This picture was taken in the intensive care unit,
The old man in the hospital bed has been given a critical illness notice,
For a moment, he woke up in a coma,
Trembling, he said: Kiss, kiss...
When the old lady heard this, tears fell like rain,
She leaned down and kissed her husband affectionately
……
The person who took this photo is
Qinhuangdao photographer, 64-year-old Xu Yingzhe,
The two old men in the photo,
It was his father and mother!
This photo of the kiss won a gold medal at the Hong Kong Film Festival,
Xu Yingzhe said: This is a magical photo,
After the mother kisses the father,
My father miraculously lived more than a year.
NO.1
Brothers and sisters become husband and wife, ordinary days
The appearance of love has passed
Grandpa's name is Xu Guangyu,
Kissing his old partner called Xu Aihua,
They are all surnamed Xu, originally a pair of brothers and sisters,
Their love story,
Just like qiong yao tv drama,
It's a match of fate!
In 1941, Xu Aihua was 6 years old
She has grown into a sensible "big girl".
On a perfectly normal afternoon,
The family came only one than her
A little taller little boy.
The two tallest children are Xu Aihua (left) and Xu Guangyu (right).
The adults told the little boy:
In the future, you will not be called uncle or lady,
Call Daddy, Mother!
That year, Xu Guangyu, who had passed by, had just turned 7 years old.
Only one year older than his sister Xu Aihua!
In fact, the younger sister Xu Aihua is not biological,
Daddy is actually her aunt and brother-in-law!
And so fate goes,
Two children who are not related by blood,
Brother and sister!
A seven-year-old, a six-year-old,
They went to school together,
Growing up together, it is a real green plum bamboo horse!
Brother Xu Guangyu has excellent academic performance,
Every year as the head of the work,
Xu Aihua has always regarded his brother as an example,
Admire him, admire him!
Blossom every year, years and years bright,
At the age of the beginning of the love sinus,
Subtle changes gradually occurred in the hearts of the two people:
The sister's admiration for her brother turned into admiration,
The brother is more caring and loving to his sister...
One day at the age of 17,
Xu Aihua received a letter,
Looking at the familiar font on the envelope,
Her heart was pounding a little fast...
Xu Aihua and Xu Guangyu are in full swing
It was the first love letter she received.
It was her brother who wrote her courtship letter!
After reading the letter, Xu Aihua's face was scalding red,
She wrote back to her brother,
There were only three words written in the letter: I agree!
Just like that, 18-year-old sister Xu Aihua
Married to his 19-year-old brother Xu Guangyu,
Everything goes naturally, simply,
Two beds of large flowers new quilt,
The two new clothes are a testimony to their wedding.
Xu Aihua and Xu Guangyu, who are already parents
In this family of kinship,
There is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Mother is mother-in-law is mother-in-law!
After marriage, they gave birth
Three men and one woman with four children.
Four dolls, all brought up by grandparents.
Family Portrait: Couple with parents, and four children
Became a mother, Xu Aihua
Still fully committed to work,
Breastfeeding is also often grandpa
Pushing the trolley to take the child to the unit.
Tall, handsome and talented Xu Guangyu
There are often some admirers around,
Seeing a lover is sullen and unhappy,
Xu Guangyu hangs his daughter-in-law on his lips every day,
When I saw someone, I said: No one is as good as my daughter-in-law!
The old days became slower,
Carriages and horses mail are slow,
Only enough to love one person in a lifetime;
The days of the past passed quickly,
The years are like water rushing away...
The years have taken away their youthful faces,
But they can't take away their long-flowing love!
This pair of hands holds only one person,
I have only loved this one person in my life.
The eldest son, Xu Yingzhe, said: Don't say you don't believe it.
In fact, even I can't believe it.
My parents have lived together for almost 80 years.
I've never quarreled, never had a red face!
Xu Yingzhe had four brothers and sisters
They all follow the example of their parents,
Once there is a quarrel in the family,
Someone will jump out and say:
Look at our mom and dad!
As soon as these words came out, the wind and waves calmed down.
Old age, children and grandchildren,
Although the days are uneventful,
But they make ordinary days as much as possible
More romance and joy!
Speaking of the most romantic gifts from husbands,
Xu Aihua, who is 84 years old this year
It's like going back to your youth all of a sudden,
She smiled and said, "One year he came back from a business trip.
Bought me a pair of plastic sandals with half heels,
Wear a special foreign atmosphere!
I thought I would always be happy,
Until the end of old age,
Whoever it is,
Can you escape the years and fate?
NO.2
You are my eyes
I want to be your legs!
Xu Aihua said: I will never forget that day,
Afternoon of May 17, 2012,
When I was playing mahjong with my neighbors,
Suddenly, he fell down!
At the moment when the husband fell to the ground,
Sitting next to Xu Aihua
One took him in his arms...
A husband who has been tall and handsome all his life,
Suddenly it's like a changed person,
Xu Aihua also grew old a lot overnight!
Xu Guangyu has been issued 6 times a critical illness notice,
In a 5-year career in therapy,
Although Xu Aihua is already in his 70s,
Although the sons and daughters are also very filial,
But she insisted on taking care of her husband personally,
Feed the medicine, wash your face and wash your body.
No matter how long the husband is hospitalized,
She had been sleeping at his bedside
Small marching bed, inseparable!
