 yuan of buns the remaining five yuan bus fee can not go anywhere) and hesitate to give her money, a grandmother first gave her a one yuan and a five yuan. What made me feel strange was that she took the money and put it directly in her bag, and instead of going straight to the money, she continued to squat there and continue to ask for money, and at this point, I thought it was likely to be a little liar, so she went directly to the market to buy vegetables.
Of course, the purpose of writing this matter is not to discuss whether she is a liar, but to suddenly think that if her child is penniless in the field and the mobile phone is out of power, how the child can solve the current dilemma.
To tell the truth, when I encounter a penniless person in the field, I personally still can't accept the solution that my child directly writes on the paper to ask for help and crouches on the ground to get money for free, after all, the child's limbs are sound and the IQ is normal. It's not that I'm harsh, maybe I was just as panicked when I was a teenager, and even panicked and crying, but I wouldn't ask for money, and I might be stupid enough to go directly to the job search Police uncle called my parents [cover my face]
Our traditional education (including me) from kindergarten to high school graduation is almost no social practice, many children to this stage did not even earn a penny of their own, once they face the dilemma, it is very good not to cry, let alone think of a solution at once.
I have always felt that whether it is family education or school education, in addition to cultivating children's correct three views and instilling knowledge, the ultimate purpose of education should be to solve the problems encountered and make themselves and others live better. To put it simply, it is to apply what you have learned.
I don't deny the importance of knowledge theory, but in reality it is really more important to apply what you have learned. It's like if you let your child learn geography, your child goes out with a mobile phone and doesn't use the map to navigate, you can't find accommodation when you're out, you can't find local tourist attractions, this is really scary.
Back to the above question, the child is penniless in the field, in case the mobile phone is out of power, is it not to tell the child in addition to the train station plane lounge and other public places to provide free charging services, usually go out to eat with the child to say that the general eating restaurant to eat to provide charging services, go out if you are in the downtown away from the free charging occasion then go into these restaurants to eat and charge, these seemingly simple things sometimes really need to teach the child first, as important as teaching the child a variety of safety awareness.
In the morning, when I saw the girl squatting on the ground asking for money, I was also thinking about what to do if I couldn't charge it, I had no money to charge my mobile phone and couldn't get through my parents and friends and relatives and friends, how to do if I couldn't borrow money through various ways, at that time, I only had a thought " Child, you go to the second-hand mobile phone store (market) to sell the mobile phone", after all, there are always second-hand mobile phone trading shops in the downtown. But I think that everyone who is a parent will not let their children not contact themselves, and how they will not be unable to borrow money to come home and eat, this situation should rarely happen.
But as a parent, no matter how much attention, it is impossible to help the child solve all the problems all the time, it is better to exercise the child's problem-solving ability at the beginning, including trying to make some pocket money from an early age, cultivating the child's financial quotient, this is done well, the child's life will be easier than many people. Anyway, I think I just started too late, so that I'm still too poor [laugh and cry]
I also wondered if I really had to let my child carry at least a certain item with him in the future to be worth at least [laughing and crying]