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The writer Isaibei once said:
Life sometimes seems like a lot of choices, but in fact there are no choices. We are often forced into the corner of life, and then fate will tell you that many people will eventually miss, many things have no results, and many emotions are wrong again and again.
There will always be all kinds of unsatisfactory in life, such as life feelings, and so is work and career.
Yu Minhong said that under normal circumstances, we have two states of doing things, one is that we have to do it, and the other is voluntary self-realization. And the person who can finally reach the highest peak of life must have a state of perseverance!
Voluntary self-realization because of hobbies is often able to do more with less.
But how many people are doing jobs they like?
Most people are forced to grow up throughout their lives.
Since you can't change others, you can't change the environment, then accept reality and change yourself.
Develop a thing from unloved and have to be done, develop into an interest, and finally achieve a career with strong willpower to reach the climax of life.
Interest is important, persistence is more important
As the saying goes: interest is the best teacher.
Chen Jingrun, the "Prince of Mathematics", has had a special love for mathematics since he was a child.
In high school, he heard a very philosophical story from his teacher: the queen of natural science is mathematics, the crown of mathematics is number theory, and the Goldbach conjecture is the crown jewel.
The magical "Goldbach conjecture" made Chen Jingrun even more obsessed and obsessed with mathematics.
He devoted his life to the study of mathematics, tirelessly and tirelessly.
Working more than 12 hours a day, even walking and reading, I don't know how many times I hit trees and street lampposts, even if I suffered from disease, I never stopped pursuing mathematics.
His "1+2" theory has been praised by the international mathematical community as "Chen's theorem" and is recognized as a major contribution to the study of goldbach conjecture, which is the brilliant culmination of the sieve method theory.
Mathematics for Chen Jingrun is a love from small to large, and it is also his life's interest and career.
However, chen Jingrun who either loves mathematics can become Nie Weiping without loving Go, or he can become another Bill Gates without loving video games.
There are only a few examples of achievements because of interest.
Many people have no interest in what they do at first, and even some resistance.
Over time, those who are responsible for themselves and for their lives learn to accept and face it, and actively find fun and cultivate new interests in it.
Their attitude changed from reluctance to voluntariness and self-awareness, and if they persisted long enough, they could achieve something.
Alibaba is well-known, and people know that Ma Yun is a famous entrepreneur, but few people know that his biggest hobby is singing: he and Li Jian have sung legends, and they have collaborated with Faye Wong on singles.
It is said that Alibaba's previous party was Ma Yun's personal concert every year, and everyone even laughed that Ma Yun was a singer who was delayed by business.
There are so many choices on the road of life, don't be blinded by simple "interest", everyone deserves more possibilities.
Change the direction, change the thinking, the earth is round, even if you go around in a circle, you can find the goal in your original heart, but this way to insist on going.
Because, while it's important to be interested, it's more important to stick to it.
Reluctantly accept, it is better to take the initiative to bear
There is too much helplessness in life, and sometimes in order to get what we want, we have to force ourselves to do something we don't like.
What we need at this time is the mentality of accepting the facts and the courage to face it hard.
Yu Minhong said: Any successful person has a common characteristic, that is, they have the courage to do what they are most afraid of.
He had average grades in college and a low level of English. After graduating, he stayed at Peking University to teach, and there were always students who asked him the meaning of a certain word.
As a teacher, he didn't know, and could only say, "I'm sorry, I can't think of it now, I'll tell you tomorrow." ”
The next day, when he told the student the meaning of the word, the student encountered a new word, Yu Minhong still did not know, had to say: "Sorry, I forgot this word, tomorrow to tell you." ”
Over time, he noticed that the students looked at him with some contempt.
In desperation, he had to start nibbling on words again, eventually turning himself into a vocabulary expert, which also stimulated a strong interest in English.
Later, he founded New Oriental and developed English education into his lifelong hobby and career.
At first, it was forced to do it, and then it was voluntary self-realization, and every step of life, every suffering experienced, will not be in vain.
When we went to school, our parents told us that only by studying well can we have more choices and a better life.
After work, in order to survive, we have to climb and roll, and it is possible to find a direction for progress and development.
There are some things we can not choose, can not resist, rather than reluctantly bear, it is better to cultivate their own sense of responsibility, take the initiative to bear, slowly from fear of difficulties to familiarity, and finally experience the sense of achievement of victory.
Bravely face the fear in your heart, be strong to accept the devastation of fate, change your mentality, and adjust your state, in order to better meet the challenge and harvest the gift of hard work.
Perseverance, towards the highest peak of life
Dickens: "Tenacious perseverance can conquer any peak in the world." ”
Life is like climbing a mountain, and it is like crossing the sea.
Marx: "Life is like the ocean, only the strong-willed can reach the other shore."
Mandela, the "Founding Father of South Africa", was born into a family of South African chiefs, and because he was the eldest son in the family, he was designated as the heir of the chiefs.
However, Mandela had a cult and yearning for national heroism in his heart, and he "never wanted to rule an oppressed tribe as a chief", but instead decided to "devote himself to the cause of national liberation in the name of a warrior".
In order to overthrow the racist white rule of South Africa and create a democratic and unified new South Africa, he organized and led the "Contempt for Unjust Decrees Movement" and created the "National Spear", the national military organization of South Africa.
In 50 years of arduous struggle, he endured 27 years of inhuman imprisonment, but he relied on his strong willpower, perseverance and perseverance.
Eventually, Mandela went from being a prisoner to becoming South Africa's first black president.
Success is always accompanied by pain and hardship, many people pay a long time, a lot of energy, but in the end because of lack of perseverance, failed to conquer the peak of life.
Because, a person's success may rely on certain coincidences, but ultimately rely on perseverance of courage and determination, adhere to the always hard work and struggle.
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Whether it is a person who is interested, or has talent, or reluctantly achieves a big cause, ups and downs and hard work are the only way.
Since some things cannot be chosen, we should accept and adapt, meet life in a better state, and spend every day of our lives.
Whether it is voluntary and self-conscious, or having to do it, without perseverance and perseverance, no matter how talented people are, it is impossible to reach the highest peak of life.
Those who are enviable have grown up in the baptism of storm after storm.
Fighting to the point of powerlessness is an attitude and a choice.
This kind of attitude is the real appearance of success, and this choice is the shortest path to success.