Peach leaves are pointed upwards
Willow leaves cover the sky
In its place this Ming Agong
Listen to me
The incident occurred at the Jingxi Blue Indigo Factory
The Blue Indigo Factory Firearms Battalion has a pine old three
Since the summer of 2018, this song "Exploring the Clear Water River", Zhang Yunlei has sung for countless girls (zhang Yunlei fans' nicknames) on large and small occasions.
The grand situation of "turning cross-talk into a performance meeting" has attracted the envy and jealousy of countless peers.
However, one day in September 2021, Zhang Yunlei brought "One Man's Concert" to a special fan and sang the song "Exploring the Clear Water River" for her alone.
One Man's Concert
What is the origin of this fan? Can you let the traffic of the cross-talk industry and the new singer sing for her alone?
Let's take a look at the moving story between Zhang Yunlei and this female fan and her son.
Zhang Yunlei and his fans know it
Yunzhi's friends knew that she liked Zhang Yunlei
If there is a dilemma in life, it is necessary to stay
The female fan is named Yunzhi, from Shanghai, is a single mother, and her son is a "child of the stars".
In fact, before his son Ke ke was 3 years old, Yun Zhi also had a happy and happy family. The husband is gentle and considerate, and the son is well-behaved and lovely.
However, all the beauty of life was shattered when his son was 3 years old.
Zhang Yunlei and Yunzhi talked
Yun Zhi remembers: When Ke Ke was about 1 year old, he would also be like other children, love to talk and laugh, and would chase them and shout "Daddy, Mommy".
However, as Ke Ke grew older, Yun Zhi found that his son spoke less and less, and even did not speak for a while, and there was no communication with them at all.
One thing that Yun Zhi still remembers is that when Ke Ke was less than 3 years old, when he was thirsty and wanted to drink water, he couldn't reach the cup on the table, he would rather choose to move the stool himself, step on the stool layer by layer to get a cup of water to drink, rather than say to her: Mom, I am thirsty.
Discovering that their son's behavior was abnormal, Yun Zhi and her husband took their son to the hospital for a physical examination, and the results of the physical examination were like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, hitting the young mother and shattering her vision of her future life.
The results of the physical examination are like thunderbolts on a sunny day
The doctor wrote on the diagnosis book: language development delay, social impairment, belongs to the autism spectrum disorder.
Autism spectrum disorder, simply put, is a generalized developmental disorder that includes abnormal language skills, abnormal communication skills, narrow interests, and stubborn behavior patterns.
The moment she saw the results of the examination, Yunzhi collapsed, and she was so sad that she did not sleep for three days and three nights.
She kept reflecting, and she asked herself: when she was a child, she had won countless stories; from childhood to adulthood, she had always loved singing and dancing. Now that her son has social disorders and suffers from autism, this is really a big joke on her.
But Yun Zhi was only depressed for three days.
Three days later, she regained her strength because she knew that if she fell, her son would really have no hope.
She and her husband took their son around to seek medical treatment, hoping that his son would live a normal child's life as soon as possible.
However, the doctor saw a lot, and the money also spent a lot, but his son's condition has not improved. The husband's confidence and patience have also been depleted little by little in the past few years.
One day, the husband who couldn't hold on asked Yun zhi to choose between children and marriage.
Yunzhi faces a dilemma
Although she is sad about her husband's withdrawal, she understands him. After all, he was also an ordinary person, and he was not wrong, but he could no longer take on the responsibility of his father.
If there is a dilemma in life, it is necessary to stay.
In the end, Yun zhi had to abandon the marriage and chose Ke Ke because she was a mother.
I admire this strong and great mother
The woman is weak, and the mother and child are strong
In 2019, Yunzhi divorced her husband, and she took Keke to start a new life.
Saying that it is a new life, in fact, Yun zhi does not know how to go in the future.
