Many people believe that a marriage is definitely not a simple two people, but two families getting along. Therefore, the door-to-door relationship in marriage is very important, which is directly related to the concepts, handling, cognition, habits and other aspects of the two families. But is it really possible to be happy just by being right? I am afraid that today we are going to talk about a negative example.
Fassya Fouad, princess of the Muhammad Ali dynasty of Egypt and the youngest daughter of King Fouad.
She is not only deeply loved by the family since she was a child, but also a real beauty embryo, white skin, beautiful appearance, some people say that she and Vivien Leigh have very similar eyes and looks, and even more noble and beautiful than Vivien Leigh.
Therefore, Fassya is the most beautiful princess in Egypt and in the eyes of photographers around the world.
In the 1940s, Princess Fassia was also on the cover of fashion magazines, and Cecil Beaton, a major photographer who had photographed Monroe and Hepburn, praised Princess Fassia's beauty, calling her "the Venus of Asia".
It can be seen that it is not an exaggeration to call Princess Fasya the most beautiful princess when she was young.
However, such a beautiful appearance did not seem to bring happiness to Princess Fasya. By the time she was 17, her father's kingdom was on the verge of collapse. Therefore, at the behest of his father, Fassya was engaged as an emissary to the Iranian royal family and the Iranian prince Pahlavi.
Although Fasya longed for the open world of Europe at that time, for the development of the country, she still listened to her father's advice and married the Iranian royal family at the age of 18.
It is said that before the marriage, the two parties did not even meet, which can be regarded as a real arranged marriage between parents.
But it has the door-to-door view of people, the royal family and the royal family, the princess and the prince, which is probably the most symmetrical marriage relationship.
Moreover, everyone knows that Princess Fassya is beautiful. But what people don't know is that Iranian Prince Pahlavi is not lost, he is not only handsome, but also extremely literate, proficient in three Chinese words, extremely talented.
This is a reflection of the saying that the talented woman looks, such a marriage, anyone will feel impeccable.
But what about the facts? When the princess and the prince had a grand wedding, the two men realized that the truth was not as good as they thought. Why?
First of all, Fassya does not speak the language in Iran, so the couple can only communicate in French.
The rest of the royal family could not interject, and it was obvious that this was a very inappropriate life scene. After all, Fassya also has other important royal members such as her mother-in-law and sister-in-law who need to socialize.
Second, Pahlavi does not seem to be, and he does not show a fascination with Fassya's beauty.
In essence, his ambitions for his career go beyond the pursuit of beauty. Moreover, the two people did not communicate emotionally before, and there was no emotional basis at all. Such a couple, getting along is the kind of person who has their own concerns.
In the end, Fassya gave birth to a princess in the first year of marriage, and did not have children for five consecutive years.
This is absolutely intolerable to the royal family, they need the royal heir, not some beauty.
Therefore, Pahlavi was not happy in his heart, his mother-in-law was not happy, and his sister-in-law also followed suit. In this way, Fassya became the target of everyone.
As a result, Fassya's marriage fell into a cold, uncommunicable situation. However, in order to integrate herself into the royal family, she specially learned Persian. But this can not change anything at all, without relatives, without the support of her husband, Fassya is always helpless.
Once she had a conflict with her sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law actually picked up the vase and smashed it at her. Fassya broke down, and she ran to the Egyptian embassy in Iran to cry about it.
However, for the members of the royal family, there seems to be no divorce if the marriage is not happy. In particular, by this time Pahlavi had become king, and Fassia had become queen.
But she became more and more desperate, because Pahlavi's reputation outside was not bad, and she did not love her husband who was a woman, but just did not love herself. Outside, stories of Pahlavi abound.
In the end, Fasya was dead-hearted, and she used the excuse of being ill to ask to go back to her homeland to recuperate, so that she and Pahlavi were officially separated.
Of course, Pahlavi seems to care nothing about this excuse, because he never really loved his beautiful wife. So Fassya returned to Egypt smoothly, and soon divorced Pahlavi.
Here I have to say a fact: it is very important whether the mother's family is strong or not. Iran would not agree to a divorce, but Egypt continued to pressure Iran, and eventually the two countries could only issue a statement for the reasons of friendly relations: accept Fasya's divorce application, and the marriage was officially closed.
The marriage lasted six years, and there was nothing left for Fassya. Fortunately, she soon began a new life when she returned to China, because Fasya fell in love with Army Colonel Ismail, which was also her distant cousin, and it is said that she once had a favor for Fassya, which is also a way of opening love: two loves.
In 1949, Princess Fassya remarried and fell in love with Ismail. The princess, who had been infertile in the Iranian royal family for five years, soon gave birth to a son, followed by a daughter.
This is probably the pressure on women's oppression, the more you want to have children, but the more infertile. Later, she relaxed herself and got the love she wanted, and there was no pressure anymore, and it was natural to have children.
However, not long after Fassya gave birth to two children, the "July Revolution" broke out in Egypt, and the monarchy was abolished.
Princess Fasya has completely become a "fugitive" in exile, but fortunately, she has love protection, so her life is very good.
Moreover, Fassya lived to be 92 years old before dying, and is known as the longest-lived person of the Farouk dynasty.
In fact, although Princess Fassya left the Iranian royal family, she was not spurned by the domestic people, who generally believed that the princess: educated, courteous, calm, quiet, and had a noble demeanor between her hands and feet.
As for Pahlavi, on the contrary, the reputation is not good.
Her ex-husband Pahlavi later married two more queens, and his third wife, Farah, eventually bore him two sons, but unfortunately it was too late, and there was no need for an heir.
Later, Egypt also looked at the face of Princess Fassia, complained with virtue, took in Pahlavi, and buried him. Faced with such an ending, I wonder if Pahlavi regretted giving up Princess Fassya when he died?