For women, if there's anything more terrible than death, it's disfigurement. Ancient sayings such as "langcai female appearance" and "female appearance for self-pleasing" are all expounding the importance of appearance to women.
November 8, 2020
A young woman in Jinan, Shandong Province, returned home from work at a beauty salon. Seeing that his wife was full of exhaustion, the husband volunteered to cup the fire for his wife to relieve his fatigue. However, this act of loving his daughter-in-law pushed his wife into the abyss of despair.
In the process of cupping, before relaxing, the husband accidentally caused a fire because of the operation, and this young and beautiful hot mother was directly engulfed in flames, resulting in a completely unrecognizable,
Extensive burns all over the body
Consequences. What's going on here? Will the wife be able to regain her former beauty?
Happy family and successful career
Before the unexpected,
Yang Tingting
It can be said that it has become the envy of many girls. She has a husband who loves her, and a smart and lovely son who is beautiful and generous herself.
Who wouldn't want to have a beautiful mom?
Yang Tingting's son is also very proud of having such a beautiful mother. The most often game played by mother and son is that the son holds a mirror, and runs to Yang Tingting and asks: "Magic Mirror Magic Mirror, who is the most beautiful woman in the world?" ”
Then the son replied to himself, "It's my mother!" ”
Although such a drama is staged in Yang Tingting's home almost every day, her son still has a lot of fun, and Yang Tingting is also teased again and again.
Although the family's life is not rich and expensive, it is also a tasteful life.
Yang Tingting loves beauty, and she also wants to spread this beauty. After getting married, she was not willing to be at home from now on, and she also wanted to have a career of her own.
One day, when her husband came home, she discussed with her husband that she wanted to open a family
beauty parlor
, and said their plans, where to open, how to renovate, hire a few people, how much cost, how long can you return the cost... Seeing that the wife was so serious about opening a store, the husband naturally agreed happily.
Because her husband is usually very busy at work, Yang Tingting is almost a girlfriend who opens a shop with a partner, and single-handedly handles all the matters of opening a store. After a few busy days, the beauty salon finally opened. The business that opened was even better than Yang Tingting had expected before, and it would soon turn a loss into a profit, and the prospects were promising.
As the business of the beauty salon is on the right track, Yang Tingting and her husband spend less time together than before. But this did not affect the feelings of the two people, but because both people have their own careers, the feelings have warmed up. It is said that xiao bei wins the new joy, two people return home after a busy day, see each other, and their hearts are full of happiness.
Accidental fire, burns all over the body
November 8, 2020
Jinan is already very cold. But no matter how cold the weather is, it can't stop the enthusiasm of customers, and Yang Tingting is still busy until late to leave work. After returning home, the tired Yang Tingting wanted to pull out a fire can for herself, and her husband saw it and said hurriedly: "You have been busy for a day, I will serve you once." Come, you teach me how to get it, I'll help you pull it. ”
Hearing that her husband was so distressed about herself, Yang Tingting gladly accepted, took off her shirt and lay down on the bed, waiting for her husband to serve herself. But the accident happened at this moment, because no one else had ever been abled to unpack the fire, the husband one
Wrong operation
Yang Tingting's whole body was engulfed by the fire in an instant. By the time her husband put out the fire and took her to the hospital, she was already suffering extensive burns.
By the time Yang Tingting woke up, it was already the next day.
When Yang Tingting woke up, she felt a fiery pain on her face, and then her whole body hurt, and she realized that she was lying in the hospital, and she began to call out her husband's name.
After guarding the bedside all night, her husband, who had just fallen asleep, heard Yang Tingting's cry and took her hand. Yang Tingting asked her husband, what is wrong with her? The husband hesitated, but still told her what happened yesterday.
After Listening to Yang Tingting, she said that she wanted to look in the mirror, and her husband asked her to rest well and not think about it too much, but the more Yang Tingting shouted, the more excited she became. Reluctantly, the husband had to bring a mirror. After Yang Tingting saw her current appearance in the mirror, she was so frightened that she cried out. In the mirror, there is also the son's mouth "the most beautiful person in the world", which is clearly a monster!
Yang Tingting wanted to escape, but at this time she was wrapped up like a
mummy
, can not move at all. She hated, she hated why the fire didn't just burn her to death, saving her from lying here and suffering alive.
Tingting hurts in his body, and her husband hurts even more in his heart, not only because he is hurting his wife, but also because of guilt.
Since that day, he had hardly slept a whole night, always dreaming of a fire and waking up from his sleep. He often regretted himself, if it were not for the fact that he insisted on cupping the fire for his wife that day, it would not have caused a big mistake, and his wife would not have become what she is today.
He always said:
"Wife, don't be afraid, I will always be with you."
This is comforting the wife, but also comforting yourself. He also always cried secretly, crying until he washed his face with tears. In the first few days, he rushed to the hospital to take care of his wife as soon as he got off work, but later he had no intention of working, simply quit his job and concentrated on taking care of his wife and son.
The son is also very sensible, and he is not afraid of his mother and dislikes his mother because of his mother's "unrecognizable" face.
Although he didn't know what his mother would become, he knew that her mother was suffering greatly now, and she needed herself. So he also wants to make himself strong, happy in front of his mother every day, and wants to make his mother happy.
But in the face of such a change, who can say that cheering up will cheer up?
Tingting thought about death, thought about divorce.
Saying that she did not complain about her husband was false, and at first she also complained about her husband's carelessness. If it wasn't for her husband's mistake, how could she have fallen to this point.
But she soon figured it out that her husband had always been very good to himself, and after his disfigurement, he had been taking care of himself with all his might. Besides, it was just his inadvertent mistake, he was so tired that day, could he really guarantee that he would cupping the fire for himself without accidents?
