"Life Scene" Twenty-Ninth Series
You're right to expect
It's just that the world is so secular
What are you hoping for?
One
What is secular?
A person who is originally principled is forced by the environment to choose to abandon principle, which is called secular.
But whether or not to become a worldly person is still up to you to choose. Don't make compromises against your heart because of the worldliness of the moment.
Hopefully your compromise is a voluntary "compromise" at the moment of understanding life.
I've been sitting in my office lately in a daze just thinking about a question: Why do those scoundrels bother me?
If the other person uses emotions to incite the surroundings, or force cunning, or even roll on the ground, why do we still want to persuade him to believe the facts we describe?
Like the noisy neighbors upstairs, they always feel that they are justified and even refuse to apologize. Even after the police came, they first advised you to move out of the community, because "you are downstairs, and what you do will be your loss." "Later, I found out that hitting 110 was in vain to increase my troubles.
Two
It's hard to pursue
Most people try their best to live a "secular" life. What we really want is usually not something we can get by giving up what we have. Do you think that's the case? Oh, you think life is too simple.
A lot of people want fame and fortune. Fame and profit are good things, through the legitimate means to obtain is no problem, the intrigue is much less than satisfactory, the real people to do things are also less, all day thinking about me is not interesting. The key is that the villain has been half a day, or he will be half dead and not pulled back by himself, why bother?
Is it bad to be good when you are an ordinary resident? Man must be self-aware.
I watched a comic strip and inadvertently wrote a paragraph, not expecting to be liked by so many people. The story is about a PhD who marries a college girl and they live happily ever after. In this way, they should know the world very well.
You prepare your lovers full of romance, maybe not as good as going to the mall to buy a brand-name bag; you design the sincerity and meaning of the gift of affection perfectly, maybe not as good as two bottles of good wine and a good cigarette.
The same is true of the people close to you, and the same is true of the strangers who meet in Pingshui. Worldliness, on the other hand, can sometimes reach the goal more simply.
Three
Secular is an oil poem
"What is unworldly?"
"You've had dinner, you've walked out of the house alone, swinging your legs in the park while counting how many leaves are left in the tree in front of you. After counting, I looked up and looked at the stars in a daze. ”
"So what is worldliness?"
"Suddenly, you think that you always got stuck when you were watching a movie with your child's wife, so you pulled out your mobile phone and called the telecommunications. Before you could finish speaking, your wife's phone came, and the child's childish voice came from the other end of the phone: 'Daddy, go home and sleep!' You hurriedly said yes, quickly got off the equipment, and trotted back home. While thinking about the child's homework without checking, my wife's birthday is coming. ”
Earlier was a conversation I had with a friend that I remember to this day.
Some people in the world know the world and hate the world, so they go to the otherworldly; some people are deeply familiar with the world and go to the devil and go to the despicable and shameless city servants; some people know the world and are willing to be worldly and settle down in the world.
A cynical person who does not have a little background and is incompatible with the world is called arrogant and arrogant; a person with profound cultivation and knowledge who is otherworldly is called a high person or a gentleman; and a person who has no little background and is deeply familiar with the world's misery is called a snobable citizen; a person with profound knowledge but no moral cultivation who is well versed in the world's misery is called a despicable and shameless city servant; and a person who knows the world and is willing to divide the world in peace is called a common man, that is, we ordinary people.
Four
It is better for people to live a little more worldly
Even if you have a high level of inner realm, having a worldly heart when socializing is a must, because that's the rule of the game in the real world.
There is a very, very important thing, that is, "self-identification", excessive self-blame will make your self-identification quickly reduced, which will cause your psychological state to not maintain a basic balance, and eventually consume your own energy, which has a great negative impact on the individual.
I was a person who had rarely been praised since childhood, and had been living in a harsh environment, and the worldliness was incompatible with me at the beginning.
Therefore, the most important thing is to maintain a balance between your own inner and external world, even if you want to make great progress, the requirements for yourself can not be too high, especially the requirements for your own moral level, otherwise, the subconscious subconscious internal consumption is continuous, the psychological energy is consumed, there is no energy to support you to make the right choices and decisions when facing external affairs. Severe cases can cause mental illness and split personality.
Self-criticism and self-transformation must pay attention to moderation, so when you see chicken soup for the soul that is inconsistent with your own behavior, you must be careful not to easily put it on yourself.
Also, if you meet people in your life who talk about the high realm all day long, try to keep your distance. Because the high realm can only be reflected in human behavior, what is said on the lips is collectively called "flickering".
Five
Secular passion for entrepreneurship
Now many people want to start a business, and they feel that entrepreneurship can achieve their goals and dominate their lives. Or when it comes to entrepreneurship, we are talking about the implementation and steps of specific entrepreneurship, and we are talking about business models and project evolution with people empty-handed.
But I think the most important thing about entrepreneurship is actually an "entrepreneurial mentality".
Simply put, taking the company's affairs as one's own affairs and doing the things at hand as one's own affairs is the entrepreneurial mentality.
For a "severe obsessive-compulsive disorder patient" like me, entrepreneurship is the best choice for life, and it is also the best rhythm.
Entrepreneurship is not to make yourself advanced, but to let yourself have something to do, something you like to do, and the pride to do something you like. Maybe one day, there is someone in this world who has the same ideas as me, with a higher level of thinking than me, maybe this person just opens a noodle shop, and I will be willing to be a waiter.
This is what I understand as entrepreneurship, this is what I understand as life, and this is what I understand as accepting the world.
Six
I have a stray cat downstairs
There are a few stray cats in the community that are often haunted, and there are many caring people in the community, so everyone spontaneously buys a lot of cages, beds, mats, cat food, and even toys. At first, I didn't understand it, because the continuous breeding of "wild cats" would actually destroy the ecology of the city, but I never expressed my opinion.
Of course, in fact, I don't have a place to express my opinion, and I have long since retired from our owner group. The owner group is also a small secular society, you accept it, it exists, if you do not accept it, it is better to let it disappear.
Anyway, I now accepted the cat, I call it "oolong tea".
Seven
Don't forget your worldly self
The world is the world's red dust lover, is the greed for eating and drinking, is the enthusiasm when the fun, is the snobbish self in the crowd, is not concerned about the face of the noisy - there will be no too great performance or very prominent qualities, and even the characteristics of villains, the whole is the universal sentiment in this universe.
Man will lose to the world, and after all, man will not be able to resist desire.
Therefore, from 2020 onwards, I thought that life would be just a few autumns, and I should play and play, and I should eat and drink. Isn't it best to relax and enjoy life now? Just don't forget to keep capturing information and keep learning.
Final Chapter,
It is you who are awake in the world, and it is you who must learn to be worldly
Finally, I would like to send you a passage from "No Questions Asked":
"The world is so powerful, so powerful that you cannot avoid their existence. But if you understand that youth is only these days, will you still care about the things that the world makes you care about, such as what is glorious and what you have to be loved?
You will praise many things, the rising sun or flowers, but do not forget your preciousness when praising other things, love what you love, and ask no questions. ”
Today's video comes from the production of The Atlas
Today's Topic:
【Talk about your worldliness】
Chuan (zhuǎn) 承(fā) 中 (shì)華(zuì)
文(hǎo)明(de)之(zhī)美(chí)