Because I am afraid that my wife will be worried and upset
No matter how painful the examination and treatment,
Xu Guangyu never cried out in pain,
I have never lost my temper with my wife once.
Illness made him the only change,
It's about becoming more and more like a child.
I am also becoming more and more dependent on my wife!
Son Xu Yingzhe said:
Once, he was too tired to see his mother,
Father fell asleep again,
Let my mother go home and rest.
Xu Guangyu woke up in the middle of the night,
The first sentence is to ask, "What about your mother?" ”
Can't see my wife,
Xu Guangyu, who has been gentle all his life
He made a lot of noise like a little kid,
No matter how much the son comforts him, it will not help,
I had to pick up my mother at three or four o'clock in the morning.
Xu Guangyu saw his wife coming,
Like a child who made a mistake,
Immediately quiet down...
For five years, Xu Aihua has taken care of children like a child.
Carefully caring for her husband.
Delicious always
Feed it to your husband's mouth first...
It's hot,
Xu Aihua insisted on scrubbing her husband's body every day,
Never shouted tired,
Never said a word of annoyance...
To remind yourself
Give your husband medication on time,
She pasted the whole house
The note "taking medicine" ...
In order to grasp the physical condition of the husband in real time,
Xu Aihua, 80 years old
Give your husband a blood oxygen and blood pressure several times a day!
And the kids said,
Mother has cultivated into half a doctor!
In order to make it easy for the old partner to come in and out,
When I was almost eighty years old,
Xu Aihua resolutely sold the old house that he had lived in for half a lifetime,
Replaced by a new house with a lift.
Wherever you go,
The couple can't stand each other!
When I was young,
He is her eye, taking her to the prosperity of the world,
Old, she was his legs,
It's about going to the market to buy vegetables.
Push your husband too...
Take him for a walk around the neighborhood,
Watch the old buddies dancing...
Take him to the sun,
Breathe in the fresh air...
When the husband's interest is high,
Accompany him to the last inning!
The mall is bustling,
Just push your husband layer by layer to see!
The old house that was once sold was demolished,
Bring your husband to see,
That broken brick,
There are so many happy memories of them...
When you are happiest,
It's with your children and grandchildren...
May 2016,
Xu Guangyu was lying in the intensive care unit again,
This time
The doctor said, "Prepare for the aftermath..."
NO.3
Dude, don't be afraid
I'm walking...
That day, Xu Guangyu, who was sometimes unconscious and sometimes confused,
Start calling your wife's name constantly.
Xu Aihua hurried to the bed and leaned down to listen to him:
Xu Guangyu exhausted all his strength,
Very hard to say to her:
It seems that this time it is coming for real!
Before the words were finished, the 83-year-old Xu Aihua was already in tears,
At this time, the granddaughter also cried into tears on the side!
The granddaughter leaned down and kissed Grandpa's forehead,
Xu Guangyu turned his longing gaze to his wife,
Tremblingly said: Kiss, kiss...
Xu Aihua leaned down,
Gently close your eyes,
Print your lips on your husband's lips...
Seeing this scene,
The children present all shed tears,
Son Xu Yingzhe quickly pressed the shutter,
Photographed this precious moment...
A photo without excessive color,
Why is it so impressive?
Because it is full of two elderly people in their 80s
Affection for love,
The reluctance and nostalgia for each other...
In July 2017, Xu Guangyu, 84 years old
Or to the end of life...
Xu Aihua remembers that it was morning,
The husband was in better shape than ever that day.
Ate half a bowl of noodles for breakfast,
Also ate 5 big cherries.
At 10 o'clock, the children all left,
Xu Guangyu called her to her side and said softly:
"It's true this time, don't be afraid
I walked in a hurry..."
Xu Aihua's tears brushed down,
A partner who has been thinking about others all his life,
In the moment before dying, he was still comforting himself.
Sure enough, as he said,
Xu Guangyu on that day,
Quietly, quietly, shyly, gone...
"I haven't served him enough,"
"Not a day goes by that I don't want him..."
By this July,
Xu Guangyu has been dead for a year,
Xu Aihua always has regrets and worries in his heart,
She hung the room full of paintings and paintings of her husband
Pictures of them from young to old,
Often it's watching
Tears will flow down...
She understands that people go in order,
Sooner or later to separate,
But she was always reluctant ...
From the green plum bamboo horse to the case of the eyebrows,
Those wide palms that have been holding for more than 70 years,
How can you say that to let go is to let go?
Thinking of you and me, young acquaintances,
Thinking of you and me, the teenager knows each other,
Thinking of you and me, getting married,
Thinking of you and me, having children,
Years, how do you go so fast...
How long is love long?
Ten years is too little, a hundred years is not enough...
The 84-year-old Xu Aihua always silently chanted:
I'm going to try to get through the rest of every day,
I will miss you too, I will miss you all the time...
The love between Xu Guangyu and Xu Aihua
And it didn't go away,
They were in love for nearly 80 years
Like most Chinese lives,
Mostly trivial, ordinary and bland,
But why are we always moved by ordinary love?
It is because of their warm pulse, inseparable love,
It is the most authentic, the most rare and the most precious!
That's Chinese
The love of the long stream and the long-term existence,
Warm years,
Amazing time!
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