In modern society, maybe the Internet is too developed; maybe the neighbors move around less; maybe the adults are too busy with work to discipline their children... Children fall in love with mobile phones and games from an early age, which leads to unintentional learning.
What would you do if you met a child who had no intention of learning?
Let's think about this question and take a look at how a father in Xianning, Hubei Province, punished his daughter who did not want to study!
Event review
In the video, a teenage girl cries out loud, "Something bites my foot." I couldn't go, Daddy saved me. "No one saved you!" Dad replied very seriously. And urged: "Hurry up, hurry up!" He said in a serious tone: "I said, if you don't eat the pain of reading, you will eat the suffering of life!" The child still called out to His father loudly. Dad said, "It's useless for you to call anyone, it's useless." ”
The father ruthlessly let his daughter work underwater for a few hours, and then asked her: "Is it hard to study?" The daughter shook her head vigorously and replied, "No bitterness, no bitterness." "It's okay, reading is very hard, this is not bitter." Dad said. "I don't. I don't. The daughter said vigorously. This is not bitter, and doing farm work is really not bitter. Dad said.
Fortunately, later, the child finally realized the difficulty of adults and the hardships of life, and said that he would study seriously in the future!
Netizen views:
I led my son to pick up garbage, wiped the tiles of the stairway, and now my son is very obedient and sensible, and he also knows to help me wash dishes, throw away garbage, and study seriously every day, although I can't get 100 points in every exam, I am also satisfied, because my son has worked hard.
——Netizen small bottle cap message
Haha, remembered that I did not enter high school after graduating from junior high school, picked goji berries for two months in the summer vacation, and died bitterly, thinking of doing this for a lifetime, too scary, hurry to re-study, and now sit in the office.
——Netizen Dapeng Bird left a message
I think it's good that I can't give my child everything he wants, but he can give himself everything he wants later.
——Netizens are born beautiful messages
My daughter is not good at studying, I also brought with me to work, she is also addicted to come to work with me every day, angry at me.
——Netizens leave random messages
If this is the daily work of dad and grandpa, then it should always be experienced by her, and if she does not understand the suffering of her parents, she does not know how to cherish the life that her parents have worked hard to buy!
——Netizens good luck 2019 message
Editor's opinion:
Xiaobian himself is a living example. When I didn't know how to read, I am now experiencing the beatings of society! Now I can't regret it! When I was studying, I was envious when I saw that adults didn't have to do homework, could earn money, and could buy things. Just think you can grow up quickly and earn money. I didn't study well, and I came out to work after graduating from secondary school. After entering the society, I discovered the importance of academic qualifications. Academic qualifications are the stepping stones of the work, the academic qualifications do not meet the requirements, even if you like the job, or other aspects of your suitability is equal to zero.
So I'm still in favor of this dad's approach. No matter how hard you try to persuade your child to study well, it is better to let her truly experience the hardships of life. After all, practice is greater than theory. Without being beaten by society, it is true that you will not know that reading is the only way to change your destiny. Reading is only bitter for a while, but life is a lifetime of suffering.
I was thinking: If my parents had been able to let me experience the hardships of life first, would I have studied more seriously and now have a better job? But there is no if. Therefore, the child's education still has to start from an early age. It is because life in modern society is too sweet, children basically have clothes to reach out, food to open their mouths. If there is any need, you can solve it as long as you find your parents, and you can't understand what suffering is.
Do you approve of such an education? What would you do if your child didn't love to learn? Feel free to leave a comment in the comments section.