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A ray of sunlight poured into the room through the gap in the curtains, and I was awakened. I looked around, this is a new house that my husband and I bought after we got married, although it is not big, but it is fully furnished, warm and elegant. I turned my head to the side, and my husband was still asleep, breathing evenly, and he looked very sweet.
My name is Li Xue, I am 28 years old, and I am a designer for a clothing company. Due to the excellent work, the income is also good. I am more introverted, but I am very assertive, especially at home. I am enjoying my life now, having a job that I love, and having a caring husband.
My husband's name is Wang Hao, and he is a programmer in a company. I woke up early that day to make him a delicious breakfast. Suddenly, I stumbled upon his phone, and the lock screen showed a selfie of a strange woman. My heart suddenly felt like it was being immersed in ice water, and the chill was coming to my heart.
"What's that? You give me an explanation!" My voice trembled.
Looking at his helpless appearance, my tears were rolling. The corners of my mouth twisted, trembling, and I glared at him fiercely. I tried to ask him out loud about what he had done, but I found that I couldn't make a sound at all, only a few dry coughs.
Seeing that I reacted so much, Hao Hao hurriedly stepped forward to explain, but was pushed away by me. I covered my face, tears welled up in my eyes, and I even choked a little.
I waved his hand away, covered my mouth and ran into the bedroom. I wept bitterly in bed, buried my head deep in the covers, and let out a heart-rending wail. My heart was filled with endless pain and despair, and I began to doubt my own judgment and wonder if it was all true.
I cried for a long time and finally calmed down. I took a deep breath and tried to calm myself down and think about the situation at hand. I need to figure out what the hell is going on.
After further investigation, I finally found out her identity. Her name is Xia Yun, and she is a barmaid in a nightclub. Hao Hao met her at a company annual meeting a few months ago, and after that, the two kept in touch.
My heart was struck again, as if ten thousand sharp swords were cutting through my heart. It turned out that Hao Hao really had another woman outside! And it was such a dirty and obscene profession! My love for him began to waver.
What makes me even sadder is that there are some problems with our sex life as well. In the past, we were like glue and talked about everything. But recently, he has started to be a little distant and cold to me, and sometimes he just rolls over and falls asleep after doing it. I thought it was my age and shape that was starting to make him lose interest, so I worked harder to stay in shape in the hope of getting him back in. Unexpectedly, the reason turned out to be someone else!
Thinking of this, my heart felt as if it had been hollowed out by life, and the pain was unbearable. I sat down on the floor, tears streaming back into my eyes. I looked at myself in the mirror with a haggard face and pear blossoms with rain, and in a trance, I could barely recognize who it was.
I covered my face and wept bitterly. My body trembled uncontrollably, and large tears rolled down the floor and soon accumulated into a small pool. I felt that my whole world had collapsed, and my love for Haohao, my trust in this marriage, and my vision for the future had all come to naught.
At this moment, Hao Hao walked in. He was startled when he saw me like this, and hurried forward to comfort me. However, I have lost all trust and love for him. I ducked from him, glared at him, and shouted, "Get out of here!"
"Explain what? Explain how you hooked up with that shitty woman behind my back?" I yelled.
"Shut up! I interrupted him, "How long have you been hooking up? a few months? Or a year? Are you tired of our marriage and that's why you're extending your claws to that filthy woman?"
"Explain what? Are you already in bed? Has she made you happy? Are you tired of playing with her, that's why you want to come back to me?" My tone was sarcastic and angry.
"Enough, I don't want to listen to your lies anymore!" I covered my ears and wept bitterly.
My brain was in a mess and I couldn't accept the facts. I wondered bitterly, could it be that our years of affection had come to naught, that was his promise and promise to our marriage, that I had loved him so wholeheartedly, and had entrusted my whole life to him, and that he had broken my heart so much.
My love for him was torn apart by his own hands, and I could no longer find that strong love in my heart, replaced by boundless pain, betrayal, and anger. I want to tear him apart, bite him apart, and make him pay the same price as I do.
My eyes were red and tears were pouring down. I covered my mouth and let out a heart-rending wail. My body curled up in a ball, shivering incessantly. I hugged my knees and buried my head deep in it, like a helpless child.
I scratched my hair in pain, leaving bloody marks on my arms with my fingernails. My expression was twisted and hideous, like a madman. I swept everything to the floor and vented my anger and pain.
Seeing this, Hao Hao was frightened and hurriedly stepped forward to hug me. But I was so desperate for him that I struggled hard, shoved him hard, and screamed, "Get out of here! I don't want to see you again!"
