Wen 丨 Forest Mommy
Yun Zhi is a single mother in Shanghai, and she has a son named Ke Ke.
Coco is a legendary child from the stars.
Before the son was 3 years old, they were a happy family, and when the son was one year old, he would chase them and shout "daddy, mom", but after that, he didn't say more and more like other children, and even didn't talk for a while, and there was no communication with people at all.
She took her son to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor gave him a diagnosis that read, "Belongs to autism spectrum disorder."
She couldn't accept it for a while, thinking it was a joke god had made for her.
But when she woke up the next day, reality still forced her to wake up. She began to take her child around for medical treatment, spending a lot of money, but the child showed no signs of getting better.
Finally, one day, the husband couldn't hold on and let her make a choice between children and marriage.
Yunzhi understands her husband, but she chooses children.
The life of a person with a child, not to mention how difficult it is, she has to work hard to support herself and the child, but also to take care of an autistic child, the school only let KeKe take half a day of classes every day, so she has to take the child home in the afternoon to tutor herself, she quit her personnel job, replaced by a relatively free time sales job, but also to serve as the child's teacher, a very simple word, she wants to teach the child countless times...
For the sake of the children, she persevered.
Later, the child finally slowly got better, he said more, the smile on his face was more, she shared the daily life of the child on the Internet, some people did not understand why she wanted to expose the child's affairs, but she did not want the child to live only in a cover, she knew that there are some roads that need the son to go by himself.
In her comment section, there were also many people who encouraged her and encouraged Coco.
However, I once heard a dad in a community talking about his daughter's autism, he talked about the hardships of his life, originally just wanted to get some empathy and encouragement, but he heard some unfriendly voices.
There are people who don't know much about autism to give him tips, teach him how to let the child speak, and there is a person who means everything outside the words, because they are unqualified as parents, which has caused such psychological trauma to the child...
In fact, many people still have some misunderstandings about autistic people.
Children with autism, not psychologically traumatized, nor are there problems with the parents' family environment;
Either a withdrawn personality, not talkative, or autistic;
Autistic children, not all of them have intellectual problems...
You can not understand it, but you cannot self-righteously educate him or judge the parents of autistic children;
You can sympathize with it, but you can't laugh at it and dissolve the seriousness of the term "autism" as a disease.
Autism, also known as autism, is a disease that affects brain function due to nervous system disorders, resulting in developmental disorders, and symptoms mostly appear before the age of 3, mainly manifested as social disorders, communication disorders, limited interests, stereotyped repetitive movements, etc., and may be accompanied by different degrees of mental retardation.
The onset of autism is mainly genetic factors, and studies have shown that "adverse factors during maternal pregnancy are risk factors for autism", such as: advanced maternal age, threatened miscarriage, viral infections, smoking, drugs, emotional instability, lack of oxygen at birth and so on.
Children with autism are divided into three main types of social interaction:
Apathetic, inactive, unresponsive to the active interactions of others;
Active but weird type, active, but often behaved in an anachronistic manner;
Passive, not active, but will not avoid the active closeness of others, but the interaction seems stiff and rigid;
In the process of growing up, if we find that he has behavioral abnormalities in language, behavior, etc., we must take the child to the hospital for a special diagnosis, and the doctor will diagnose the diagnosis, and then actively take intervention and treatment.
The treatment of autism is also a long-term systematic process, effective intervention and treatment, can help children develop better, improve children's ability to adapt to society.
The Shenzhen Watch Association once made a video telling the story of 3 autistic children who grew up.
A reporter talked to a reporter, talked about his painting experience, only occasionally there are repetitions of speech, thinking jumps, was asked "Someone told you that you are autistic", he said, "I am fine";
One studied computer networking at a technical secondary school, his ideal is to be a network engineer, he knows his situation, but does not feel that the disease will bring any effect;
There is another one who is only thirteen or fourteen years old, still in a special school, he can communicate with people typing and communicating with people, but the speed is relatively slow, the teacher is slowly talking to him next to him, he can understand and understand;
These children, who have not given up the hope of life because they are autistic, they take this special factory setting and strive to grow into their best.
It can be imagined how much effort their parents have put in and how many difficulties they have experienced with their children on their way to growing up.
According to the "Report on the Development of Children with Autism in China", there are more than 10 million children with autism in China, accounting for 0.6% of the total number of children, and for various reasons, many children with autism have not been diagnosed. Worldwide, 1 in 100 new births currently has autism.
Not only that, but the incidence of autism worldwide has also risen sharply in recent years.
In 2007, the United Nations General Assembly designated April 2 of each year as the World Autism Awareness Day, calling on more people to understand autism and care for autistic people.
The theme of this year's World Autism Day is "Building a Social Security Mechanism", and we also look forward to more "children of the stars" who can return to this planet and integrate into the normal track of life.