A woman lives the first half of her life with her parents, and the second half of her life with her lover.
However, I don't know when it began, and the marriage thing began to be gradually forgotten by young people.
Contemporary women seem to be more concerned with their abilities than with youth and marriage.
The other day, Dad and I talked about finding a boyfriend, and to be honest, I didn't want to talk about it.
Because, in my opinion, the most important thing now is to make money, although two people can share the joys and sorrows together, but the pressure will also be great.
Getting married too early is really not necessary.
Many people have told me not to get married too early, otherwise, there will be very little time for myself.
Indeed it is. The second half of a woman's life, the person who lives on, is still herself.
Therefore, as a woman, you can't spell youth and beauty, nor do you spell marriage, but you have to spell these "five things".
1, the ability to earn money
The matter of making money, I think, is something that everyone is pursuing at the moment.
Especially for women, having the ability to make money also means that we have enough confidence to say no to things we don't like.
Whether it is Feng Xiaoqin in "Heart Residence" or Shen Huixing in "Our Marriage", they have given up their careers for their families.
However, in the end, it is not recognized by the people in the family.
What is the point of such a marriage?
On the other hand, Gu Qingyu, as an investment executive, got married when he met someone he liked, felt that his life could not go on, and decisively divorced.
This kind of unintentional behavior is rare in real life.
Not because many women don't want to divorce when they have had unhappy marriages, but because they have lost the ability to make money and are afraid to divorce.
That is the reality.
2. Peace and good attitude
Having a good mindset will be the driving force for us to move forward at any time.
In this life, people always have to experience great ups and downs.
Some people may soon be able to find their way forward, but some people can only stay where they are.
It reminds me of the heavy rain in "A Year Without a Job", she experienced love loss and unemployment, but she never gave up her love of life.
Although she was banned by her previous industry, she impressed Mr. Chen with her perseverance and obtained new job opportunities.
Almost at the same time, Jin Chengwu also fell in love with this strong woman.
So don't feel like you're not being taken care of by life, so give in to life.
The people and things that don't bring you down will eventually make you strong.
3. Independent personality
Independent people can be more desperate.
Because, you put all your hopes on yourself, not on others.
When we were young, we relied on our parents, and when we grew up, the only people we could rely on were ourselves.
No one will pay for your incompetence, and so will your lover.
Before, we used to say that women are very realistic and materialistic.
Today, however, men are also realistic.
But when you look for a boyfriend, when you consider whether the other party has a car and a house, the other party is also considering your academic qualifications and family background.
Therefore, never feel your capital when you are young, and if you don't work hard enough, no matter how good a man is, he won't look at you.
4. Self-discipline and healthy lifestyle
In today's society, the pace of work is very fast, and geriatric diseases are beginning to become younger.
When we're busy making money, we must not forget to exercise.
Because, if there is no health, the rest of the stuff is zero.
Regarding health, it can mainly change from two aspects: diet and exercise.
Diet can cure all our unpleasantness, and exercise can keep our brains permanently "young."
When you have a self-disciplined and healthy lifestyle, you will find that life is so beautiful.
The troubles of life will naturally dissipate.
5. Wisdom and knowledge
Wise women, better lives.
We can have no good background, but we must not have a heart that loves learning.
In ordinary days, keeping ourselves in the habit of reading and reading will not only change our temperament, but also enrich our spiritual world.
Perhaps, we do not have time to see the world, but we can "communicate" with different people through books and feel the culture of different places.
This is the benefit that reading can bring us.
Xiaoyuan sent a message: In the second half of a woman's life, she should live for herself, and should not wronged herself for anyone.
Perhaps, your situation is not satisfactory, but this is not an excuse for us to settle for the status quo.
When there is no light in your life, first let yourself be the light that illuminates your world.
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