Just as we were going back and forth, the doorbell rang.
"Who is so untimely!" I shouted roughly, wiping away tears from my eyes.
Hao Hao was also startled by the doorbell, hesitated, but got up to open the door.
"Xuexue, it's your mother who is here. Hao Hao turned his head and said in a somewhat helpless tone.
"Mom?" I was stunned, quickly tidied up my appearance, and quickly got up to open the door.
Sure enough, there was my dear mother standing outside the door. When she saw my embarrassed appearance, she was startled: "Xuexue, what's wrong with you? Why are you crying like this?"
The arrival of my mother calmed my mind a little. Looking at her concerned gaze, my heart was mixed. On the one hand, I feel very kind, just like when I was a child, my mother always understood me and forgave me. On the other hand, I felt a little ashamed that I was no longer a little girl and that I should face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks in life independently.
My heart was once again filled with confusion and contradictions, one moment I felt that Hao Hao was innocent, and the other I suspected that he was quibbling. I had a splitting headache, I was overwhelmed, and I didn't have an opinion.
In the end, under the repeated persuasion of my mother, the three of us sat down together and had a good talk about the whole story.
"But your relationship seems too close!" I said puzzled.
"I know, I did go a little too far. Hao Hao lowered his head, his tone a little self-reproachful, "But I really just want to help her, and I have never done anything out of the ordinary." "
"Then why are you hiding it from me? Why are you hiding it from me?" I asked.
"Because I'm afraid you'll be overly suspicious and suspicious. You know, I love you with all my heart and have never had the idea of cheating. Hao Hao said sincerely.
I began to reflect on whether cheating was really the root cause of the rift in our marriage? Perhaps, the deeper reason was the lack of sufficient communication and mutual understanding between us. As Hao Hao said, he had good intentions, but he went a little too far, so much so that I had too many suspicions.
I looked at Hao Hao, at this man I had loved for many years. Now, his eyes were full of guilt and self-blame, and even some pleading and expectation. I knew he was begging for my forgiveness and hoping I could trust him again.
I looked at my mother, and she had a look of anticipation on her face. I know she wants us to be reconciled. However, I was at a loss to forgive him so easily.
It was as if my heart had been torn in half by a big invisible hand, half longing to forgive him and start over; The other half can't let go of it, and is still haunted. What should I do? Should I listen to my heart, or should I listen to my reason? I was lost in thought, and for a moment I became confused about the future.
In this way, the three of us were silent for a long time. In the end, it was Mom who broke the deadlock.
"Children, be considerate of each other and be more tolerant. The road of affection is not smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that there will be some twists and turns. The key is to use patience and wisdom to resolve misunderstandings, rather than giving up easily because of a small thing. "
Mom's words touched both of us deeply. I realized that there will inevitably be some twists and turns in married life, but as long as we are considerate of each other and resolve them with love, we will definitely be able to get through them.
I looked at Hao Hao, and his eyes revealed sincere apologies. I know that he truly loves me, but his way of doing things is a little too simple and naïve. And I realized that I was a little too sensitive and suspicious. If we could have communicated and understood more, none of this would have happened.
"Xue Xue, I'm really sorry for making you sad. In the future, I will definitely act cautiously and cherish our relationship. Hao Hao said sincerely.
I nodded and said solemnly, "I forgive you." In the future, we must communicate more and not let this kind of thing happen again. "
And just like that, we reconciled. But this experience has benefited me a lot, and it has also given me a new understanding and understanding of marriage.
Married life is not all smooth sailing, and there will inevitably be some twists and turns. However, the key lies in whether we can use enough patience and wisdom to resolve misunderstandings and rifts between us. If we are always suspicious of each other's every move with prejudice and suspicion, then the road to marriage is destined to be bumpy.
On the contrary, if we can look at each other with an understanding and tolerant attitude, put ourselves in each other's shoes with empathy, and resolve all misunderstandings with love, then the road to marriage will be smooth. Like this time, if I had been more understanding and tolerant, instead of blindly suspicious, things wouldn't have gotten to this point.
No one is perfect, and so are feelings. We need to learn to be considerate of each other and heal each other's wounds with love. Only in this way can our marriage be long-lasting, supporting each other in difficult times and sharing in happy times. This is the biggest lesson and experience of this experience.
As my mother said, the road of relationship is not smooth sailing, the key is whether we use wisdom and patience to resolve all difficulties. As long as we carry this seed of love, we will be able to bloom in the desert of life.