Love is a very beautiful thing.
Longing for love, wanting to have love, it's an instinct.
In feelings, whether it is a man or a woman, everyone has the right to love someone, and they can also take the initiative to pursue the love they want.
For taking the initiative to pursue a person, some people may feel that as long as they are sincere enough, then the other party will definitely like themselves and be willing to come to their side and be with themselves.
However, in fact, if one person is interested in us, we do not have to exert too much effort at all, and we will naturally walk together, and if one person has no interest in us, even if we are careful, it may not be useful.
Like or dislike, many times, there is no way to force, if you don't like, no matter how long the time, no matter how much you pay, it will not make any sense at all, but it will only seem futile.
Therefore, what belongs to us, we must grasp, and we do not have to force what is unintentional to us. Generally speaking, when a man has no interest in you, his performance will be obvious.
You are not proactive, and the response is also very perfunctory.
With a guy, if he's not initiating at all, you really don't have to make any excuses for him.
As an adult, a man who is interested in you and wants to be with you will not be indifferent.
In front of the people you like, men will be very active, take the initiative to send you messages, take the initiative to find various topics, take the initiative to keep in touch with you, and every day, he will be particularly enthusiastic about you.
On the contrary, if a man is not active with you at all, you are always active between you, even if you are very active and positive, he is still just very cold, and he does not want to respond at all, then there is really not much other reason, he really does not like you.
You often take the initiative to find him, he is not stupid, not to understand what you mean, he clearly knows that you are interested in him, he is still still unwilling to get close to you, a very repulsive look, that is actually his truest meaning.
Because he has no interest in you and doesn't want to develop with you further, he really doesn't have much emotion to deal with you, and he's not so willing to chat with you and always spend time on you.
For him, to deal with you, to contact you, that is just a torment, that is just a waste of his time.
Rather than spending his time on you, he's more willing to do something else, even if it's nothing.
There is no desire to share and no attention to you.
The more people grow up, the more they often learn to be cold and warm and self-aware, not always telling people about themselves, and caring about some people who are not so important to themselves at all.
They will only face a number of things on their own, and will only share with each other and care for each other with the people who really matter.
That is to say, a man who likes you and is interested in you, in front of you, he will be very willing to share, willing to tell you some of his past, willing to share his current experience with you, willing to tell you a lot of his thoughts.
He will always want to share his own affairs with you, will also pay special attention to your things, will directly ask about your affairs, your updates, he will pay special attention to it, and will also leave his own traces.
You will find that he is more open to you, is willing to let you into his world, and always wants to come to your world.
The more willing you are to share with you, the more concerned you are, the more interested he is in you, unwilling to tell you anything, what you like, what you don't like, what you have experienced, and the man who has never been curious, he is not like you.
I don't like it, I don't have any will, so I don't bother to tell you, so why should he care about your affairs, why should he pay attention to it.
Maybe he can pretend to say how much he likes you, but he really can't tell you too much and remember your bits and pieces.
Avoid dating, and meeting will only be very choppy.
Someone who likes you very much will always want to meet you, even if they have just met, and the next moment they will want to meet.
All the time, he will want to see you, and when he is with you, he will always be very generous, will be willing to pay for you, spend some money for you, think you are worthy, you deserve it.
In his eyes, you are a very dazzling presence, and you deserve to have a lot of very beautiful things.
Basically, whenever there's time, he'll ask you out, and he'll always take you to something delicious and send you something.
And if a man has no interest in you, you are not the type he likes, he is not willing to meet you all the time, even if he occasionally asks you out, it will only seem particularly insincere.
For example, it is basically a temporary idea, for example, it is never just a casual talk. It's not because I want to see you, so I ask you out, but sometimes I'm bored and want to find someone to pass the time.
Even so, when you meet, he will only try to reduce expenses as much as possible, appear particularly stingy, and will always offer to share the cost with you, or even just let you pay the bill, always want to spend your money, let you pay more.
Of course it's not because he doesn't have the money, it's just that he's not willing to spend it on you and feels that spending money for you isn't worth it, and there's no need.
Men who have no interest in you, don't initiate, don't pay attention, don't spend money.
When you meet such a man, you don't have to have any illusions about him, although it is better to just give up.
You don't have to be unwilling, you have to want him to see your goodness, you have to make him like you.
It's hard for you to like someone who doesn't like you, and men are even more so.
It doesn't matter, he doesn't like you, it's actually nothing, it's not that you're bad, it's not that you're inferior to others, it's just that you just don't happen to be the type he likes.
Emotional things, mutual liking, that will be more meaningful.
Give up on him, you just go and find someone who also happens to like you more and doesn't need you to work too hard.
Text/Tan Meng
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