In fact, there is one thing that needs to be experienced before marriage, that is, to have a marriage test. In previous lives, this may have been a necessity, but in recent years the mandatory marriage checks have been abolished. And the probability of marriage examination has plummeted, but it is also accompanied by an increase in the rate of birth defects, why are these actresses reluctant to marry?
Ms. Zhang and her boyfriend soon fell in love, and it is reasonable to say that if this situation continues, then it will not be long before the two people will get married and have children. I thought it would go so smoothly, but I didn't expect the next problem to arise. But it was at this time that Ms. Zhang's boyfriend actually made a request, that is, to go for a marriage test.
Ms. Zhang's boyfriend thinks so, only after the marriage examination can be naturally married, all this is like a flat and straightforward narrative. However, when Ms. Zhang heard all this, she directly vetoed: "I really don't want to do a marriage test, if you really want to insist on doing a marriage test, then the two of us still don't get married." When Ms. Zhang's boyfriend heard all this, he also felt very helpless.
Isn't it a very normal thing to do a marriage check? Why is Ms. Zhang so rejected? In fact, the reason for Ms. Zhang's rejection is also very simple, that is, she feels that if she really does a marriage test, then she will expose her secret.
Ms. Zhang had a history of miscarriage before this, so this issue has always been on her mind. Ms. Zhang did not want to tell her boyfriend about this matter, because Ms. Zhang felt that this matter was very humiliating.
In fact, this is a very standard example, in real life, there are many women who are reluctant to do a marriage examination. However, many people will express curiosity, so why are these women reluctant to do marriage examinations? Most of them are for these reasons.
Why are women reluctant to do a marriage test?
In fact, today's young people have such an idea, that is, since two people choose to marry together, they need to trust each other.
If you force the other party to do a marriage test, it must be a manifestation of distrust, and one of the problems that this distrust is most likely to bring is that each other's feelings can easily cause rifts. So in the face of such a situation, the best thing to do is not to do a marriage test, so that there will be no problems.
There are also young people who have the idea that they don't feel the need to do anything before marriage. They think that doing a marriage test is a very troublesome thing, and it costs a lot of money, so they will think that this is a very unworthy thing, so they will not be willing to do a marriage test over time.
What exactly can be found in the marriage examination?
In fact, the marriage test can check out a lot of things, he can check a person's past medical history or family genetic history, and even whether the person has infectious diseases or heart disease, mental illness and so on. At the same time, it is also possible to check the relationship between husband and wife, and this practice can also avoid the marriage of close relatives.
In addition, the marriage examination will also do a routine physical examination, such as checking a person's height and weight, or liver, lungs, kidneys and other organs. In addition, such as some statutory infectious diseases, or serious mental illness, or even reproductive system abnormalities, this series of problems are all aspects that must be examined for marriage examination.
Can the marriage check really know those hidden secrets?
In fact, this is also a point that many young people have doubts, and many people will feel that marriage tests can check a person's fertility. Therefore, they feel that they can only enter the palace of marriage after checking normally, and if they find that there is a problem with each other's body, then they will not choose to continue to marry.
In fact, the real result is not like this, the marriage test is only a visual examination of the genitals, it can not be used as a standard for infertility testing. If you really want to check a person's fertility, you still need to go to the hospital for a regular examination.
There are also some young people who are skeptical, so can a marriage test check the history of fertility and miscarriage? In fact, when doing the examination, women are not examined in this regard, so they are usually not examined. But one thing we need to acknowledge is that experienced doctors can look at a woman's endometrial condition to determine whether a woman has had a baby or a miscarriage.
If a woman has repeated miscarriages, then the old doctor can basically see it.
The reason why people nowadays don't like to do marriage tests is because many young people feel that if two people can stay together for a lifetime, then there is no need to distrust each other. But it is best for two people to be honest with each other, only in this way can they get more true love, if there is a lie, then sooner or later it will be exposed.