The circle of friends is what many parents like to do.
The original intention of The baby was to record and share the moments of children's growth, but there are always some "enthusiastic" viewers who like to judge the children and add to the heart.
A few days ago, Zhang Xinyue was angry with netizens because her daughter was criticized. Some people say that she is too glassy, and she does not know that after becoming a mother, she will really explode in place when she hears some words.
Zhang Xinyue's sharing of her daughter's photos has attracted criticism
Zhang Xinyue recently posted a photo of her daughter sitting on a slide on the Internet, in order to protect the privacy of the child, she thoughtfully added a lot of stickers to the photo, but she did not expect that in the end, she did not escape the fate of being "provoked" by netizens.
Some people say that the child is so thin and small, and the hair is yellow and small, questioning the mother's failure to raise and take good care of the child; some people say that the child has a large brain, and it is inferred that the child is either born with abnormal development or is genetically affected...
Questioned that the child was not raised well, Zhang Xinyue endured, but when someone said that the child's brain gate is mainly related to congenital development abnormalities and genetic factors, she could not bear it anymore, and directly angrily said: "So please ask, what is your major at Tsinghua University?" ”
To tell the truth, Zhang Xinyue's reply has been polite, but there are still netizens who say that she has a glass heart.
Let's not say that it is impolite to arbitrarily evaluate a person's appearance, just by some appearances seen by the naked eye, to speculate whether people have not taken good care of the child, whether the child is abnormal in development, is this really the cultivation that a person should have?
Just by virtue of the child's big brain, go to attack the child's possible congenital development abnormalities, and ask which mother can bear it?
Children are the biggest weakness of mothers, and almost no mother can tolerate others hurting their children, even the slightest unfriendly comment.
Zhang Xinyue is not the first mother to be angry because her child has been criticized, Yi Nengjing and Tao Xinran have both been viciously attacked for their daughters, and they have angrily tore the "bad critics" on the field.
For a mother, the child is the biggest bottom line, and everything that may hurt the child cannot be tolerated.
When the mother can't hear these words
In addition to maliciously attacking children will make their mothers explode in situ, some seemingly "harmless" words in daily life will also make many mothers turn their faces immediately, such as "how do you become a mother".
The child is crying and coaxing badly, the child's development cannot keep up with the rhythm of the large army, the child accidentally dropped a bag... Many moms receive a "performance score": How did you become a mother?
Mothers care about children more than anyone, children can't keep up with development, crying and crying, she is more anxious than anyone, but no one is born to be a mother, sometimes even if she tries her best, she may not be able to get the desired effect.
The phrase how do you not only obliterates all her efforts and efforts, but also presses her to the ground and rubs her hard.
Similar words include, but are not limited to, "How can a child be so thin", "You have a problem with your milk", "Isn't it just with a child?" "Didn't you give him less to wear?" Eat on fire? ”......
The child is the biggest weakness of the mother, no one in the world loves the child more than the mother, and every mother expects to give the best care to the child and let the child grow up healthy and happy.
However, no one is born to be a mother, although they are trying to learn how to take better care of their children and be a better mother along the way, but when their children are running in, it is inevitable that there will be mistakes or imperfections.
At this time, the blame did not help except to make the mother sad. Mother's efforts need to be seen and understood, and the growth of mothers also takes time, and it is the best help to be more tolerant of mothers and less accusations from above.