When I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop yesterday, I met a mother and daughter, and my daughter told my mother: "Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table, and he sometimes sneaks my stool when the teacher calls me to answer questions, so that I fall down and lose people, so that I am very uncomfortable, my mother is not very unpopular."
The child was aggrieved to tell his mother about his experience in school, I wanted to see how this mother would comfort the child, but I did not expect that this mother's approach impressed me, and the mother's approach was really comparable to the textbook level.
The mother told her daughter: "Others bully you is someone else's wrong, it has nothing to do with you, your mother teaches you to get along well with others, it is under the premise that others are friendly to you, if others bully you, you have to learn to protect yourself, the next time he bullies you, you have to tell him, I don't like you to do this, please don't do this, if he still bullies you, you can tell your mother and teacher, we will help you."
When children encounter things, the parents' approach is very important, the impact on the child will be very large, once a mother taught her child the way I impressed.
There are children who laugh at a little girl who looks bad, the little girl's mother tells the little girl: Baby, the appearance value can not represent everything, beauty is divided into inner beauty and external beauty, we are not so good-looking, we have to work hard to increase the connotation, inner beauty and external beauty are very important, the belly has poetry and self-glorification, we must read well, use inner beauty to enhance ourselves.
Since then, the little girl has never been uncomfortable with her looks, and when others laugh at her, she will tell others bluntly that I pursue inner beauty.
The way parents deal with problems is very important for children, when children encounter problems, parents should pay great attention to it, and parents' counseling of children is one thing.
At the same time, parents can also buy some growth education books for their children, so that children are aware of some problems from an early age and know how to solve them.
Little C very much recommend this set of "Growing Up No Worries", this set of books Small C has at home, the book is a comic version, the child just got his hands on it and loved it, read it several times.
The stories in the books are close to real life, including the independent learning ability, concentration, self-control, anti-frustration ability, sense of responsibility, stress relief, self-confidence, and social skills of the children who are most headaches for parents.
The books are highly targeted, and each book revolves around a core competency, telling children the importance of developing a certain ability and telling them how to develop it.
There is no boring big truth in the book, each is the use of small stories, the book looks like a story book, so that children can understand the importance of developing habits and how to develop habits while watching the stories.
For example, in the book "My Opponent is Myself", it is said that the little boy often procrastinates when doing things, cannot control himself, likes to play games, has poor self-control ability, and also writes small psychological details of the little boy, such as the little boy's fluke psychology, and feels that his grades will not decline.
This coincides with many children in real life, children read this book, they will feel empathy, like seeing themselves, realizing that the original procrastination is not right, the original grades will really decline.
At the back of the book, the little boy overcomes himself and has self-control, and when the child sees how the little boy overcomes himself, he will think about whether he should do the same, so as to imitate learning and overcome himself.
The same is true of the children in the little C family, who used to be very procrastinating, and they had to look at the mobile phone at every turn, after reading this book, the number of times she wanted the mobile phone was significantly reduced, and she even did not have to go to the homework without the mother's yelling, and the child's change was still very obvious.
There are 6-12 primary school students, I recommend parents to give their children a set, very helpful, click the link below to buy directly:
Parents' education is very important for children, sometimes, you can also use some book tools to help educate children, you can easily educate your children at the same time, why not enjoy it?