The 8-episode documentary has seen the truth in the world, and it turns out that living is the biggest luxury

After 8 episodes of the documentary "Hello, Pediatrician", he was followed by the doctors of Hunan Children's Hospital.

No matter which city's children's hospital, it is bustling and bustling. Children are unwell, whether it is a major illness or a minor illness, a severe emergency, basically go to the children's hospital.

In the children's hospital, you can see all kinds of families and all kinds of children. These 8 episodes of the documentary made me deeply understand the fact that it is too difficult to raise a child.

01

Raw: Health or disease?

When the child is still in the womb, the test has already come. Is the size of the gestational sac normal? Is there a fetal heartbeat? NT examination, large and small expulsion, B-ultrasound fetal heart rate monitoring ...

After a series of checks, the mood of the father-to-be mother-to-be was like riding a roller coaster up and down.

Waiting for the day when the melon ripens and falls, harvesting a healthy baby is a satisfactory end to the nearly 40 weeks of anxiety.

However, some parents did not wait for this consummation, just like Xiaomi's parents.

Xiaomi is a baby who was just a few days old, and when he was in his mother's belly, he was detected to have a deformity and lacked a right kidney.

At that time Xiaomi was 6 months. Xiaomi's parents have asked many doctors, how much does the lack of a right kidney affect the child?

The reply they received was that if it was only the right kidney that was missing, the child could grow up smoothly. So, they gave birth to Xiaomi.

But the heavens did not take care of them, Xiaomi not only lacked his right kidney, he was born without anus, and the ear canal also had deformities. After a consultation, the doctor said he would probably have to go through a dozen surgeries.

The first thing Xiaomi has to solve is the problem of no anus, which requires 3 surgeries. Xiaomi's dad brought Xiaomi to the hospital because mom was confinement.

Xiaomi's father said that he did not give the child a healthy body, he was responsible for the child to the end.

The neonatal ward can not accompany, Xiaomi finished the operation in the neonatal ward, Xiaomi's father stayed on the recliner outside the ward for several days, closer to the child, may be more at ease.

The first operation went well, and Xiaomi finally drank the first sip of milk in her life. Watching that small body erupt with amazing power makes people not only feel the magic of life.

Xiaomi's encounter has also triggered a hot topic: if the pregnancy test finds that the child is defective, do you still want to give birth to the child?

From the perspective of a bystander, if the child does not have a healthy body, life may be extra difficult, and it is better to give up when the child is still a fetus than to suffer after the child is born.

But from the mother's point of view, how can a small life that already has a heartbeat and is connected to her blood easily give up?

Human life is once, and the abandoned fetus cannot come back to this world, which is the harsh reality.

02

Raising: Children are difficult to raise or parents are not in tune?

There is a saying that children are difficult to raise. Indeed, children are quite difficult to raise.

Newborn babies are soft and silky, making people tremble when they are held; they cry when they are hungry and sleepy, and they must know how to read minds when they take care of their children; they must take good care of eating and drinking Lasa, and if they are not careful, they may have a fever.

In "Hello, Pediatrician", there are many children who come to the emergency department because of fever.

There was a girl with a fever of 40 degrees, and her father and grandmother took her to the doctor.

The doctor was attracted by what was on the door of the child's brain, and the grandmother said with great vivo that this was egg white, and applying egg whites with fever could reduce fever, as his father did when he was a child.

The doctor said helplessly, these folk remedies should not be used for children.

Grandma seemed to think that the doctor's words were a little unpleasant, and she did not listen to the doctor well, and sat down in the chair with her own care, dealing with the water in her shoes.

The doctor said it several times, quickly gave him anti-fever medicine, and then went to check the blood. Grandma did not talk, and the father who held the child looked at Grandma helplessly.

The doctor got a little angry and asked Grandma what was going to do next? Grandma couldn't say it, and the doctor repeated it, and Dad and Grandma went out with the baby.

Dad has been holding the child, it must be strong, but Dad is also like a child. Everything had to wait for his mother to come up with an idea, so the folk remedy of egg white for fever was passed down from generation to generation.

Even if the grandmother is unreliable, the young mother also has the unreliable.

One child also had a fever and came to the doctor with a quilt and a sha. This child has a history of high fever convulsions, and there is no antipyretic medicine at home.

The doctor once again looked helplessly at the science popularization.

Science is progressing, and the concept of parenting must also keep pace with the times! Modern medicine is not developed, with a home remedies to gamble on it, i now have more evidence-based treatment methods for less damage to children, why stick to the stereotype?

Science has advanced, the child still grows up the way his father grew up, and he can't enjoy the dividends of scientific progress, how pitiful!

Is it difficult for children to raise, or are parents out of tune?

03

Disease: Can it be cured, can it be cured?

Fever, cold and diarrhea such a small disease, pay attention to daily care, rational use of drugs, the child can recover quickly. But some children's illness is not getting better so quickly.

In "Hello, Pediatrician", neurosurgery is a very heart-wrenching department, because most of the children who go there are brain diseases, cerebrovascular malformations, and brain tumors.

