Mom and Dad, do you know what the purpose of education is?
Of course, it's not just grades.
Education is about developing habits, especially when children are at the age of 3-15. Helping your child develop good habits before he turns 12 will not only benefit your child for a lifetime, but parents will also have a lot of peace of mind.
So, how? The American psychologist William James once said:
"Sow an action and reap a habit; sow a habit and harvest a character; sow a character, harvest a destiny."
Habits can determine a person's fate. Whether you can take on heavy responsibilities, whether you will do things, and how capable you are, I am afraid it is all related to your habits.
Take a look at this story:
A highly demanding foreign-funded enterprise recruits workers, and some young people with very good objective conditions such as academic level, height and appearance have passed five levels and six generals, entered the final level--- interview. However, I did not expect, did not ask questions, did not ask questions, in just 10 minutes, they all failed. Why?
It turned out that the general manager had left for 5 minutes, and these young people were very proud, surrounding the general manager's desk, looking at the material, flipping through the information. After 10 minutes, the general manager came back and said: The interview is over. The group of young people wondered.
The general manager said: Unfortunately, none of you have been admitted, because the company has never admitted people who mess around with things. When the young man listened, he immediately beat his chest and stomped his feet: We grew so big, we never felt how wrong it was to mess with other people's things, how serious it was!
There is only one chance, because of a bad habit, they miss the opportunity.
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Etiquette habits
There are many good habits that children need to develop, including study habits and living habits, as well as some necessary etiquette habits. First of all, these etiquette habits, parents learn from it, and then teach them to their children, so that they can be used for a lifetime.
1. When bending down to pick up things and tie shoelaces, be sure to squat down, and can't pinch your ass to the sky, which looks indecent.
2. Do not make a sound when eating, do not swallow, which is not conducive to digestion and damages the image. Eat the noodles in a broken bite, don't suck them into your stomach; drink soup with a small spoon.
3. Sit on the bench with your knees together, put your hands on your knees, and sit only one-third of the chair; don't open your legs or raise your legs, ugly.
4. When visiting someone else's house, do not turn things over without the permission of the owner.
5. No matter what kind of food, no matter what you like to eat, you must control it, especially do not overeat, whether at home or outside.
6. When visiting other people's homes, regardless of whether the host cooks a meal that meets his own taste, he must issue a sincere compliment to show good taste and show respect.
7. After the meal, it is best to help the host clean up the table together; even if the other party does not let the help, it is necessary to have this move and express gratitude.
8. Answer the phone, the first sentence to say "hello", after the words are finished, let the other party hang up the phone first; if the other party lets you hang up first, after saying "goodbye", pause for 3 seconds and then hang up.
9. When someone else adds tea, pours water, or provides services for you, be sure to sit up or hold the cup with your hand to show respect.
10. Look at other people's mobile phone photos or other items such as computers, and do not flip down without permission.
11. In public, eat less large bone foods such as pig hands, bones, and chicken feet. Especially girls, grinning at things, is really not good-looking.
12. Be kind to people and always smile. It is a world pass, without borders, without translation, and never out of date.
These etiquette knowledge are the concrete embodiment of a person's good cultivation, and parents must not only teach their children, but also do a good job themselves. Because parents are the child's first teachers, every word and deed has a great impact on the child. Only when parents do a good job themselves, children will "learn from each other" and consciously abide by good etiquette norms.
In addition to these etiquette cultivation habits, parents also need to stimulate the habit of independent learning of their children, and the management of the back will be much easier, which shows how important it is to have a good learning habit!
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Study habits
The student stage is the key period of good habits, the initial stage of human growth, and the initial stage of the formation of people's basic qualities. In the primary school stage, what is important is not the academic performance, but the cultivation of habits, and the children whose grades are good and bad, or like the child above, although they are very smart, they do not love to learn, and often lack good habits.
Especially for newly enrolled children, they should pay more attention to the cultivation of habits, so as to help lay a good foundation for subsequent learning and lay a good foundation for the development of children.
The following list of primary school students' habit formation is very practical and worthy of parents' permanent collection.
7, 8 years old habits:
1. Be able to complete the homework independently and on time;
2. Develop correct writing, pen holding posture, and sitting posture;
3. Consciously read extracurricular picture books (with pinyin).
9, 10-year-old habits:
1. Daily preview;
2. Independent learning and thinking skills;
3. The operation is clean and tidy;
4. Read extracurricular reading materials.
Habits of 11 and 12 years old:
1. Listen carefully to the lecture;
2. Daily preview review;
3. Think positively;
4. The operation is quick and tidy and the accuracy rate should be high.
13, 14-year-old habits:
1. Independent learning, advance preparation and review;
2. Think positively and have your own opinions on the problem;
3.Read popular science books and literary works.
15-year-old habits:
1. Answer questions and pay attention to norms;
2. Have the habit of collecting records, especially the wrong places;
3. Learn to learn to learn from each other;
4. Extensively involved, pay attention to current affairs news.
Education is the cultivation of habits, especially at the primary school level.
There are many good habits that children need to develop, and the above habits are the most basic and important habits, which are formed before the child is 12 years old, which will lay a good foundation for the child's future learning and life. The cultivation of habits is not overnight, parents should be patient, insist on doing it, so that children will be very worry-free after entering junior high school.