Some women may not understand, in fact, in the eyes of men, some women can marry themselves, and some women are just their own passers-by, in order to play with themselves.
Every woman does not want to be a passer-by in a man's life, and when a woman talks to a man, she always thinks of living a lifetime with this person, but in this world, there are some good men who inevitably have some scumbags.
Good men want to live with you for a lifetime, this kind of person is particularly fond of you, so they will talk to you, but some people just want to play with you.
Therefore, when women talk about objects, they must polish their eyes, do not wait until the day when they really make a mistake to wake up, and it is too late to make plans that day.
In men's minds, there are three obvious differences between playing and moving the truth.
01.
Plan your future well
If you want to live with you for a lifetime, then this person must have moved your true feelings, so at this time you will plan your future, because a life is very long, only by planning well, you can live a good life.
Don't look at some men usually grinning, in fact, these men also have their own ideas in their hearts, otherwise they will not work so hard at work, and work hard at work, just to have a good life in the future.
Of course, things are not absolute, there are some rich second generation in the work and study is not need to work hard, because they have the support of the family, but as most ordinary people, hard work is the best way out.
Men can work their careers and will also try to plan your future, so when a man plans the future of the two of you, the man is moving the truth for you.
If you mention the future of the two of you to this man, the man always prevaricates you, or thinks that you are very annoying about this matter, the man's performance is a manifestation of escape, not planning the future of the two of you, indicating that the man never intends to live with you for a lifetime, this man is with you just to consume your time, and the love given to you is relatively short-lived.
So after a woman and a man are together, if you want to go all the way with this man, then you have to test whether the man has plans for your future, and if there are no plans for your future, it shows that the man's love for you is not sincere.
02.
Whether it is specific to you
If a man determines that a woman has true feelings for this woman, then the man will become very single-minded.
There are many men in the world, special flowers, but one day, when you meet a certain woman, you will become very single-minded, because you feel that the other party is your own world, so the day you are with each other, you have identified each other.
When one person identifies the other, the other person is already eclipsed in their own eyes.
Women must not feel that this man spends his heart, you can change the other party, if this man first looked at you at the moment, did not change the problem of the flower heart for you, then, in the future life, it will also make you wronged, maybe one day your status will be replaced by others.
Don't try to change a man, if this man has never wanted to take the initiative to change for you, then, in the future life, when you change each other again and again, the other party will feel that you are making unreasonable trouble, and will also feel that you are imposing some shackles on yourself.
When a man faces love, when he is not single-minded, you must know that this is the bottom line that cannot be touched in love, and if this man is not specific enough to you, then everything is free to talk about.
On the contrary, if a man is single-minded enough for you, you must not feel that this man is no one wants, so it will revolve around you, in fact, it is only the other party who loves you too much and has moved the truth to you, so there will be such a performance.
But when a woman is pampered by a man, she always feels that the man is not worth mentioning, because when a person licks a dog, in fact, the woman feels that the person has no value.
People often know how to cherish after losing, because when you lose this person, you find that all people are not as good as this person, and they can no longer meet such a sincere person, and when they regret it, it is too late.
You said that when you look for another person, you must find someone who is dedicated to you, this person only has you in his heart, and no one else will be very happy after marrying such a person.
Every woman does not want to face divorce, nor does she want to face lost love, which means that women must see each other's true face when choosing men.
This society is a mixed-eyed society, and many people pretend to be good to others, but in fact they are also good to others. Like a central air conditioner, warming everyone, and then choosing one of these people to be your wife, treating you as a spare tire, is also unfair to you.
03.
Willing to spend money for you
If a man is willing to spend money for a woman, there is no doubt that this man still has this woman in his heart, unless this man is a very rich man, then this man is not the same thing as taking money, so it is said that every woman will spend it.
For example, Wang Sicong is such a kind of existence, Wang Sicong, as a playboy, just like the brother of the rich and noble family, often plays with some female comrades, and after playing with these people, he gives some money, and these female comrades will find the next person to marry, of course, women are happy to do so.
In addition to people like Wang Sicong, many people's money is not blown by the wind, so these people are very concerned about money.
There are some men who are very tight when they are with women, because men have not thought about living with this woman for a lifetime, so they don't want to spend too much money on this woman.
So when you are with this man, if you see that this man has money and is reluctant to spend it for you, then you have to leave this person decisively, if you see that this man has no money, sometimes this man shows that it is also reasonable to cut the door.
A man spending money for you doesn't necessarily love you, but a man who has money and doesn't spend it for you is designating not loving you. Maybe this man spent money on a certain person at a certain stage, just didn't spend money on you.
There are still some differences between playing and emotional in men's hearts. When a girl is in love for the first time, she will be toyed with by scumbags, and when a woman experiences such a thing, the woman will become pessimistic and disappointed, and she will lose love, what it should be, innocence and expectation.
Therefore, before women talk about the object, they must recognize each other's positives, and the parents of girls must also teach this child how to distinguish scumbags when educating their children.