In today's society, many men will misunderstand their feelings once they reach a certain age, and they feel that when pursuing the opposite sex, as long as they give enough money, they can get the love of the opposite sex.
When getting along with the opposite sex, this kind of man will pay for women without reservation, and even willingly be a woman's cash machine, and the other party will give what he wants, and even his eyes will not blink.
However, there is only one consequence of this, that is, when the woman is tired of you, or you can no longer satisfy her, she will leave you, have no feelings for your efforts, and finally send you a good man card, and in the end you are only touched by yourself.
Feelings need two people to agree, as long as one person in a relationship is not willing to pay, or does not have any ideas about this relationship, then the relationship will not always be good, there will always be a day of separation.
From a normal point of view, instead of blindly giving gifts to the woman you like and willingly being the other party's cash machine, it is better to learn the skills, as long as the woman has a good feeling for you, you can do more with less.
In the pursuit of the opposite sex, what a woman wants is not how many gifts you give and how many material conditions you give her, but wants to get these three things from you.
1, take the initiative to affect women's emotions
For a woman, it's more important than anything that a man can make her mood fluctuate. Because in a woman's heart, only the people she cares about will be touched by the other party's every move.
Imagine that when a woman faces the opposite sex she does not like, no matter what the other party does, she will not have any feelings and thoughts; on the contrary, if she meets someone she likes, the other party's every move will affect her heart.
Xiao Liu, a colleague of the company, likes a new colleague, and she often chats with the male colleague consciously or unconsciously, and occasionally finds various excuses to go out to dinner with each other. However, the male colleague did not find that Xiao Liu liked him, and even joked with other female colleagues in front of Xiao Liu several times.
Later, for a period of time, Xiao Liu did not take the initiative to chat with male colleagues, let alone eat with him. Male colleagues also discovered Xiao Liu's abnormality, and finally with the help of Xiao Liu's friends, male colleagues knew the origin of the matter.
Fortunately, the male colleague also has feelings for Xiao Liu, so the two people came together after a period of time together.
Therefore, as a man, the best way to make girls like themselves is to make the other party move for you, only in this way can you leave a deep impression in the hearts of women, and you will have a further possibility.
2, know how to take care of each other's feelings
This is very important, for example, when a woman is sick and cold, what you need to do is not to comfort and advise across the screen, the best way is to take the initiative to care for each other and let the other party feel your concern.
In addition, you need to let the other person feel that you are always taking care of her feelings. For example, when two people go to dinner, don't always think about what they want to eat, but take the initiative to seek each other's opinions and try to respect each other's ideas.
Also, when the two of you disagree on some issues, if there is no issue of principle involved, you may as well follow each other's wishes, and when you have both calmed down, you will find the right opportunity to express your feelings.
When dealing with problems, for the people you like, it is best to follow her feelings. Only in this way can the other party feel that you are taking care of her feelings, and you can leave a good impression in her heart.
Once a woman begins to have special feelings for you, it means that you have entered each other's hearts, and as long as you work harder, there will be infinite possibilities between you.
3, appropriate indifference, maintain a certain distance
The process of pursuing a person is very difficult, don't think that as long as you work hard, you can get the approval of the other party. You can only get the other person's approval if you let the other party see your sincerity.
You have been pursuing each other and taking care of each other meticulously, or your intentions are good, but if you have been humbly pursuing women and not letting the other party see your strengths, then your efforts are useless.
Pursuing a person, not the more you try to succeed, the greater the chance, but after you work hard to a certain extent, start to keep a certain distance from the other party, let the other party start to worry about you, this is the best way to pursue a person.
You have to understand that the best way to pursue a person is always to attract the other person, not to go around the other person.
When the other person starts to discover your strengths and gradually becomes obsessed with you, don't think that you have succeeded. At this time, you had better be indifferent to the other party for a period of time, let the other party feel that you will be enchanted without you, and only at the right time will you want to indulge, which will make this relationship more intimate.
The last thing I want to tell you is that when you like a woman and want to pursue each other, don't be blind, thinking that as long as you pay, you will get the other party's sincerity.
Only when you play to your own strengths and let the other party see your own strengths can you attract the other party.
If a man wants to pursue a woman, he must know how to obtain a woman's heart and understand some of the woman's ideas, so that he can get the results he wants.
If you blindly pay, blindly do the other party's cash machine, in the end there is no love, only the good guy card sent by the other party.
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