From now on, don't do these 3 things again, you will get better and better, more and more excellent
01 Don't stay up late at night
Nan Huaijin once said: "Only those who can control the morning can control life." ”
The plan of the year lies in the spring, and the plan of the day lies in the morning. Going to bed early and getting up early allows us to make the most of the golden hours of the day in the early morning.
Some people say that studying efficiently at night and having a clear mind, so they desperately stay up late and go to bed late, refusing to go to bed until two or three in the morning. Because of sleeping late, the next morning you need to make up for sleep, if there is no time to make up sleep, you will be dizzy, seriously affecting the next day's work and learning efficiency. In the long run, it will also seriously affect health.
Everyone likes to sleep late, especially in winter, sleeping in a warm quilt, it is so happy. A person who can get up early must be a person with strong willpower, not only to fight against his own inertia, but also to get himself out of the comfort zone of life.
Staying up late seems to prolong our lives, but in fact, the time we steal from the night will be doubled back to our physical health, which is not alarmist. The depletion of health by staying up late will not spare anyone, whether it is a young person who is physically strong or a middle-aged person who is under a lot of pressure.
Staying up late, staying up is life.
Really powerful people, have a good sleeping quotient, can control themselves not to stay up late, and always work and live in a positive state.
From now on, please don't stay up all night and sleep, you will get better and better.
02 Don't please others
Yi Shu said: In the short decades of life, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others.
When we come to this world, why should we please others and make ourselves so humble? Why in a relationship, knowing that it is useless to please, or do your best to please, to cater to the other party, and not hesitate to give up your dignity?
At the end of the day, it's the loss of self.
In this life, people come and go in a hurry, and meeting and acquaintance are fate. Life has trekked through the mountains and rivers, it is not easy, then try to choose a comfortable relationship to operate, do not have to please, get along easily, no calculation, no calculation, such a relationship can go long.
What is the most comfortable relationship between people? After reading a passage and sharing it with friends, it was: "I gave you the spring light of March, you gave me the Peach Blossom of April, and the true feelings of the world can last forever." ”
In interpersonal relations, good interpersonal relations between people must be based on equality and reciprocity, not one party's compromise, nor the other party's infinite tolerance.
In the relationship between the sexes, there is no need to use flattery to get true love. Love pays attention to equality, and only by running in both directions can we fulfill the most perfect emotions. As the writer Li Bihua said: "If he loves you, he doesn't have to please you, and if he doesn't love you, he doesn't have to." ”
Instead of struggling to please, learn to love yourself first.
From now on, please stop pleasing others, you will get better and better.
03 Don't snub your parents
In this life, no one owes, only to their parents.
In the vast sea of people, it is a privilege to be able to become a child of parents. From the moment we fell to the ground, the fate between us and our parents entered the countdown day by day.
It's very sad to think about. Once upon a time, my father was tall and handsome, and he was the pillar of the family. The mother is beautiful and gentle, and runs a warm harbor. We have been growing up vigorously, ignoring the aging of our parents. I don't know when it started, my father's back was hunched over, he was stumbling, his mother's eyes had been spent, and his black hair had turned white...
When people are old, they are easy to nag, no matter how busy we are, don't dislike the nagging of our parents, and patiently listen to them talk about those chickens and dogs that do not know how many times they have been repeated, that is, filial piety.
People are old, it is easy to get sick, today fell a fall, the next day the blood pressure is high, just returned from the hospital for a few months, there are new problems, we are tired, do not hate parents sick, they do not want to get sick, but their physical function has gradually declined in the passage of time.
People are old, it is easy to be emotional, parents express love in thousands of ways, do not dislike the love of parents is too clumsy, they may not be able to express miss, but never stop missing us.
This sentence of writer Bi Shumin has awakened countless people: "Parents are here, life still has a way, parents go, life is only the way home." ”
For the rest of your life, love Mo wait, filial piety is not late, don't let yourself leave regrets for the rest of your life.
From now on, please stop snubbing your parents, you will get better and better.
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