Tao Huayuan 1972
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Hello, I'm Pa.
"Teacher, I don't dare to send a circle of friends, I'm afraid of others pointing fingers" Student Huahua told me very distressedly, she wanted to participate in Teacher Tao's "Positive Emotion Creation Camp" five camps, wanted to enjoy preferential group purchase prices, but she did not dare to send a message to invite friends around her, it was very tangled.
"Hua Hua, my experience has taught me that the people who can really point us out generally don't embarrass you, and often those who make it difficult for us to accept the pointing pointing, you can look at the people who say these words, their own lives are often not as good as yours." 」 Later, I shared my personal experience with Hua Hua.
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Don't take pride in being picky
Because of the relationship between work, I slowly added some big coffee friends in WeChat, there are singers, directors, artists I like, every time I add WeChat before I am very bottomless, often have to use the needs of future work contact, or there is Teacher Tao on the side to make recommendations, I dare to take out the mobile phone.
Every time after adding such a big coffee friend, every time I send a circle of friends, I will think about it over and over again,
"It's too low to say, will it be no nutritional disturbance for XX?"
"Can't send too much, it seems that you have no culture, and you are annoying with nonsense"
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Then after a few days, if I don't see the recently added big coffee interacting with my circle of friends, I will definitely think that the other party has blocked me, do not look at my circle of friends and so on.
However, one day, suddenly the singer I liked suddenly liked one of my circle of friends, and I found out that I had not been blocked, they were still there. Then, from time to time, they also appeared, liked and commented on what I shared.
I have made sure that they are there again and again, and whenever they appear and they speak, they must not be bitterly criticized and accused of sharing.
02
Spit out lotus flowers
Later, after contact, communication and repeated discussion with Teacher Tao, I found that:
Because of cultivation, spitting out lotus flowers is what they demand of themselves.
Because of habit, discovering the good in others is a part of their lives, but irony and criticism are not.
Because of abundance, their rich lives allow them not to spend time criticizing others, but to enjoy things that make them happy.
Because of flexibility, there is no absolute right or wrong, any opinion and opinion, self-justification, they are all accepted.
Because they are open, they are willing to listen to different voices and be exposed to the thinking of people from different life experiences.
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Therefore, all those who can do a good job in their careers, do their profession well, and become "everyone" in their own fields, most of them have good cultivation, excellent education, and are willing to listen and accept, and the influence of such people on us is natural, not mandatory and demanding. Let the change happen consciously and voluntarily, while people become more and more confident.
Comfortable, to be a person who makes people comfortable, is a comprehensive embodiment of quality, cultivation, knowledge, ability, and education.
On the contrary, just like those people who are afraid of students, when they see others sharing their life insights, they say "less poisonous chicken soup for us", see others share the beauty of life, and say "This picture is too much", and when they see others sharing good things, they say, "How much commission do you have to sell this?" Seeing others sharing the harvest of reading, he said, "Yo, do you still read?" ”。 Last week, some students also told me doubtfully that she shared the content of the "Enlightenment Diary" she recently read, and as a result, some people directly said in the circle of friends, "It was pyramid schemed!" "Brainwashed!"
Unless the person who speaks like this is the person who sends you the money, the boss, your party A customer, we have to accept, otherwise their opinions have no value in being adopted, and at the same time, such people have no value in continuing to communicate.
Because people who really care about you, who love you, are reluctant to attack you with words, on the contrary, people who live in darkness, habitual "victim thinking", negative thinking, self-centeredness, stubbornness, and at the same time hold their own poor little self-esteem, will hope that everyone is as bad as themselves.
I'm not happy, why are you happy;
I don't improve, so why can you improve?
I can't make money, so how can you make money?
In short, anyone who is happier than me, happier than me, richer than me is guilty. So they go around belittling and attacking others, even in the guise of "I'm all for your own good" and "I care about you too."
Care is okay, there is no need to do it in such a painful and unacceptable way. If a person's way of expressing love is only to hurt you, then such a person probably does not love, does not love, and carries out pure harm in the name of love.
Can't express, can't love, personal life is a mess, why accept their opinions? Where is their reference value?
It is not that we are not indifferent to criticism and suggestions, but the way in which they are made is enough for us to screen out a large number of people who are not qualified and qualified to criticize and suggest to us.
To be a person who makes others comfortable, we may not be able to give others money, resources and opportunities, but at least we can make the other party comfortable and confident. Such a person must be comfortable himself.
Well, maybe that's my life's mission too? Why did this life come about? 》
Reading next week, I will also come to find out, why should this soul come to the world to go through this suffering! What is my task?
Easy to read on May 2nd~
Five Battalion Reading List:
"Why Did This Life Come"
Create time:
May 2-8
early
Camp morning arrangement
Time: 6:30-7:30 (no training on weekends)
Training format: good book interpretation + shaman's journey + emotional diary
content
Shamanic journey, quickly adjust the body vibration frequency, the body's energy replenishment
Drive away bad moods, eliminate wake-up gas, wake up your body with shamanic drums, and start a happy day and a new life full of vitality;
Morning reading, reading is the cheapest gilding process and the most noble way of life
Teacher Tao will take out the good books he has collected for a long time, read them to you, tell you about them, and stand on the shoulders of giants to see the world together.
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Evening arrangement
Individual arrangements are made according to individual circumstances
content
Rational Exercise Content: Emotional Diary
Keep a diary of your emotions, recall and sort out the emotional state of the day, and keep a rational record
Emotional Exercise Content: The mystery gift package is revealed
Mr. Tao's self-care exercises designed for positive emotion camp students start from the body, fall in love with themselves, and love themselves.
1 Teacher Tao Sixuan personally led
From Monday to Friday, every morning, Teacher Tao Sixuan personally came to the live broadcast room, woke up your body with a gentle voice, and accompanied you to create a good mood and good luck for the day. Live video, no recording.
2 Every week the book is guaranteed in quality and quantity
Teacher Tao Sixuan carefully selects his own treasured books, every week, reading books for you, opening books for you, including but not limited to psychology, sociology, energy, classic literature, poetry and song, etc., enriching the mind and expanding thinking in all aspects.
3 Emotional diary records
Following the bootcamp, you'll get a personal emotional diary that records every joy, every tear, every helplessness, every excitement. Each day spent has more perception and more meaning.
4 Physical training included
On the third night of the training camp, a physical training is provided, from the outside to the inside, from the physical to the psychological, comprehensively improving muscle tension, shoulder and neck pain, back stiffness, low back strain and so on.