Cupping in the environment at home at that time was a mistake in itself, and even if there was no accident that day, there would be an accident one day. After thinking it through, Tingting thought of divorce again, she knew that her husband was a good man, he was still young, he could find another one, there was no need to waste time on such a wasted person as himself.
Her son is also fine, maybe in a few years he will forget her, and she does not want her son to be ridiculed by his classmates in the future because of such an ugly mother. She thought about death again, and she felt that only her own death was the real relief for her family.
But looking at her husband and son in front of her, how could she bear to say her thoughts? She knows that if she asks for divorce and seeks death, it will only make the people who love her more painful. Now all she can do for her family is
pull oneself together
And don't think about anything else.
She began to actively cooperate with the doctor's treatment, and the person was much more cheerful. A good mood is the best medicine, this is not a simple comforting word, people's emotions will indeed affect the endocrine.
After Tingting's mood improved, the effect of the treatment also improved.
His condition deteriorated and his confidence was regained
This made the family feel that this accident was just a small episode in life, which would soon pass and life would soon return to its original state. But Heaven didn't intend to let go of this strong girl like this.
April 2021
Yang Tingting's condition suddenly deteriorated.
Yang Tingting suddenly felt that the skin grafting of her body was getting tighter and tighter, so that she could not move at all. She was already able to sit up, but she could only lie in the hospital bed all day.
Tingting's problem is not just that the skin is getting tighter, but also
The growth of scars
。 This will not only make the skin tighter and tighter, but also cause parts of the body to fail and even lead to death.
Giving hope and taking it away is more difficult to accept than to be desperate all the time. Yang Tingting felt that all she had done before was just dying and struggling, and she wanted to give up again. She looked at her haggard husband, her eyes full of despair.
But the husband still refuses to die, this hospital can not be cured, change one, there is always a hospital can be cured. He did not believe that modern medicine could not cure large-scale burns. He simply dropped everything he had at hand and left his hometown with him
Seek medical advice
。
At this time, Yang Tingting's beauty salon has changed hands, her husband now has no job, her daily medical expenses are frighteningly high, and soon the savings of the two people will be spent. Not only is there no deposit, but also
be heavily in debt
。 Husband never mentioned these things to Tingting. Tingting is not stupid, she knows the financial situation of the family, and she also knows that she will spend a lot of money on this disease.
But perhaps it is the tacit understanding between the two people, Tingting does not ask about money, and she does not want to add pressure to her husband's psychology. Asking is not helpful, it is better to be a good patient. Fortunately, after going to many hospitals, the family really saw the hope of treatment.
All the way to it
In 2022
The doctor said:
"There is hope that treatment will be achieved using subcutaneous water injection."
Although the professional medical term husband can't understand, it is enough for him to understand the word "hope". After Tingting's husband calmed down happily, he asked the doctor one of the most important questions: How much does it cost?
Seeing that he had just been excited, the doctor was really not good at hitting him, but he had to tell the truth:
"If you do a full set of 200,000, this is the lowest bottom line."
When the doctor said this, Tingting also heard it from the side. She knew it would cost a lot of money, but she didn't expect it to cost so much. After the doctor left, Tingting called her husband to the bed and said:
"Husband, forget it, we are no longer cured, the children are still young, and there are still many places to use money in the future." I know that my family already owes a lot of money, so if I am cured, how will our family live? ”
After the husband heard Tingting's words, he was so sad that he couldn't say a word, but just shook his head vigorously, and then hid out of the ward. He couldn't give up his wife, he had to
Raised 200,000
。 On the one hand, the husband tries to heal his wife, and on the other hand, the wife tries to get her husband to give up on himself.
During the period when her husband was raising money, Tingting began to "fool around", she began not to listen to her husband's words, and later did not even listen to the doctor's words, and always scolded her son. In short, how annoying is how to come, she wants to take away the people who love her, so that she can go without any worries.
But her husband has already seen through her "tricks", does not bother with her, and is only bent on raising money. After tossing and turning for a while, Tingting saw that there was no effect, and she also figured out that her husband could not be driven away, so don't add any more burden to him.
Public welfare donations, small kindness into the sea
March 2022
Just when the family was struggling for 200,000 yuan in medical expenses, someone reminded Tingting: "You can start a public welfare fundraising online!" ”
Tingting's first reaction after hearing it was that although she was very pitiful, there were many people in the world who were more pitiful and needed help than herself, and she was really qualified to learn sympathy online? And the husband felt that this method was feasible, and he enlightened Tingting and said:
"We write down the real situation, and whether they will help us or not, that's their business." We're not lying, either, so you don't have to think too much about it. ”
Tingting thinks about it too, she does not deliberately sell misery, everyone has the right to choose who to help and not to help whom. If someone is willing to help themselves, just accept it with gratitude. So, Tingting's husband applied online
"Public Fundraising"
, explaining the situation currently encountered by my family.
After the news was sent, Tingting quickly received donations from people from all walks of life, each not much, it was 1 piece and 5 pieces, but the accumulation was more, everyone gave a little love, Tingting had the hope of recovery. Now that Tingting has raised enough 200,000 yuan and is receiving treatment, I believe she will soon be able to wait until the day of recovery.
As Tingting said, there are indeed many people in society who need help more than her. Some people say that if people all over China give me a dollar, I will become a billionaire.
No one will affect their lives because they donate a dollar, but 1.3 billion people, each donating a dollar, how many people in need can help? Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance. In this era, not only do we need heroes who save people from water and fire, but we also need a little kindness from everyone!