■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, people to old age, everything is idle.
People, they all get old. This is an indisputable fact. No matter who it is, when we slowly grow old, we must know how to let our body and mind idle. Those past honors, those things that can't be obtained, those too many wordless pursuits, we all have to know how to let go. When people reach old age, everything is idle, which is the ideal state of each of us who are slowly getting old.
However, not all people can enjoy the happiness and blessing of "idleness" on the way to old age. Many people in old age still have to work hard for their own lives, worried about their own rations for tomorrow. Therefore, people who can really idle are one of the standards for whether people can live elegantly in old age. Therefore, some people say: Whether people can live elegantly when they reach old age depends on whether there are these four things around them, which is really reasonable.
02, the first thing: money bags.
Someone said: "The world is panicked, but the picture is a few pieces of silver." This piece of silver can solve all kinds of sorrow in the world." We live not to be able to live a well-fed life, but many people exhaust their life's efforts just to live the lives of ordinary people. And this is the helplessness of real life. Therefore, when a person is slowly aging, the money bag becomes very important.
When people reach old age, if the pension in our pockets is sufficient, we will be able to ensure our own food, clothing, shelter and transportation, we will be able to solve our own medical expenses, and we will not bring more trouble and burden to our children. When we are old and have the financial means, we sit in the breezy courtyard with a few old friends, tasting delicious pomegranates, pastries, and Pu'er tea. In our later years, don't we live gracefully and freely?
03, the second thing: filial piety of children.
Ancients Yun: The cultivation of filial piety, happy to his heart, not against his will. What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is that the consecration of filial piety is to make them feel pleasure and happiness from their hearts, not against their will. Yeah, when we're old, what do we need most? In fact, it is not those mountains and seafood, not those luxuries, but pleasure and happiness. And when we are old, the filial piety of our children is one of the things that can make us feel happy the most, why do we say so?
Because "the pond is defeated out of the loach, and the family is defeated out of the monkeys.". Once a family has an unfilial son, then such a family is completely defeated. This filial son will cause trouble everywhere, bringing countless troubles and even disasters to our family. When people reach old age, there are still so many troubles in our family, so can we live gracefully in our old age? Therefore, when people reach old age, the filial piety of their children is one of the important conditions for us to live gracefully in our later years.
04, the third thing: a happy marriage.
Regarding marital happiness, the Northern Song Dynasty poet He Zhu's lyrics "TaSha Xing Yang Liu Hui Tang" has such a sentence: "When I refused to marry the spring wind, I was mistaken by the autumn wind for no reason." This sentence means that when it refused to open in the spring, it is now suffering from desolation in the autumn wind for no reason. In fact, in this life, people will inevitably miss some people, some things, including marriage. But since it has been missed, it can never be recovered, and there is no need to be sad about the past that has been missed. Time is missed, it is as far away as flowing water; feelings are missed, they have turned into smoke and clouds.
It's just that such emotions are missed, and some people know how to put it down and cherish the people in front of them, then, such people can truly walk into a happy marriage, and then, with their lovers, "get along with each other, white heads to old age." And some people, but always after missing someone, but always leave a position in their hearts to the other party, such people, it is difficult to really love the person in front of them, will cherish their marriage. Therefore, such people, even if they are old, are not so happy, and in their own emotional world, they often suffer from gains and losses. And for the rest of their lives, naturally they will not be able to live elegantly and comfortably.
05, the fourth thing: a healthy body.
Ordinary people often say, "The body is the capital of the revolution." This sentence is actually very reasonable. People will always grow old, this is the law of life, this is the code of life that human society cannot decipher. When we get older, our bodily functions will decline, and those large and small diseases will begin to look at us.
At such an age, if we do not pay attention to taking care of our bodies, once attacked by the tiger of disease, then when we lie on the hospital bed, the feeling of all thoughts is gray will really make us feel that we are loveless. Therefore, a healthy body in old age is an important guarantee for determining whether we live gracefully in our old age. When people reach old age, we must know how to cherish ourselves and let ourselves live the rest of our lives gracefully and healthy.
06, elegant aging, is a kind of happiness.
Friends, whether a person can live gracefully when he is old depends on whether we have four things around us: money bags, filial piety for children, happy marriages and healthy bodies. If there is, then we can ensure that we grow old gracefully and that we will live easily and happily for the rest of our lives. And a person can grow old gracefully, in fact, it is the greatest happiness, that is, one of the greatest blessings for a person to reach the end of his life. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.