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I saw a blogger in the parenting forum asking: What is the hardest thing to do after a child is born?
As a mom of two, I want to say too many answers, breastfeeding, sleeping, night milk, illness... Any one of them can crush the old mother.
But the most liked answer to this question was "name the child." Although "unexpected" is also expected, it is indeed difficult to give your child a good and allegorical name.
One street, 5 Muchen (Chen), Bao Ma regretted it
In the parenting forum, a mother complained that she took her son to the hospital for vaccination, and did not expect to meet many children with the same name as her son in the hospital, except for Mu Chen, who is Mu Chen.
This made her a little regretful after spending a lot of effort to name the baby, she just wanted to take a meaningful and good name, where did she think that the repetition rate was so high, but the more let the mother collapse is still behind.
After taking her son to the doctor's office, the mother saw 5 names on the doctor's computer that were exactly the same as her son's name - "Liu Muchen".
Bao Ma carefully inquired whether the 5 children with the same name as her son were all in the same district as herself, but the doctor told Bao Ma that there was more than one district, and these 5 "Liu Muchen" and Bao Ma's son were still on the same street.
Back at home, Bao Mom cried and laughed and began to worry about her son's problems when he grew up. I began to regret giving the child a "Mary Sue" name, but also consider whether to change the name of the baby, is it really necessary to use the "vibrato explosion" to explain the origin of the name to the child?
Mu Chen, Mu Chen, Zi Xuan, Zi Xuan... Why is the rate of children repeating names so high now?
6 Liu Muchen are in the same street, which can't help but remind people of the passage on the Internet:
Zi Xuan and Zi Xuan fight, mistakenly injuring Zi Xuan and Zi Xuan on the side, at this time Yu Tong, Yu Xuan and Yu Qi brought medicine to help everyone deal with the wound, and finally, Zi Xuan, Zi Xuan, Zi Xuan reconciled under the persuasion of the class leader and teacher...
The high rate of duplicate names is not an accidental phenomenon, parents give the baby a name, why do you prefer those few words?
First of all, the parents are about the same age. The name actually has the shadow of the times, many young parents are post-90s, when naming their children, they can't help but use the names of the male and female protagonists in novels, film and television dramas.
As a result, the names of many children sound like the domineering president and the girl next door, and it is inevitable to have duplicate names.
Second, parents have similar or identical naming channels. In the past, I used to turn over the dictionary for my children's names, but now I have a naming website, which is very popular with parents.
But after all, the name of the website is an established procedure, where will consider the meaning, harmonic and other issues, the generated name will always have a few words with a higher frequency, which will improve the chance of renaming.
"Mary Sue" names don't give the baby anymore, these names have a unique meaning
Usage: Chinese culture is broad and profound, the language and poetry left by the ancients have a different taste, and the names with classical charm will also make people shine in modern society.
Before taking the name, parents can look at the beautiful poetry and song, choose allegorical words and sentences, and form the child's name.
With the advantages of surnames: surnames can be very important for a good name, when taking names, it is necessary to consider the meaning of the name, but also do not forget the role of the surname, put the meaning of the surname and the name together, it is easier to take out a good and not duplicate name.
Try to use verbs to name: In fact, most people are more partial to adjectives when taking names, but in fact, many verbs can also be used for names: line, sleep, picking, step, extension and many other verbs have a different flavor in the name.
Chinese pays more attention to the name and prefers to understand a person from the name, so the matter of taking a name cannot be too casual. Because there are not a few names that bring all kinds of troubles, parents should still spend more time when naming their babies!
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