Divorced without a house and with a sick son, the outside world does not understand what she is trying to do? She has to rent a house with her son, pay rent and utilities, pay for her son's rehabilitation courses, and the living expenses of the two of them, and all kinds of survival pressures are paved.
She was also helpless, but she chose to be strong
Yun Zhi was also confused: he was obviously a capable person, how could he live like this in the end? The son fell ill, the marriage failed, and he gave everything he gave in the end but ultimately failed.
Overwhelmed, Yun Zhi had also thought about taking his son for a hundred years.
But seeing his elderly parents and his son who had been carefully raised for many years, Yun Zhi dispelled this idea. They all have to rely on Yunzhi to support, she must work hard, can not fall.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
Yun Zhi understands:
She is the son's last bottom line and his last dependence. For the sake of her son, she must have the courage and confidence to fight against life, because there are always more ways than difficulties.
All for the son
Life did not crush Yun zhi, but the exclusion of her son by the outside world made her into trouble again.
After all, not everyone can understand and accept autistic children, especially this child may also affect their own children's learning.
In the second grade of Keke, Yun Zhi confronted the entire parent committee.
The cause of the incident was the feedback from the English teacher in the parent group: the teacher arranged for the children to perform in the class, and when other children sang on the stage, Ke Ke also sang offstage, and how could not be stopped. It is hoped that parents can strengthen the education of their children.
As soon as the news from the English teacher came out, some parents came forward to turn over the old accounts: Keke repeatedly disrupted the discipline of the classroom, which was very problematic.
Subsequently, various voices in the parent group followed, some people said that Ke Ke had violent behavior and mental disorders, and some people said that Ke Ke should not stay in this school, should transfer schools.
But Yunzhi resisted the pressure, and she and the parent committee argued:
They all say that children grow up only once, and if you want to protect your children's rights, I will also protect my son's rights.
Yun Zhi argues for his son
The two sides were at an impasse.
In the end, both sides made concessions: Keke could attend half a day's class in the morning every day, and yun knew that he would take home to tutor himself in the afternoon.
But even so, sometimes Coco was asked to be picked up early by the class, and he only attended two classes a day at school.
In the dead of night, Yun Zhi also had insomnia and tears until dawn. She was unwilling and had complained about the injustice of fate. But in the face of outsiders, Yunzhi is still strong.
In the impression of Yunzhi's friends, before marriage, Yunzhi was a typical Shanghai girl, a little delicate, but also some emotional.
Yun Zhi herself also said that she was once a girl who loved to cry, and she could cry from the beginning to the end when watching "Peacock Southeast Flying" in the theater.
But since Ke ke fell ill, she was so strong that she rarely shed tears. Because she knows that tears are useless, tears can't save her son, she must become strong for her son, she is the last barrier for her son.
The brother with the stars in his eyes brings a beam of light to the "children of the stars"
In order to take better care of his son, YunZhi quit his personnel job for many years and found a sales job with relatively free time.
This allows her time to pick up Coco to and from school, to accompany him with his homework, and to help him with his homework.
Yun Zhi bought a small blackboard, bought chalk, and arranged the home as a classroom, simulating the scene of the class.
A very simple sentence for ordinary children, Keke is much more complicated and cumbersome to learn.
Water - > drink water - > drink hot water - > to drink hot water - > I want to drink hot water, Yun Zhi just taught little by little, word by word superimposed, I don't know how many times it was repeated, Ke Ke finally learned this sentence "I want to drink hot water"
It's really hard to get an autistic child to learn to speak and be willing to speak.
However, suddenly one day, Ke Ke ran to Yun Zhi and said, "Mom, let me sing you a song."
Before Yun Zhi could react, Ke Ke had already sung: The peach leaf tip was pointed, and did not forget to add a "hey hey" (four sounds, an interaction between Deyun Society fans and actors).
A surprise from my son
The sudden change of her son surprised and delighted Yun zhi, and she couldn't help but ask Ke Ke: Who did you listen to?
