"There is no way to go to this school, what kind of pressure have you forced on your parents, who can stand it?"
Seeing this "grumbling word" from the parents, you must feel very curious about what problems the parents have encountered and actually said such words.
Parents are dissatisfied with the school's online classes and complain passionately in the class group
It turned out that this was a message sent by a father in Liaoning in the class group.
For some time, this father accompanied his children to online classes at home, accumulated a lot of negative emotions in his heart, and could not hold back for a while, and even sent the "words in his heart" to the group.
Dad was too excited, he made more than a dozen voices in one breath, and when he opened one at random, he could hear Dad's angry shouts, and some of the voices were even incoherent.
Dad's opinion focused on two areas:
First, dads think their kids shouldn't be exposed to their phones for long periods of time.
Because some children have poor self-control, it is difficult to restrain their behavior. It seems that online classes are actually "deserting", and some even use mobile phones to do other things.
Dad disagreed with this, he shouted: "Can the child learn with the mobile phone?" "Kids are decadent with their phones!"
Second, Dad believes that online classes add an extra burden to parents.
Because parents have to "watch" their children's online classes, they also have to assist their children to complete some tasks assigned by teachers, such as punching cards, uploading pictures, audio and video, and other work, relatively small children have no way to complete it independently.
In this regard, Dad's view is that "the school is difficult for us to change the law", although the parents in the group have urged Dad to "calm down" and "dissipate", but Dad's opening is that he can't stop.
Dad even began to speak foully, and angrily shouted in the group: "My family XXX is no longer reading, call your school forced." ”
Dad's difficulties are understandable, but it is not advisable to lose his temper
The father's excited words caused heated discussion among netizens.
Some netizens said that they can understand dad, long-term use of mobile phones on children will indeed cause a lot of adverse effects, the body, vision will cause damage, and itself is not self-disciplined enough children, at home online classes will be "flying self", can not learn knowledge not to say, but also developed more bad habits.
But more netizens still criticized the father.
First of all, Dad did not take into account the practical difficulties faced by the education department, in the special period, choosing to take online classes at home is a helpless move, not that the school and teachers deliberately choose this teaching mode to "toss" parents and students.
But Dad did not listen to the advice of other parents, blindly accusing the school and teachers, which was actually a bit "impersonal".
Secondly, it is understandable that dad has resentment in his heart, but if he has doubts, he can communicate with the teacher privately and see if there is a better way to solve the problem of poor results of children's online classes.
However, Dad lost his mind in anger and chose to "lose his temper" and "pour bitter water" in the class group, perhaps his emotions were vented, but the actual problem was not solved, and it would leave a very bad impression on the teacher and other parents, which was really not worth the loss.
What's worse is that dad's approach will also affect the child, and you can imagine how embarrassing the child's situation in the class will be after this incident...
It is precisely because of this that netizens have called his father's phone or sent him a message, hoping that he can recognize his mistakes, pay attention to civilized language, and change the bad temper of "one point".
There are also well-meaning netizens who have made some suggestions to their fathers, and reminded him that after complaining, he still has to take his children's learning seriously, but he can't really let his children "not read" and "not go to school".
The father has also calmed down and began to listen carefully to the suggestions of netizens, but because he received calls and received too many messages every day, his father was overwhelmed, so he had to open the "shielding mode" and asked netizens not to call themselves again.
A storm has gradually subsided, but parents can still learn some lessons from this incident.
In special periods, we should have a better understanding of schools and teachers, and cooperate with all aspects of home learning as much as possible.
If you are worried about your child's vision and body being affected, you can choose to use a large-screen device and then remind your child to pay attention to movement and distant vision, so as to find an optimal balance between learning knowledge and protecting vision.
Usually, we can also improve communication with the teacher, inform the teacher of some problems that occur during the child's online class, and then ask the teacher to help guide the teacher to improve the child's listening effect.
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