Having children can be said to be a real "transformation" for women. This transformation is not only reflected in the change of women's identity, upgrading to mother, but also reflected in the change of women's appearance and body. Even if the stars are properly maintained, there will be some slight changes in their appearance after production.
Some women recover relatively quickly after giving birth, and within a few months, they return to their prenatal weight and radiance, and some women's postpartum appearance and prenatal appearance are simply "like two people".
Many people may be unfamiliar with Hu Juan's name, but eighteen years ago, the changes after she gave birth shocked everyone.
Hu Juan was a beautiful girl before giving birth, with a fleshy face and a very "blessed appearance". At the age of 27, she and her husband had the crystallization of love.
The birth of his son undoubtedly brought countless joys and laughter to Hu Juan's family. However, the good times did not last long, and after giving birth, Hu Juan looked in the mirror and found that the skin above her neck began to become somewhat loose.
At first, she just had some sighs, saying that women get old quickly after giving birth, but they didn't expect that their skin would become loose just after giving birth.
Maybe she just gave birth to a child and didn't recover well, Hu Juan comforted herself in her heart. But half a year passed, and Hu Juan became more and more collapsed.
The skin above her neck was slacking at a speed visible to the naked eye in the six months after giving birth, and finally, Hu Juan's face looked no different from that of an 80-year-old man, which broke Hu Juan's heart, and she could not accept such a fact.
Accelerated postpartum aging is a problem faced by many people, but Hu Juan's aging rate is too fast to be believed.
When Hu Juan was almost broken, her husband never abandoned her side. The doctor gave a diagnosis to Hu Juan, and the reason why Hu Juan "grew old overnight" was because she suffered from a rare disease, acquired sagging skin, which has not been treated well today.
A flower-like girl became an "old lady" half a year after giving birth to a child, and such a change was unacceptable to anyone.
Hu Juan once wanted to end her life, but her husband has always been around to give her encouragement and comfort, which makes Hu Juan rekindle the hope of life.
Eighteen years have passed, how is Hu Juan's recent situation? Although Hu Juan suffered misfortune and her appearance changed dramatically, Hu Juan still lived well with the support of her family. In the past ten years, she has undergone three cosmetic surgeries to make herself look more "young".
Her relationship with her husband is also sweet for more than ten years, which has become a huge motivation for Hu Juan to continue to live. Hu Juan's story is touching, although the disease is merciless, but true love has feelings.
The huge changes in Hu Juan's postpartum period are due to rare diseases, and many of the new baoma's postpartum changes are related to the following aspects.
Why do moms have large differences in prenatal and postnatal body changes? There are three main reasons why Bao Mom should pay attention
◎Do not pay attention to postpartum rehabilitation
Some mothers focus their lives on parenting after childbirth, neglecting to pay attention to their bodies and not paying attention to postpartum rehabilitation.
Among them, many of them will appear after childbirth "leakage of urine", and even uterine prolapse and other phenomena, these postpartum "problems" are related to the relaxation of pelvic floor muscles, some mothers eat less, the stomach is still large belly, which is related to the relaxation of their rectus abdominis muscles.
"Postpartum rehabilitation" is not a waste of money, nor is it an IQ tax, but it is really a blessing for women.
Older generations may not understand postpartum rehabilitation, thinking that these are unnecessary, and their incomprehension is because of their poor medical conditions.
Now that the medical conditions are better and many hospitals can do postpartum rehabilitation, why don't mothers treat themselves better?
◎ Neglected to manage their own body
The reason why many mothers "judge two people" before and after giving birth to a child is because their figure begins to be out of shape and blessed.
The postpartum body fortune of bao moms is related to many aspects, one of which is that they "eat and drink" during pregnancy and gain weight too quickly.
Another reason is their neglect of managing their bodies after childbirth. Many mothers are beautiful girls before giving birth, like to dress up, and care about their own figure.
After giving birth, they escalated to become mothers, and the change of status made them naturally pay attention to their children, and the pressure of parenting made them begin to neglect to manage their bodies.
◎Poor postpartum mood
It is said that if you look at a woman's eyes, you can tell whether she is happy or not. This sentence may be absolute, but it is not unreasonable, having children is actually only the first challenge, and parenting is the greater challenge. After having children, the family is often a chicken feather, all kinds of trivialities.
The reason why some women have made great changes in all aspects of their postpartum appearance, no longer radiant, and their eyes have darkened, these changes have a lot to do with her mood.
Ancients Yun: "People are in good spirits when they are happy." "Under the pressure of parenting, new mothers are prone to collapse and depression, and if her husband or family does not understand her, she may be more depressed, self-abandoned, and even give up her life."
If mothers can get the help of their families when they are tired and the comfort of their families when they collapse, their ability to "heal themselves" will be very strong.
Even if the mood is at a low point for a period of time, they can adjust in time, greet every day's life with a happy mood, they will become energetic, they will pay attention to their body management and other aspects, and strive to make themselves better.
Parenting message
Every woman, no matter what age she is in, no matter how big a problem she encounters in life, should not give up being herself.
Hu Juan's story has brought "positive energy" to many people, even if our appearance is aging, even if we are young and no longer, we must love life, strive to grow upwards, and become a shining self.
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