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Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real
Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

In recent years, there have been many domestic dramas focusing on women's topics of film and television dramas, there are social animal love of workers, there are also mixed tastes of married life, although the intention is good, but there are not many who can really shoot the audience's heart.

Because, some dramatic paintings are added to the snake, often making people unable to see the truth.

Although I don't want to admit that some foreign film and television works on this subject matter are really heartfelt.

From "Home on the Slope", which reflects widowed parenting, to "Postpartum Conditioning Hospital", which uses humor to study serious fertility issues, to "Kim Ji-young Born in 1982", which constantly amplifies and respects women.

All of them photograph the real living conditions of contemporary women.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Recently, there is finally a domestic drama that also focuses on the fertility problems that most women will face.

"Dear Child"

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

This drama is adapted from the movie "Left and Right" directed by Wang Xiaoshuai, and hu Kun, the best screenwriter of the Golden Rooster Award, has personally polished it after eight years, and it is conceivable that how much effort has been injected.

On the day of the broadcast, the results were quite impressive.

The ratings of tv dramas in the same period of the country are at the top of the list, iQiyi dramas are soaring first, and Douban real-time popular TV is the first.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

I have to say that the husband and wife file of Ren Suxi + Qin Hao is still very attractive, at least the acting skills are stable, plus director Hu Kun has participated in the script planning of "The Hidden Corner".

Enough to make this drama unaired.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

The title is "Dear Little Child", but the first few episodes are about the mother of the child.

In the dim bedroom light, a young woman was sitting in front of the vanity mirror to remove her makeup, wiping off the white foundation, but the woman's cheeks revealed many brown spots.

This is melasma caused by pregnancy.

Looking at her own out-of-shape figure in the mirror, the woman cried out in grievance.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real
Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

The woman's name is Fang Yinuo (Ren Suxi), a pregnant woman who is about to give birth, and although the pregnancy has a great impact on her body, she is still looking forward to the birth of the child.

The loss is only temporary, and it is good after unloading.

She and her husband Xiao Lu (Qin Hao) have been married for many years and have been looking forward to this child for a long time.

Husband and wife, one is a middle school teacher with a big belly and insists on attending classes, the other is a social animal who is often out of tune, and both are very tired to welcome new life.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Finally, one day fang Yinuo was giving lessons to the children, the amniotic fluid broke.

At first, Fang Yinuo thought that giving birth to a child was just a matter of not making a fuss, she must be different from other women, and she would give birth to the child very handsomely, but when the pain began, she couldn't laugh.

She was sweating profusely in pain in her hospital bed, while her husband, Xiao Lu, slept at home drinking beer.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

It is said that the pain of giving birth to a child is the highest, and in just a few tens of minutes, the other party has promised to go through the ghost door. But she never imagined that she was hovering on the edge of life and death in the operating room, and the pillow person gave her own daughter's placenta to someone else to eat.

Although this man was also his mother's son.

Xiao's mother heard that the newborn's placenta was greatly supplemented, so she forced her son to secretly take the placenta to her to stew...

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Originally, Fang Yinuo felt that if she unloaded the goods, she would be able to rest easily, but slowly she found that this was only the beginning of the abyss.

First of all, the child is born, who brings it?

Fang Mu only has two years left to retire, if she retires early because of her children, she will have a lot less money, while Xiao Mu, although sometimes with children, is a big grinning personality, and playing mahjong is a necessary daily pastime.

Therefore, Fang Yinuo thought twice and decided to find a reliable sister-in-law.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

It's just that the sister-in-law she is looking for does not seem to be as reliable as it seems on the surface, Fang Yinuo caught her laziness many times, and even found that many of the breast milk fed to her daughter was secretly replaced by the sister-in-law for milk powder.

Angry, but Fang Yinuo still calmly told Yue Yinuo about this matter, and as always, chose to believe her, however, since his daughter had jaundice, Fang Yinuo had become more and more distrustful of Yue Yinuo.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Originally, when the child was jaundiced for the first time, she wanted to take the child to the hospital to see, but the sister-in-law said that she did not use it, and took dozens of children she had brought as a guarantee, eating more and more, but seeing that the child's small face was getting yellower, Fang Yinuo still decided to take the child to the hospital to see.

The jaundice problem of the child is finally being taken seriously.

The results of the hospital examination are that the child's total bilirubin is too high and must be hospitalized for a period of time immediately.

Sister-in-law was dumbfounded, and began to shirk responsibility...

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real
Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

Seeing this, I believe that I am not the only one whose blood pressure has soared.

In fact, just by looking at the douban introduction, you know how much dog blood this drama will have, cheating, divorce, remarriage, child leukemia... This drama does have an "angry" itself.

But I have to say that from the first eight episodes, this kind of chicken and dog life is very real.

For example, two novice parents are very aggrieved that they have sacrificed too much for their children, but one has room for breathing and the other can only endure in silence.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

The performance of Fang Yinuo's parents after childbirth is even more starkly contrasted.

Xiao Mu hugged the child and laughed loudly, while Fang Yinuo had just given birth to a child and was a little dehydrated, and he didn't even have the strength to drink water from a water cup.

Just when everyone was teasing the child happily, Fang's mother arrived in time to hand her daughter water.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real
Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

But this drama is real and more than that, just when you think that this drama is amplifying anxiety, it is actually very screwed.

For example, Fang Mu, is she really deliberately doing some disgusting daughter-in-law's actions? No, it is just a personality, eating the loss of no culture, although not as thoughtful as his mother, but from the follow-up plot is also considered to be dedicated.

Although she accidentally let the child fall during the process of watching the child, she actually blamed herself very much.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

The most disgusting thing in the whole drama is the role of husband Xiao Lu, from the beginning to the end, he feels that he has sacrificed a lot, and even when Fang Yinuo gave birth to a child, he did not care about it, but the expression on his face betrayed him.

Even when Fang Yinuo was sick to take care of the child, he still found Xiao San outside...

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

I see a lot of people saying that this show is too anxious, it is creating a fertility panic, so it scored a low score.

But because it's not really shot? On the contrary, it is just too real.

Before the marriage, Yinuo was out of shape for the sake of the child, refusing to sleep with Xiao Lu, and after marriage, confinement often couldn't sleep all night for the child, everyone said that she was too nervous, only the mother of the same woman knew how much the daughter suffered.

Too anxious, too suffocating, but it's too real

In fact, I think this drama is also a big progress for domestic dramas, at least it is not whitewashed, and it is only a passing shot of women giving birth to children.

The unspeakable embarrassment before and after the woman's childbirth is exposed to the audience layer by layer, although the blood is difficult to accept, but this is the truth. It is more like a realistic documentary than a family ethics drama.

After all, marriage in reality is much more depressing than this.

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