Coco told her:
He is a brother with stars in his eyes.
It was hard to imagine that such a sentence could come out of the mouth of a child with a language barrier.
Zhang Yunlei, who had stars in his eyes, illuminated countless people
Later, Yun Zhi learned that the brother was a cross-talk actor named Zhang Yunlei.
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Yun Zhi has always been curious, why can Zhang Yunlei's song leave such a deep impression on Ke Ke? Can you still attract him to actively learn?
After all, it is not as easy for Keke to learn a song as other children, but Keke has learned it and is willing to sing it to her mother.
Yunzhi said: No matter what, Zhang Yunlei is a miracle for Keke, and he has done what Yunzhi did not do. meantime
Zhang Yunlei is also like a beam of light, shining into their unusual family, helping them dispel the darkness and bring light.
Yun Zhi said that Zhang Yunlei was a miracle for Ke Ke
Zhang Yunlei's fans often say: Zhang Yunlei has stars in his eyes. Unexpectedly, such a fan's inadvertent praise of Zhang Yunlei opened up the inner world of a "star child".
It's really wonderful!
Since then, Yunzhi and Keke have chased zhang Yunlei together, and the mother and son have listened to Zhang Yunlei's songs together, collected Zhang Yunlei's posters together, and become his hardcore fans.
Yun Zhi and his son chased the star Zhang Yunlei together
Gradually, Yunzhi found that Keke slowly began to change, and Keke, who had never liked to read books before, would take the initiative to find some historical small story books to read, and developed a good habit of reading, which was the most pleasing change to Yunzhi.
Even the teachers began to feedback that all aspects of Keke's personality were getting better and better, and Yun Zhi was very pleased after listening to it.
Later, Yun Zhi found that Ke Ke was very interested in cooking, and she joked with her son: Will you be sent to New Oriental in the future?
In fact, for his son's future, Yun Zhi has a very clear understanding: with Ke Ke's current situation, he may not even be able to pass the junior college entrance examination, and his future life will face various dilemmas.
But as a mother, Yun zhi will not blindly force her son to study, she needs to find a life path for her son that suits him. In the past 10 years, Yun Zhi has been pushing Ke Ke to go, and the next 10 years or even longer need Ke Ke to walk by herself.
Yun zhi has a clear understanding of his son's future
Ke Ke once made a birthday wish on his birthday: I hope to be as brave as Zhang Yunlei!
This is also Yunzhi's wish for Keke, in the future, if he faces the doubts and pressures of the outside world and the confusion of life, he can have the courage to face life.
Ke Ke hopes that she is as brave as Zhang Yunlei
Write at the end
Nowadays, under the company and care of Yunzhi, Keke's living condition is getting better and better.
Sometimes Yun Zhi will take Ke Ke to run customers together, exercise his social skills, and slowly overcome social obstacles.
Yun Zhi and his son Ke Ke
If it comes to a single business, Yun Zhi will reward Ke Ke and himself for a big meal.
Once, Ke Ke held up a drink and said to Yun Zhi: Mother, you have worked hard.
At that moment, Yun Zhi finally felt that all his efforts over the years were worth it. As long as Ke Ke can grow up happily and without illness or disaster, she will not feel hard.
Finally, borrowing the lyrics from "The World of Man",
May every child from the "stars" meet the light of his life like Coco and illuminate their way back to earth.
I wish you a thousand waves
Be able to stay by your lover's side
In the time when Mom was old
Listen to her talk slowly about her childhood
I also wish you not to forget your youthful appearance
And there is no fear of the white-haired sky
Like a seed all your life toward the sun
In this soil grows with everything
Postscript: The above story originates from Tencent Video's "One Man's Concert" No. 6: "Zhang Yunlei × The Mother of a Child with Delay in Speech Disorder Yunzhi", paying tribute to this great and strong mother Yunzhi, and hoping that more people can pay attention to the "children of the stars" and give them more understanding and support.