When the opposite sex is together, there are two most undesirable manifestations: when it is time to confess, it is not afraid to confess; when it is time to pull black, it is reluctant to pull black.
Meeting the opposite sex you like, for some reason, or worried, or ashamed to express, and finally did not confess, two people finally missed, which is often a lifetime of regret in the lives of two people.
On the contrary, when you meet the opposite sex that does not like yourself, or when you meet someone who is not ladylike, you meet the opposite sex that is not worthy of love, at this time, you are reluctant to let go, you are unwilling to blacken each other, you are reluctant to each other, you are always entangled with each other, and the result is often mediocre self-disturbance, self-pleaser, and do something that makes you regret.
If you don't want to see such a result, you must understand: if you are emotional, boldly "confess", if you do not love, bravely "black", do you know?
If it is emotional, boldly confess.
1. It is not easy to meet a loved one.
In the vast sea of people, it is not an easy task to meet a person of the opposite sex who makes his heart move, if you encounter it, you must know how to cherish it and must not miss it.
Some people, once missed, will not meet again, if it is because of hesitation, because of thinking too much, delay in confessing to the other party, and finally will often leave endless regrets in their own lives.
If you don't want to see such a result, you must understand that fate is not easy to come by, if you have feelings for each other, you should seize the opportunity to take the initiative to express the love in your heart.
2. Do not confess, it is easy to leave regrets in life.
You know, meeting the opposite sex you like and not expressing it will leave irreparable regrets in your life. Even if you take the initiative to confess, you may be rejected, however, if you do not confess and hide the love in your heart, the other party has no way of knowing, and it is easy for two people to miss.
At this time, you should take the initiative to say some heart-warming words to the other party, express your recognition of the other party, and do not hide your love for the other party, only in this way can you have an explanation for yourself.
What if the other person likes himself too? This brings you closer and closer to happiness.
Even if the other party has no interest in himself, because he loves a person and takes the initiative to show love, he will not leave regrets in his own life, at least he can give himself an explanation.
If you don't love, be brave and block.
1. You don't love each other, and the other party is pestering you, just black out.
When two people are together, you have no feelings for each other, do not want to be with each other, and the other party does not know how to respect your choices, always pestering you, you do not agree to his pursuit, he will be ashamed and angry, complaining that you do not know how to cherish, always blaming you.
The other party does not know how to love, always force you, do not respect you at all, you are entangled with it, will feel tired, at this time, take the initiative to choose "black", it is not a wise choice.
2. The other party does not love you, repeatedly hurt you, just black it.
The opposite sex gets along, and you are happy with each other.
You love each other, and the other party loves you, so stay together and be happy.
However, when two people are together, you love each other deeply, and the other party has no interest in you, has clearly rejected your affection, or he knows that you love him deeply, and he is with you, just to play, and has not paid his heart.
At this time, what should you do? Or learn to face the reality, when it is time to let go, must let go, must not be too persistent, so as not to seek their own distress.