The first time in the Dream of the Red Chamber, the lame Daoist once sang a song, including two sentences: The world knows that the gods and immortals are good, only the children and grandchildren can't forget! Obsessed parents Gu Laiduo, filial piety to their children and grandchildren who have seen?
Whether ancient or modern, there are no parents who do not hurt their children, but there are many people who are children who are not filial to their parents. It is said that the adopter knows the grace of his parents, and although there are many descendants of the defeated family written in the dream of the Red Chamber, there are also several filial piety children, which is worth saying.
Jia Yun has no father since childhood, and he and his mother are dependent on each other, and when they reach the age of seventeen or eighteen, they want to come out and find an errand, so that they can have a foundation for their lives.
For Jia Yun, it was okay for him to be hungry and frozen, but he couldn't let his mother be frozen and hungry, so he thought of going to Jia Fu to find something to do, but found that it was not so easy.
Jia Yun went to his uncle's house again, ready to send some spices on credit to people to ask for a way, but he did not expect that his uncle was not only cold and numb, seeing death and not saving, but also reprimanded him, but after Jia Yun returned home, he did not tell his mother about this matter.
"Jia Yun was afraid that his mother would be angry, so he did not talk about Bu Shiren, but only said that he was waiting for Second Uncle Lian in the West Mansion, and asked his mother if she had eaten." This is Jia Yun, only seventeen or eighteen years old, he is still a child, but he has begun to pick up the burden of the family.
Li Yanzhai commented on Jia Yun: Filial piety is respectable. This person was later defeated in Rongfu, and he must do something.
Jia Yun's filial piety is reflected in the fact that he concealed that his uncle would not save him from death, lest his mother and uncle be angry; it was also reflected in the fact that he cared about his mother after he returned and did not eat, lest he be hungry for his mother.
Compared with Jia Qin, who had to rely on her mother to come forward to find Wang Xifeng to solve the work, Jia Yun's filial piety was also reflected in the fact that he did not let his mother show her face and ask for people everywhere, but worked her own and took the initiative to take the responsibility of supporting the family.
Don't look at Baoyu is a busy person, not doing business all day, only messing around in the inner circle, but when it comes to filial piety, he is not worse than people.
He saw the osmanthus flowers in the Grand View Garden blooming, originally thought of folding two bottles himself, but suddenly remembered that this is a new flower that has just opened, and did not dare to play first, so he took a pair of bottles, personally filled the water and inserted it, asked someone to hold it, personally sent a bottle to the grandmother, and sent a bottle to the mother.
Qiu Wen, the young man next to him, said: Our second master Bao said that his filial piety was moved, and he also honored him to twenty points. This is not an exaggeration. Baoyu's heart is not only on the girls in the garden, but also in the love of his grandmother and mother.
Baoyu's filial piety made Jia Mu "overjoyed", and when she saw people, she said, "In the end, Baoyu is filial to me, and even a flower can be imagined." Madame Wang was even more to Wang Xifeng, directly praising Baoyu's filial piety, some of which were not, and said two cars of words, and her face was more light than anyone.
Because of Baoyu's filial piety, even the autumn pattern with the flowers is blessed, and it is a reward for money and clothes, which is really a rare good color.
From the reactions of Jia Mu and Madame Wang to Bao Yu's filial piety, we can see that as parents and elders, the occasional filial piety to their children is easily moved and satisfied, which also shows the love of parents for their children.
In the dream of the Red Chamber, there are also many filial piety children, such as Chunyan around Baoyu. Once, the Liu family sent a delicate food box to Fangguan, and Fangguan hated the greasy and greasy, and did not eat much, it was Baoyu and Chunyan who ate it.
After Chun yan finished eating, she also deliberately "left two rolls of crisp" and said, "This is reserved for my mother to eat." This small detail wrote out Chunyan's filial piety. In fact, not long before that, Chunyan was still chased and beaten by her mother.
But if mother and daughter have an overnight feud, no matter what, it is also her mother.
Because of their service to Baoyu, These little ladies such as Chunyan and Fangguan naturally have the opportunity to eat various delicacies. And Chunyan's mother, He Pozi, may not have the mouth blessing, and can eat the exquisite cream pine roll crisp.
Chun yan filial piety, eating herself without saying, but also thinking of taking two rolls of crisp home for her mother to taste, is really a good child of filial piety. Just this small act is enough to show that Chunyan is a kind and filial girl.
There was also a filial piety girl, and there was liu wu'er, who was sick, and she wanted to enter the Yihong Courtyard, not only because Bao Yu had spoken, saying that these girls would be released in the future, but also for more important reasons.
She once said to Fang Guan that when she picked it now, she would fight for my mother's breath and not raise me in vain. The second is to add monthly money, and the family is more relaxed. My heart opened, but I was afraid that this disease would be better. It is to ask the doctor to take medicine, and also save the family's money.
The three reasons why Liu Wu'er wanted to enter Yihong Courtyard were all related to her mother, Liu Sister-in-law, either to fight for her mother, or to earn money and save money for the family.
Miss Qianjin, such as Daiyu and Baochao, are also filial piety. Before and after the death of Daiyu's mother, Jia Min, Dai Yu "served the soup medicine and kept the mourning." He also said that she had "mourned and was wounded, and had committed an old disease." As the saying goes, there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, and the young Daiyu, who is so filial to her mother's bed, can be regarded as filial piety and piety.
The same is true of Baochao, "Since the death of his father, when he saw that his brother could not stick to his mother's arms, he did not take the writing as a matter, but only paid attention to things such as needlework and family planning, so as to share his mother's worries and relieve his labor." It turned out that Bao Chao dropped the poetry book and began to pay attention to family affairs, not because of anything else, but to share the housework for his mother, and indeed he was a filial and sensible sister Bao.
Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is to read less of the original works of the Red Chamber.