Some people set the goal of surpassing someone as their own transcendence.
So, drunk and dreaming of death, moving forward. But it was a distant dream.
Chase back and forth, the more chasing the worse the farther away.
In fact, having a goal in life is not a bad thing. With goals, there is motivation, and with goals, there will be hope in life.
However, people's goals must also be realistic, blindly arrogant, and can only shatter hope. Let the dream always be an unattainable dream.
Life is not to surpass others, but to constantly surpass oneself. That's the ultimate goal.
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People should recognize themselves and do what they can.
Everyone's innate conditions are different, so we can't blindly worship and follow others when they see what they have accomplished.
What you are suitable for, in which aspect you have an advantage, you must have a clear understanding.
For example, an athlete, whose physical condition is only suitable for gymnastics, but to practice weightlifting, or to practice other sports that are not suitable for him, can only waste time in vain. It won't get good grades.
Where you have advantages, you will develop in which way. This is like Sun Tzu said: "Know thyself and know the other, and never lose a battle." ”
They don't understand their own strengths, but they have to do what they are not good at, and failure is doomed.
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Constantly surpassing oneself is the success of life
Every day there is progress, even a little bit, is a remarkable achievement.
As the saying goes: "Diligence is like a seedling in the spring, it does not see its growth, but it increases day by day." "
One bite is not a fat person. I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
Life is to constantly temper yourself, let yourself make progress every day, day by day, take it slowly, and you will definitely achieve great things.
Once, I loved to watch two programs on TV, one was the Sutra of Wealth, and the other was I love invention.
What is presented here is the real story.
In the Sutra of Getting Rich, almost everyone goes through several failures before they finally succeed.
For example, there is a turtle keeper, he is very careful, afraid that the water is dirty, let the turtle get sick and die, every day will be replaced by water, but the turtle still has a large number of deaths. Later, when I consulted the experts, I learned that the water was too clear and the turtle was not suitable, so there was death, and later when he changed the water, he left half of the original water, so that the turtle never died again.
Just a little bit of experience. Slowly you can become an expert.
I love the characters in the invention, and even more so, every invention of a device, is transformed countless times. The problems that arise are improved one by one, and finally they can become a perfect object.
In life, every success is the result of unremitting efforts to surpass oneself.
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Staring at celebrities is easy to lose yourself
The celebrity effect is appealing.
This is also a very confusing place.
You know, there is only one Ma Yun in the world, and there is only one Li Ka-shing.
Want to follow in their footsteps, almost zero. We might as well do our own thing down-to-earth.
Once saw a report, a high-talented student, the college entrance examination was originally a physics major, but at that time by Chen Jingrun's "Goldbach conjecture" influence, he was fascinated by the calculation of mathematical problems, in the university, he no longer worked hard to learn this major, specializing in mathematical calculation, his goal is to do the second Chen Jingrun.
Because he devoted all his energy to mathematics, his major was abandoned, so that he did not even get a college diploma. Only one certificate of karma was taken back.
After going to college, I didn't get my diploma, and my job was gone. Now, he can only be reduced to the point of eating low to survive.
People who know him, mention his life experience, all sigh.
Don't get lost in life, if you lose your way, it is very sad.
We are just ordinary people, not a saint-level figure. Let's not set our goals too high. We can't reach or complete goals that are too high, and we live in the moment and try to do what we can do.
Our greatest enemy is not others, but ourselves. If you can beat yourself, you win.