All the worlds, all things hustle and bustle.
Be a silent person and let your heart live through.
Perhaps in this way, we can truly find the meaning of our lives in real life.
Erwin Streima once said:
"Whoever has an ideal of life and a plan to realize it is good at silence, and whoever does not have it has no choice but to talk about it."
The reason why people become more and more mediocre is that in daily life, there is no goal, no dream, no fighting spirit, only boasting and mouthing, so ambitious.
And if a person wants to become strong, he needs to observe silently, think silently, and execute silently.
1: Observe silently
After a person has ideals and goals in life, he will truly observe everything around him in silence and explore the things that should be explored.
In the impetuous world of the human heart, there will always be different voices, other people's, their own, in short, none of them can easily calm you down.
Therefore, in this noisy environment, if a person wants to enjoy a moment of quiet quietly, it is actually a rare treatment.
However, when a person stays in some noisy, chaotic environment for a long time, he will naturally feel tired in his heart and then want to escape from this environment.
At such times, we choose to observe the things around us silently, with patience and curiosity to observe things, things, and people.
In this way, we will find that our hearts become quiet.
For when our attention is focused on observation, being a bystander in silence will be of great benefit to us.
Turgenev said:
"A good student can discover his teacher's mistakes, but respectfully remain silent, for it is these mistakes that have benefited him and set him on the path."
Obviously, when we are willing to be an observer, rather than a commentator, we can naturally broaden our minds and see farther and farther.
To put it bluntly, to get along with people, you must know how to observe with high emotional intelligence, not to comment with low emotional intelligence.
Grasp the measure of speaking, timely screen out what should be said and what should not be said, carefully consider, silent observation, feel with heart, and avoid exaggeration.
2: Think silently
Chen Guo, a teacher at Fudan University, said:
"Silence is not necessarily lonely, loneliness has no form, it is the spiritual self-wandering of the lonely.
Pretending to be impetuous is a kind of vanity, to attract attention. ”
We may observe that in real life, many people like to pretend to be deep and pretend to be lonely, but they never understand what deep is, nor do they understand loneliness.
It is very likely that these people choose to be alone just because they want to pretend, but in fact, their hearts are not only anxious, but also extremely boring.
To be a human being, you still have the power of silence.
Just as a person is accustomed to thinking in silence, then they are usually able to open their minds and open their hearts.
Let the mind find the quiet power in thinking, and let your mind go further afield because of the momentary thinking.
Just thinking silently, imagining that maybe I can find my own life direction faster and know how I should live my life now.
To think silently is to find a place for oneself where no one can disturb you, and no one can disturb you.
Then, be at peace of mind and think through yourself.
Mr. Lu Xun, a famous writer, once said:
"When I am silent, I feel fulfilled; I will open my mouth and feel empty at the same time."
The reason why a person chooses silence is that once he really achieves silence, he will find the answer little by little in the process of silent thinking.
Undoubtedly, the answer that can be sought on one's own is stronger than anyone's advice to oneself.
Moreover, in the process of silent thinking, people not only feel full, but also always glimpse the truth of the world.
3: Silent execution
Whether a person observes silently or thinks silently, in fact, he cannot avoid performing such a step.
Because only by taking action can it be possible to realize their original intentions, or ideals and ambitions.
The famous French writer Balzac said:
"When you need to keep water leaking, you have to understand that there are two ways to keep water leaking:
One is the passive watertight, the fool's approach, they use silence, denial, closed doors and other methods, is a real incompetence!
The other positive is watertight and is executed through affirmation. ”
No matter how great a person's inspiration is, or how much self-confidence he has, in the end, everyone who wants to achieve something must be completed through practical actions.
It can be said that silent observation and silent thinking are ultimately prepared for silent execution.
If you want to succeed, then no matter what you do, you must believe that only strong execution can truly create value.
Thinker Franklin said:
"No animal is more diligent than an ant, yet it is the most reticent."
Keep the original intention, calmly and casually, low-key and introverted, down-to-earth, conscientious, but also to think silently.
Because of this, we can truly tap our own potential, find our life goals, implement micromotives, and choose silence when we should be silent.
Quietly build momentum for yourself, store energy for yourself, be diligent and patient, let yourself have the power of silence, one day, the big instrument will be late, and the sharp edge will be revealed.
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