There is a way to make men love you addicted, and these three points are very critical

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Love needs to pay attention to a certain method, and it is not as long as you put it in regardless of whether you are reckless, you can get the ideal love. In most cases, blindly investing can only make yourself more and more tired and unable to feel the sweetness of love.

Love should be sweet, if two people together are not yet relaxed and happy alone, the relationship is destined not to be benign love, and it is difficult to continue for a long time.

People who experience emotional difficulties often feel that their luck is not good enough, so that their love road is not smooth enough, they have encountered some love and cannot, they have encountered some disappointments, they have paid their hearts and lungs to be good to others, and finally they have exchanged for an empty, feeling that others cannot see their own good, do not know how to cherish, but never find a reason in themselves.

Some people can be at ease in love, let love continue to be fresh, no matter how long it has been, it can still be loved by one person to the bone, two people are as sweet as ever, while some people have always hovered on the edge of love, and have not enjoyed the feeling of being loved by one person to the bone.

In fact, we can all find some ways to manage love in the love of others, can not always blindly invest, master some business skills, grasp some of the scales and boundaries of getting along with each other, the flower of love can always bloom.

There is a certain difference between the mode of getting along that men and women desire, if you want to make men love you addicted, you need to be able to consider it from the perspective of the other party, and the mode of getting along that men like is like this, and only by learning can you get the love you want.

Learn to alternate between hot and cold, and properly chill him

Many women are easy to make a mistake in love, when they like a person, they will keep clinging to him, treating him as the whole of their world, always full of enthusiasm for him, to the point of selflessness.

In order for him to be willing to give up everything about himself, he would like to hollow himself out to be constantly good to him, only hoping that he can see his own good, so as to give himself unlimited love and care.

But in fact, the more enthusiastic you are for a person, the less seriously the other party will take you seriously, and even feel that you are annoyed and try to escape from you.

Men don't like love that is always airtight, they are very eager for space and freedom, even if they love you again, they don't want two people to be stuck together all the time, the more you are overly enthusiastic about him, too sticky, it will only accelerate his boredom with you.

Human nature is sometimes a bit of a slutty attribute, and the more you treat a person, the less he will take you seriously. The more you are cold to a person, the more you can arouse his strong interest in you.

For men, they all enjoy the desire to conquer, and the more cold women are, the more they are often able to stimulate their desires and are willing to spend their minds to please them.

Be cold to men and maintain a certain sense of mystery, and men will be willing to play the role of chasing, and will not just accept your efforts with peace of mind.

Keep a certain distance and leave a blank space for the relationship

"Blank space" is a high-level model of managing love. The use of blank space in writing can stimulate the reader's strong interest and be more willing to pay for the work.

The same is true in love, clever use of blank techniques, to give love some space and distance, in order to give each other the space to breathe freely, so as to be more intimate.

The so-called "small victory over the new marriage", appropriately pulling away a certain distance, is an important way to keep love fresh. Two people in the time of separation, each living their own life, the things that were once unthinkable were figured out in the time of separation, and the complaints against him seemed to be no big deal under the staggering of time.

Distance produces beauty, the closer you get, the easier it is to breed contradictions, if two people stay together 24 hours a day, it is bound to increase contradictions and dislikes, looking at each other wherever is a problem, the eyes are staring at each other's shortcomings, two people are easy to quarrel because of some small things with sesame garlic skin, resentment.

Even intimate lovers should avoid two people staying together all the time, appropriately pull away some distance, have their own independent circles, give each other some free space, and do what they want to do.

You don't have to completely bind each other together and know how to leave a blank space for the relationship to make love go more smoothly.

Have an independent personality and charm, and shine in their own field

Love is attracted, not bought in humble flattery. It is two people with independent personalities and egos, under the involvement of fate, crackling flames between each other, maintaining appreciation and affirmation for each other, can't help but be attracted to each other, and are reluctant to leave.

After all, the love obtained by relying on external beauty and flattery is only temporary, it cannot be long-lasting, only by being conquered by each other's personality charm and can not help but be attracted to each other, such love can last.

A woman should never be an appendage to a man, and should not live as a background board for him. Completely losing his independent personality, like a marionette, the whole person can only survive by grafting on his body, so that you will only make him look down on him and not know how to cherish it at all.

The best love is that both people have their own careers, they are shining in their own fields, they should be unambiguous when they should devote themselves to their careers, and when they come together, they can seriously believe in the truth and love, so that they can be more sweet.

Men crave love, must not be tied together all the time, their love must have an element of appreciation, although they desire the adoration of women, but they will not want their other half empty nothing, if you are just a vase, will only make them disgusted in their hearts.

You are sticky and independent of each other, shining alone in your own field, and this mode of getting along is what men desire most.

If you always invest in your love in a self-righteous way, in the end, even if you give more, you will never get the ideal love.

Love is a matter of two people, when it is good to one person, we must also use the way the other party likes to invest, use the way he is happy to accept the way to be good to each other, and find a more comfortable way for both parties to get along, so as not to love too tired.

If you want to make men love you addicted, you must learn the above modes of getting along, not too enthusiastic, not too sticky, not attached to him, maintain an independent personality, give each other a certain distance and space, is the key to the long-term prosperity of love.