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Do you believe in love at first sight?
The moment you meet someone, your heart seems to burst into a crackling flame, there is no way to look away, just this glance, it is deeply engraved in the heart of the other party, it is difficult to forget.
In "Divine Eagle Hero", the Fengling Ferry first met, and when they saw Yang Guo mistakenly for life, Yang Guo became a glance of Guo Xiang for ten thousand years, and he never forgot him in this life.
In real life, there may not be such a deep sadomasochism, but love at first sight will also exist.
A survey of thousands of men and women in 22 countries by a survey showed that 50% of the world's population had a love at first sight experience, which shows that this phenomenon is very widespread.
There is actually psychological induction between people, some people have already determined that there will be a story between each other at the moment of meeting, some people see him, they are not willing to have any involvement with each other, even if they get along day and night in the future, there is no way to change his impression.
We will meet who we can't decide for ourselves in this life, everything is predestined by fate. But who will have the story with, there is a tie, these are our own choices.
Whether two people can come together is often doomed at the first sight of each other, don't believe it.
The first cause effect, the first impression is critical
People tend to have a preconceived notion that once you have a first impression of a person, it is difficult to change, and no matter how much he changes in the future, your impression of him will still not change.
Especially in love, the first cause effect is particularly obvious, we often pay attention to the impression of the first side, if you do not look at him the first time you meet, then there will be no involvement between you, and the relationship ends here.
In real life, there is often such a phenomenon, men and women through the introduction of others to carry out blind dates, many people often see once after the following, no matter how hard the introducer persuades, saying that his family conditions are good, saying that he will hurt people, there will be no change in his heart.
In love, the eye edge is very important, although some people look very ordinary, but you just look at the right eye, some people although the conditions are good, others have exaggerated him out of the flower, you are not moved, from the beginning there is no one who looks at the right eye, there will be no superfluous intersection at all.
Seeing a meeting can often judge in the bottom of your mind whether two people have a follow-up, his appearance, his conversation, and the state displayed during the entire meeting process, which are the keys to determining the first impression. If these are not up to standard in the heart, the relationship is like this.
A person's view of mate selection stems from the subconscious vision
In most cases, our view of mate selection often comes from the person closest to us in our childhood, and this person is most likely our parents. The mode of getting along between parents has a guiding role in guiding the direction of our future mate selection. The father is a man with a sense of responsibility for the family, and such characteristics will be directly reflected in our requirements for future husbands.
When meeting a person for the first time, if he has such qualities in his body, he can't help but be attracted to him.
Before we meet that person, we already have a certain outline of our other half in our hearts, most of this standard comes from the projection of our parents, when one day a person appears, he hits your standard, then you will fall in love, and even at the first moment of meeting him, you will have the feeling of "it is him" in your heart.
Love lies in a feeling, feeling is a very illusory thing, but it can become the key to whether men and women can come together, and people who have feelings at the first sight will have a greater probability of being together.
Once we have confirmed the importance of first impressions, we need to strengthen our impression scores.
Start from the external image, enhance your appearance, leave a good impression on the other party, the clothing does not have to be too expensive, but it must be appropriate. Words and deeds should also be more careful, do not say some inappropriate words, dignified and generous is the best, leave a good first impression on the other party, the feeling will be half successful.
Strengthen impression management in intimate relationships
Some people may feel that as long as two people are right in the eye, they can establish a long-term sweet love.
However, in fact, love is never a once and for all thing, not that if you get it, you will definitely be able to go on for a long time, but it lies in the future management, which often determines the direction of love.
In reality, there are many such situations, and when two people have been together for a long time, they will neglect to manage their own image. Both sides will show their most comfortable side to each other, without the slightest disguise. Because of intimacy, they will not care about some of the details of getting along, and how comfortable they feel.
He has seen you face the sky, you have seen his untrimmed appearance, when two people can reach such a state, it means that your feelings have been relatively strong, but they can not be slackened, many times some dislikes will quietly breed.
Many intimate relationships are so tired, when the two sides are more honest with each other, but even the basic sense of beauty is lost, in the long run will only make the other party feel that you are humiliated and can not be taken out.
Although the first impression is very important, but the impression management in the future together is also very important, even if it is intimate, do not forget to show the serious attitude of the first acquaintance, love will last.
Whether two people can come together is often doomed at first glance.
The person who was moved when they first met, the relationship will continue smoothly, and there will be a later story development.
But don't ignore the impression management after two people are together, once love becomes lazy, love disappears. Only when the two are combined with each other can the flower of love bloom.
Impression management in intimate relationships is the book "Psychology of Love", in addition to many guidelines about love, I believe we can find a certain love answer from it, recommended to everyone, I hope we can all meet love, have love.