This topic should start with Wu Kequn. In "Spring Day Delayed Departure", Wu Kequn actually withdrew from the group? After that, he posted an explanation: the reason for this withdrawal from the group is because CP is confused, and such an immersion is really laughable. The CP of Rock and Liu Liqi did not move here, and the other side began to snort David and Wu Yating again. Well, active participation and devotion are all right. Wu Kequn had to sigh: adult love is really not easy to figure out. Love can be called "metaphysics", which is originally a matter of special emphasis on fate. This flowing cp, love is an art.
And, of course, there's a derivative. Wu Kequn feels that the most important thing in falling in love is to know how to leave blank space and not to give too much. Leaving room for each other will keep both parties comfortable. Remember in "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", Li Mubai said affectionately to Yu Xiulian: "When you clasp your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands." "This is Chinese-style love, and its essence is that it is left and white. When the moon is full, it loses, and when the water is full, it overflows. Leaving a little leeway, this is indeed the safest and most ideal distance.
In fact, the blank space was not originally used in the emotional field. Baidu tells you that blank space is a technique commonly used in the creation of Chinese art works, which means that in the creation of calligraphy and painting art, in order to make the entire work picture and chapter more coordinated and exquisite, it deliberately leaves a corresponding blank space and leaves room for imagination. The picture always has to leave a corresponding blank space, which leaves an aftertaste. "Blank" as a carrier, and then can render the artistic conception of beauty. The so-called art can be seen. Falling in love is also an art that needs to be "left blank".
First of all, "full" is relative, but when it comes to others, you can't all look at things from your own point of view. So, couples usually fall into that myth: I love you, so I'll love you the way I do. As a result, the other party feels that this is very depressing, this is the burden of love. Over time, the light accumulates boredom, and the heavy produces the idea of breaking up. Others may be stressing that you have to love me the way I like; and you need to give me space and time, otherwise this is terrible possessiveness and domination. Even if everyone's standards are different, this "full" should always be unwelcome.
Secondly: "staying" is arranging with love Since "leaving blank" is art, it cannot be left blank all the time and everywhere. This gives the other person the feeling that you don't value me, that you don't have me in your eyes or in your heart. This is another misunderstanding, "stay" too much is a blank. Between couples, can not be arranged too full. Too late, "not enough" is also not an artistic act. Not only do you have to arrange according to your personal reality, but also consider it in combination with the actual situation of the other party. Such a "blank space" is successful, and it is truly able to achieve harmonious coexistence and sincere treatment. (Text/Drifting Yu tong)
Finally: "Full" and "Stay" Are Contradictory Unity "Full" and "Stay" are both contradictions and unifications. Specific problems need to be analyzed in detail, and if this flexible treatment is not possible - then how can the relationship between couples be harmonious and beautiful? "At this time, silence is better than sound" is a blank space, and "no color phoenix double flying wings, the heart has a sharp point" is also a blank. Couples are relatively quiet, and your "fullness" is the best concoction. Couples are relatively enthusiastic, and your "stay" is escorting love.
END。 Falling in love is never a talk on paper. Love requires art, which varies from person to person, from place to place, from event to event. "Blank space" applies to any field, especially in love. Why not let each other be in a comfortable state?
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