The communication between a single father and an "adolescent daughter", may you look ordinary and no one pursues
Every parent will be anxious when the child's puberty comes, especially if there are girls in the family, they are very worried about the child's harm outside the home, so parents will always try their best to take care of the child, for example, peeking at the child's diary, mobile phone and other behaviors. And these will only make adolescent children more rebellious, so parents still have to use better methods to care for their children.
Tingting is a child of a single-parent family, but when her adolescence came, it was difficult for her father, although it was very embarrassing, but for the safety of the child, the father still decided to have a good talk with the child, so the father first prepared some books about puberty, and then talked with the child on the day of the child's weekend break.
Dad put the book in front of the child and said to the child, although you have grown up a lot, but in the eyes of the father you are still a toddler, for many things that will happen in life, dad hopes that you can go through without worry, but also hope that you can do the right thing at the right age.
In adolescence, you will be curious about things, such as love. The meeting of two people is wonderful, but it is not very good to meet at the wrong time, you can meet love in the time of adulthood, but there will be no chance for you to go back to campus to learn, cherish what you have to do at every stage of your life, and do not give your future self the opportunity to regret it.
You are now at a good age, so do the most important things first, study hard, and don't let something affect your studies. The love you envision will also come unexpectedly after you become an adult, and now you can't experience love for many reasons, don't feel lost, don't feel sad, you don't have the ability to take responsibility for yourself during adolescence, so protect yourself and don't let yourself be hurt in adolescence.
A few things that adolescent girls must pay attention to:
1. Don't deliberately dress yourself, it is the age of youth and beauty, plain face is your biggest advantage and your most beautiful dress.
2. Don't be influenced by the outside world, do the right thing at the right age, learning is your top priority, and strive to improve yourself and become the best you.
3. Do not go to places where minors are prohibited, you do not have the ability to protect yourself and bear the consequences, for your own safety and family's worries, you must not let yourself be hurt.
After the conversation, the father told the child to take a good look at the books given to her, "Hello Adolescence" was specially selected for her by the father, which is very suitable for the reading and learning of adolescent children. There are nine books in the whole set, which provide answers to the situation of adolescent children from many aspects, such as physical development, correct dating, family relationships, healthy Internet access, emotional decompression and other aspects.
The growth and development of adolescent children are very fast, for the child's physical development changes in the growth period, parents will also be embarrassed to know how to open, in this set of books, there is a secret to the child's growth and development and coping methods.
Adolescence is also known as the child's rebellious period, parents often do not know how to solve some of the child's rebellious behavior, so there will be contradictions with the child, so the book also has a friendly way to get along with the family relationship, of course, this book, parents can also take a look, after all, family harmony depends on everyone to work together.
The most important thing for adolescent children is to protect themselves, and in the chaotic situation of the online environment, it is important to teach children to correctly identify various unknown and known injuries, and the book also focuses on this.
The safety of children is the top priority at every time, and the weakness of good children for discernment will give many people with other purposes an opportunity to teach children to protect themselves and avoid harm. The book "Hello Adolescence" can play a very good role in helping children, and parents and children can take a good look at it.