Xiaoyu is an unfortunate child, he is a malformed blood vessel intracranial, there is a major hemorrhage in the skull, and the brainstem has also been damaged.

Dr. Fan of neurosurgery, when talking to Xiaoyu's parents, told Xiaoyu's parents about the whole process of surgery and the possible dangers.

The operation process is full of dangers, every step of the child may not be able to survive, even if the operation is smooth, Xiaoyu may still not wake up.

It's a dilemma, there is little hope, but parents still don't want to give up. The doctor is also very embarrassed, without surgery, Xiaoyu's condition has no possibility of relief. But the child does not have the conditions for treatment, and hard surgery is painful for the child, for the family, and for the doctor.

In the end, Xiaoyu's parents had to give up, because medicine also has boundaries and there are things that can't be done.

Compared with Xiao Yu, Haha was still lucky, and he waited for the opportunity to operate. Haha is only 16 pounds, 2 huge cell tumors in the stomach, so that haha can not sleep at night, the mother holds him in a circle in the corridor.

Watching the child suffer, haha's grandmother persuaded the father, is it considering giving up? After all, the days will go on, and if we continue to be treated in this way, the children will not necessarily be cured if they suffer, and the people and wealth will be empty.

Haha's dad insisted on believing in the doctor and didn't want to give up the treatment of haha.

Haha has been to many hospitals, the condition is so serious that some doctors persuade parents to give up directly. At children's hospitals, bald doctors arrange doctor consultations, and most doctors feel that the surgery is too risky.

But the bald doctor still gave Haha a chance to operate. Without surgery, haha can only organ failure and die painfully. For surgery, at least there is a glimmer of life.

After a long operation, the tumor in Haha's body was removed and the first victory was achieved, and there was a difficult time waiting for Haha to break through.

Unfortunately, haha or relapsed, failed to carry over.

Medicine is racing against all kinds of diseases, and sometimes it still can't run away from diseases. Sudden illness can not wait for the doctor's treatment, the disease is repeated, and medicine is powerless.

The fight against disease is never-ending!

04

Education: What is education for?

Physical diseases depend on doctors to cure, and mental diseases are closely related to the education of parents.

In "Hello, Pediatrician", there is a boy who is injured by his mother's kick. The mother kicked very hard, and the boy had to operate to have a normal urinary function.

The doctor and the mother understand the causes and consequences of the child's injury, and the mother's words are estimated to refresh the doctor's three views.

The doctor asked the mother how the child was injured. Mom said calmly, I kicked, kicked.

The doctor looked up in surprise, and thinking that the person in front of him was the child's mother after all, he tentatively asked, do you want to kick your ass?

Mom said very honestly, no, she just wanted to kick here.

The doctor's psychological activity documentary does not give a voiceover, but I guess the doctor should also curse!

Because the child's enthusiasm for going to the interest class is not as good as before, the mother hates not going to class for one reason or another, you don't go to class, but others are learning. Therefore, I wanted to teach the child a lesson, and kicked it over.

Three- and four-year-old children have to bear the anxiety of "you don't learn, others are learning". Afterwards, my mother also regretted it, saying that she should not have enrolled in so many extracurricular classes.

Seeing this, I was quite unhappy, and my mother's regret did not seem to be on the idea.

Is the pressure that children should not be under is due to extracurricular classes? Obviously not, it is the mother's wrong educational concept for the child.

Even if there is no extracurricular class, my mother will be anxious: others will not you, others will learn you do not learn, others so praise you but so bad, how can I not be anxious?

But the child is their own, each child has its own shining point, others will not, the child will not, the child will not, others may not, than to compare, the most hurt is the child.

To my surprise, there was also a little boy. He often had stomachaches, his mother taught him to be brave, he kept putting up with it until he couldn't stand it, he came to the hospital, the condition has become serious and needs surgery.

The boy came to the bald doctor and asked him how much it would cost him to treat the disease, and if the money was too much, he would not treat it. The little boy's understanding made the bald doctor feel very touched.

It turned out that the bald doctor was also learned from the rural examination, and he understood the boy's understanding and understanding of his parents. He told the boy about his experience. It's easy to give up, but it's cool to stick to it.

Children need to be strong and brave, but physical diseases and psychological discomfort do not need to be endured. Being strong and brave is the quality of the will, not ignoring one's own body.

Raising a child, to endure the challenges of birth, maintenance, illness and nurturing, can be said to be a thrilling step by step, and each step requires special attention.

Fortunately, in the process of raising children, there are still many touching and warm accompanied by it.

Xiaomi's attending doctor will warmly take a video of Xiaomi drinking the first sip of milk and show it to Xiaomi's father and mother to comfort their children's hearts;

Haha's doctor will send the greetings recorded by his parents to the haha in the ward, let the mother's familiar song accompany the haha to sleep, and let the haha who is tormented by the disease get some comfort.

It is not easy to raise a child, but no matter what you encounter, you must be optimistic and positive to improve the status quo, do your best to fight the hardships of life, and life will be full of hope.

May every child grow up safely and smoothly!