When I first started chasing girls, many boys would habitually pestered girls to chat every day, and obviously they were not familiar with a large paragraph of text with emojis directly sent over. In fact, such behavior will only make girls feel that your sense of need is very strong. Therefore, it is very important to learn time management and grasp the frequency of chat. So what kind of chat frequency is better when you start chasing girls?
Xiaobian suggests that everyone talk every two or three days, that is, two or three times a week.
If the girl is enthusiastic about your reply, you have no problem talking every day, but if she doesn't need the next day, two or three days is longer.
In addition to exposing the sense of need to find her every day, there may be no topic to talk about. It is also possible for girls to think that you have nothing to do all day, which is a manifestation of low social value.
So think about it in a nutshell:
If a girl you're not interested in talks to you every day and talks about non-nutritious topics.
Wouldn't you also feel annoyed and not want to take care of her?
In fact, don't be too deliberate, just don't look for her every day is basically more qualified.
Ambiguous period, at this stage, boys can take the initiative a little more, but there is no need to talk to each other every day.
Mainly to see your feedback from each other, each other feel that the state is very good, then you can talk more, the state is general, take a break.
Love is not the whole of life, even if your WeChat list has a fiery relationship with you, don't forget your own rhythm of life, you should eat, you should sleep. Being yourself is most important.
After all, a movie can't be all wonderful and exciting shots; A book can't be all climactic plots; A stock, it is impossible to continuously rise and fall every day; Similarly, a relationship cannot be all you and me, like glue-like time.
Value the other person but don't forget that you are still important. Secondly, the chat is not really about the frequency, but about the rhythm.
Whether she likes you or not depends not on your language and topic, but on whether the message behind your language and topic can attract her or resonate with her.
For example, talk about travel.
Xiaoming said: "I have been to Beijing and seen the walls of Beijing, and the walls are particularly high and thick. ”
Xiao Gray said: "Look at your circle of friends has been to Japan, I am planning where to travel on annual leave recently, what do you think of Japan?
It is also a trip, but the message conveyed by two people is not the same.
The former seems to be telling others that Lao Tzu has been to Beijing.
In addition to telling the other party that he wants to travel, the latter is also triggering the other party's chat emotions.
In general, girls like to talk to each other about the places they have been, especially when traveling abroad.
Therefore, is it not to stop for a minute before each chat with the girl, and think about whether this WeChat message can mobilize her emotions and resonate.
Of course, you should also pay attention to the time point, for example, sometimes the other party just has a job to deal with, or shopping with girlfriends, but you have been sending her WeChat how it is possible to return to you.
Finally, if you have entered the hot love period, then the frequency of chat depends on each other's rhythm.
How to fall in love and how to get along at this stage is the result of two people running into each other.
I tell you to contact for an hour a day, what if your girlfriend is too little?
I tell you don't break for 24 hours, what should you do if your girlfriend is annoyed?
Grind into each other and find a comfortable way to communicate.