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Someone has put forward the idea that when people come to the world, they all have their own "mission".
And Zweig also said a sentence: "All the gifts of fate have long been secretly priced." ”
In this life, no matter what we encounter or experience, in fact, all of this is what we must experience. Even if we live rich or poor, we can't escape.
Admittedly, countless people wish they could get rich. But the reality is that the vast majority of people are busy in the red dust world, and they don't know where they should go.
People who have worked hard all their lives will feel that they have been so tired in this life, they have not fulfilled their wishes, and they have not lived comfortably, so what is the meaning of coming into this world?
Those who struggle to middle age, are actually dismissed by the company, and their health is gradually deteriorating, they will feel that they are so unlucky in this life, and they have to bear so much pressure, and their lives are really sad.
Again, without the suffering of others, hugh persuades others to be good.
We have not experienced the pain of others, so don't persuade others to be kind. However, from a macro point of view, there are too many encounters, which are inevitable. Because that's our mission.
02
Your destiny will guide you to a life that belongs to you.
Little A and Little C graduated from the same university and came to the big city to work hard. They believe that since the academic qualifications are the same, the abilities are similar, and the future is absolutely similar.
What is unexpected is that Xiao A mistakenly hit and bumped into the state-owned enterprise, smoothly holding the iron rice bowl, living a comfortable and small life in peace and stability, if there is no accident, the second half of his life should not be unemployed.
And Little C's luck is not very good, not only did not find a job, but also was cheated of thousands of yuan, especially unlucky. There was no way, he had to live with odd jobs.
These two people, one is safe and stable, the other is precarious, this is the different direction of life.
After more than ten years, Xiao A still works in state-owned enterprises and has good relations with many leaders, so the future is still quite good. Moreover, he had a car and a house in a big city, got married and had children, and his life was stable to the extreme.
And Little C? Now back to their hometown development, with his wife in the town to open a restaurant, although only ordinary ordinary people, but they still live a particularly satisfied, can be regarded as family happiness.
They all started a family, but some people stayed in the big city, and some people stayed in their hometowns. This is the different destiny, guiding us to a different life. Although the results are biased, from a macro point of view, in fact, our lives are on the right track.
Be convinced that your destiny will give you the best gift.
03
When people come into this world, they all have a mission.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang feels that everyone comes to this world with their own mission, so we don't have to complain and do our duty.
Some people have a particularly good talent for painting, so they go to work as graphic designers, or become painters, and play their unique role in the field of painting.
Some people have particularly strong mathematical ability, and even superior to computing ability, so why can't they become mathematicians, or researchers, and contribute to the development of science and technology?
Some people have good writing, wild minds, and always fantasize about something unrealistic, then he becomes a writer and uses his pen to depict the world of a novel, which is also a value.
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From a socioeconomics point of view, this is the "value of the individual." From the perspective of the social division of labor, everyone performs their duties and responsibilities and becomes a part in the big machine of society.
You are a doctor, then your mission is to save lives and help the injured, hanging pots and saving the world; you are a scientist, then your mission is to promote the development of science and technology, overcome certain difficulties; you are a businessman, then your mission is to open up the channels of the market and create economic value for society.
The mission is different, the things done, it is different. All this, there is no distinction between high and low. In the face of the mission, at least, we are all equal, all exist to realize our own values.
04
Some encounters have long been arranged.
Why is the value of our destiny already clearly marked?
In this regard, the ancients had a saying: "Everything is fate, and half a point is not up to people." ”
What is "life"? Biologically, it's life. From the numerological point of view, it is the process that everyone has to go through in this lifetime.
Of course, looking at "life" from different perspectives, we all have different understandings.
In the case of having children, why can some families raise very good children, not only smart and sensible, but also filial to their parents? Why are some families' children unreasonable, extremely poor in nature, and unfilial to their parents?
Some people come into this world to seek your gratitude. And some people come into this world to seek revenge on you. Repay the favor because you are destined to have a good relationship with him. And revenge, because you are destined to have a conflict with him.
All this, you and I can not avoid. In the same way, other things that are bound to happen can only be accepted by us, and it is difficult to change.
Everything that happens around us is something we are destined to encounter. This is our "mission". Just as some people are destined to suffer in this life and are unable to enjoy happiness, it is not something that human beings can reverse.
So it's enough to accept your destiny, to accept your mission, and then to live as you please.
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