Blind date compared to other ways to get off the list, although it is easier to succeed, but if after the blind date, will not chat, always talk about the day to death, or it is easy to fail blind date, then how to chat with the blind date to make her interested?
1. Interesting chat atmosphere and the establishment of a sense of harmony
Many brothers think that chatting with the sister should talk about what she likes, think that the girl likes to talk so that they can talk, and will prepare a lot of topics that the girls like in advance, but the result is still that the chat is very blunt and cannot be talked about.
In fact, chatting with girls, the topic only plays an open role, if you want girls to like to chat with you, you need to create a fun chat atmosphere, to interact with the girls, to establish a sense of harmony.
As mentioned above, the girl is an emotional creature, if the chat has been asking questions and answers, such a bland chat girl is not liked, because her mood has not appeared any fluctuations, so be sure to mobilize the mood of the girl in the chat, such as:
M: Hi
F: Hello
M: There are a lot of dogs in your circle of friends, and the shoveler is hard
F: Haha
M: Look at your dog fat, usually there must be no less stealing
F: Yeah, in addition to being able to eat, I can also make a mess of biting my shoes
M: I heard that dogs often want one thing that is like, which shows the depth of love for you
After simply greeting the girl, around the girl circle of friends pet dog as a topic and girls to chat, or that sentence topic only plays an open role, the important thing is to interact with the girl, here are used "shoveling officer" "deep love" to enliven the chat atmosphere, just like the chat between friends, so that a harmonious chat atmosphere is established.
2. Naturally invited objects
Blind date, in a sense, for the purpose of love and marriage is more urgent, so when you feel that it is good to chat with your sister, you can invite girls.
Of course, it is not for you to go directly to the girl, so the purpose is too strong, if the girl feels that you are in a hurry to ask her out, feel that your motivation for dating with her is not purely premeditated, she will never agree, and before clearly understanding the girl's intentions, the act of hastily inviting will expose the sense of need for the girl, in this relationship into a passive situation, can only be screened and selected by the girl, losing the initiative.
So when inviting girls, we must naturally not have a strong purpose, here you can chat with girls with high interest, especially when talking about some common topics, you can throw out an invitation when you feel that the atmosphere of both sides is relatively high, such as:
M: I didn't expect you and your dog to have so many interesting things
F: Oh, a handful of bitter tears
M: Haha, it's so much fun to talk to you, I haven't been so happy in a long time
F: I think so too
M: I heard that the new night market in xx square nearby at night looks good, go and see it together
F: Then wait until you have time
M: Every time I hear this sentence, I feel like I don't have anything to do
F: No
Here by chatting with girls about some common topics to achieve emotional resonance, and then on this basis to invite girls, such an invitation will not appear abrupt, of course, girls may resign, at this time many brothers may give up, in fact, as long as we slightly ridicule each other to lead the other party is completely able to make the sister out.