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"Heart Residence" is about to end, and the in-laws plan to send Feng Xiaoqin a suite. The father-in-law and daughter-in-law said, I have discussed with your sister- and I will buy this house and write your name.
If Gu Lei was still there, how happy Feng Xiaoqin would be, he would definitely accept it happily. However, Feng Xiaoqin, who had experienced a lot, refused.
Why doesn't Feng Xiaoqin want this house?
In fact, Feng Xiaoqin had been looking forward to the in-laws' family being able to give herself an affirmation, but before this family was guarding against her, thinking that she was too calculating, afraid that she would do something out of the ordinary.
Now, the eldest sister Gu Qingyu has experienced some things, and she can finally understand her from Xiaoqin's point of view. The in-laws also truly accepted Feng Xiaoqin. Perhaps, Feng Xiaoqin felt that this was enough.
Feng Xiaoqin, a foreign sister, wants to gain a firm foothold when she arrives in Shanghai, and she also wants to have a home of her own. However, her husband Gu Lei is an unsupportable Ah Dou, resulting in Feng Xiaoqin not being able to find a sense of security. Therefore, she always thought that if she wanted to own a house, it would be better for her family of three to move out. Since the death of her husband, until Feng Xiaoqin started her own business, in the tempering of life, she understood that the real sense of security does not come from the house, but from the stability of the heart.
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After watching this drama, people who like Feng Xiaoqin and people who like Gu Qingyu often argue endlessly, always trying to argue about right and wrong.
A netizen said a sentence to the point, she said that those who like Feng Xiaoqin are basically daughters-in-law.
This is true, and only by experiencing it can you empathize with it.
Feng Xiaoqin has a bottom line, the original intention is unchanged, she is very hard to rely on herself to get what she wants. It is not easy to compromise, and many people in real life can't do what she does.
As the daughter-in-law of the Gu family, ordinary people may not be as good as Feng Xiaoqin.
There is Gu Lei's grandmother and father-in-law in the Gu family, Gu Lei in the middle, and there is a child below. Of course, there is also a delicate and arrogant, dust-free big sister Gu Qingyu.
The Gu family also wants all relatives to have dinner once a week.
If you want to survive in such a in-laws' home, you must be smart and capable, know the general situation, understand the human relationship, and what to do and what not to do.
Feng Xiaoqin did it.
In the morning, Feng Xiaoqin has to cook rice, to fry leek cakes, to prepare porridge, pickles, bread, milk, boiled eggs, many people, different personal tastes, so breakfast is also mixed.
The 80-year-old Mrs. Gu came back from exercise in the morning, and when she entered the house, she shouted that she was hungry, and Feng Xiaoqin immediately filled porridge, served hotly, and served it with small dishes.
The Gu family has an old-fashioned eight-immortal table, and the breakfast on the table, bottles and cans, condiments and so on are basically filled.
This big son, serving alone, is really thanks to Feng Xiaoqin's ability.
Anhui cuisine is spicy, Feng Xiaoqin came to Shanghai after learning a few small dishes, even Gu Mrs. Gu's picky mouth, will also praise it from time to time.
Feng Xiaoqin is strong, she wants to be perfect in everything she does. At this point, she is a bit similar to Gu Qingyu, who has a strong side in her personality and will not easily bow her head.
Sister Feng Xixi is always hostile to Gu Qingyu and holds a grudge for her sister. Instead, Feng Xiaoqin told her sister, "If you don't invest in the fate, you will say a few more words, and if you don't throw in the fate, you will say less. ”
And Feng Xiaoqin treated Gu Qingyu to the same level as the elders, and a "Sister A" call was solemn and kind.
Feng Xiaoqin has always been very clear about her position, and should not say more than one word, but if others want to bully her, it is impossible to take advantage. She was such a realistic and shrewd woman.
During a dinner party of the Gu family, the great aunt Su Wangdi proposed that she wanted Feng Xixi to work as a nanny for the Gu Xin family. Feng Xiaoqin, who was busy in the kitchen, asked her sister to stay in the kitchen and not move. She took the fried spring rolls to the table and put them on the table, "Boo" a big and small sound, she smiled and beckoned everyone to eat, personally clipped to everyone, but did not give Su Wangdi clips, even if there are still two spring rolls left on the plate, she also poured her brain into Ge Yue's plate.
Turned and went to the kitchen, leaving a stubborn back.
After that, I told my sister to go out and sit and eat generously, and I didn't need your help for housework in the future, and I was not allowed to enter the kitchen again, and I would take the English level four test early.
At this time, Feng Xiaoqin's self-esteem was extremely strong, and she did not allow anyone to look down on herself and her sister.
There is such a sentence in the original work, which exhausts Xiaoqin's heartache: "The foil is the foil after all." Can't be the protagonist, call the heavens and the earth should not be called unspiritual, but still dare not slack. More and more tenacious back and forth. ”
Therefore, Feng Xiaoqin desperately wants to have a house of her own.
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Compared with the original work, the TV series added a more realistic factor, that is, Feng Xiaoqin asked the eldest sister to borrow money to buy a house, which also led to a series of contradictions after that.
Gu Lei's death further increased Feng Xiaoqin's desire to buy a house. Because she had nowhere to go, she had to continue to live in the Gu family, still living as before.
Some people will feel that Feng Xiaoqin is a bit thick-skinned, in fact, in the current situation is the only choice she can make. She has to be realistic at this time, because she has to survive and support her children. Even if the eldest sister Gu Qingyu looked down on her, and even suspected that she had stolen something from Zhang Abo's family, since you said that I was like this, she would also say the opposite to the past, but that suspicion was really suffocating.
Therefore, women cannot talk about self-esteem without the ability to survive.
Later, Feng Xiaoqin opened a nursing home, which was also her step-by-step camp, because since Gu Lei was gone, she understood that people had to rely on themselves after all. She said: "I think that if I want to do it, I will do what no one else has done." It is best to succeed, at least tried unsuccessfully, worthy of yourself. ”
In the original work, Feng Xiaoqin finally got Zhan Xiang's affirmation, 'not too late' to hand over to anyone, I am not at ease, only handed over to you, I am not worried at all. Grandpa can trust you, and he admires you a little. Truth be told, don't lie to you. He said, and gently stroked her head.
The ending of the book Feng Xiaoqin sent away his sister who had an accident, and he stayed in Shanghai with his "brother" Feng Danian, and she reported him to night school, English and computer, and Feng Danian did not refuse, looking at her mercy. She continued to run "Not Too Late".
The open-ended ending may imply that life has no ending. Life is always full of contingencies and is unpredictable. You can only work hard, but you can never decide your own destiny.
Feng Xiaoqin finally understood the truth of life after experiencing all kinds of things.
Everyone's pain of being crushed by fate is the same, and the helplessness of life is the same. Fortunately, when we walk alone in the darkness, your patience, your positivity, and your efforts will become a ray of sunshine and illuminate your life. As long as you are sober and not blind, contented and not satisfied, you can live as you want.