■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, man to fifty, all things are in tatters.
Qian Fu, a Ming Dynasty leader, has a "Song of Tomorrow", in which a few sentences are written like this:
Tomorrow after tomorrow,
There are so many tomorrows.
I was born for tomorrow,
Everything is in the balance.
If the world is tired of tomorrow,
Spring to autumn is coming.
The meaning of these few words is: tomorrow is followed by another tomorrow, and tomorrow is many. I've spent my whole life waiting for tomorrow and nothing has been done. Most people in the world are as tired of tomorrow as I am, and the years pass and they end up old.
Yeah, people are in fifty, and we're starting to get old. At such an age, we have entered the twilight years of life. It is said: "Fifty and know the destiny of heaven", a person who reaches fifty is a person who has entered the age of the rest of his life. At such an age, whether there is a blessing or not, in fact, can be clearly seen.
02, people to fifty, husband and wife harmony is a blessing.
When people reach fifty, family harmony is very important. If a person is still in a single life when he is fifty years old, or parted ways with his lover, then such a life will inevitably make us feel anxious, feel distressed, and it is difficult to make ourselves feel happy and happy. Therefore, family harmony is the most important existence at every stage, and by the time man reaches fifty, family harmony is even more important.
When a person reaches the age of fifty, if his family falls into the sadness of "poor and lowly couples mourning", then such a family is bound to have husband and wife quarrels, contradictions and disputes, and even the regret of "flying separately when the big disaster is coming". And a harmonious family of husband and wife can achieve "husband and wife with one heart, and its profits are broken", and when it encounters difficulties, it will be easily resolved. Therefore, when a person reaches fifty, a harmonious family of husband and wife is a blessing.
03, people to fifty, stable work is a blessing.
Man by fifty, we have passed the age of tossing. At such an age, we have slowly let go of those passionate ideals. Those ideals that have been realized, we also understand that "good men do not mention the courage of the year", and those ideals that cannot be realized, we also learn to let go. When we reach fifty, we have learned that peace is a blessing and that work stability is a blessing.
Yeah, man to fifty, we can't afford toss it anymore. At such an age, if we can have a stable job, then, relying on our daily efforts, in exchange for our own salary. And such a stable work, although it will not bring us great wealth, but the life of peace of mind, the life of small wealth is also the life that many people dream of. Therefore, when a person reaches the age of fifty, if we work steadily, then we must be a blessed person, and we must cherish it.
04, when a person reaches fifty, it is a blessing for his children to become.
When people reach fifty, we have gone through many ups and downs in the years of life. At such an age, our children have grown up. It is said that "the pond is defeated out of the loach, the family is defeated out of the monkey", people to fifty, if our family has a contrarian monkey, then this contrarian son is everywhere to cause trouble, nothing to do, and throw tantrums, will bring endless trouble to our family, even disasters, and the blessings of our family will also be far away.
On the contrary, when people reach fifty, if we have proper education for our children, then our children have reached the age of adulthood. Even if some children do not get into a good university, they learn a skill or skill, and then they start to start a family by their own efforts. Such a child is a talented woman who has already become a talented woman. The success of children will bring a steady stream of blessings to our families. Therefore, when a person reaches fifty and his children become talented, our blessings will be even deeper.
05, people to fifty, family health is a blessing.
Man to fifty, we have begun to grow old. At this time, we will suddenly find that our bodily functions begin to decline. Those diseases, big and small, began to look at us. When we reach fifty, we are the pillars of the family, if we are attacked by some disease because we do not cherish our bodies. When we lie in the hospital bed because we are sick, that feeling of all thoughts, that painful torture, really makes us feel loveless.
In the same way, when a person reaches fifty, if a member of our family has some kind of major disease, then such a family is likely to be "impoverished by illness" and plunge the family, which is originally prosperous, into some crisis. And when we reach fifty, if our family members are healthy, they are all disease-free and disaster-free. Then our family is bound to be blessed, and the days will become more and more comfortable.
06, people to fifty, the blessing began to be fixed.
Friends, when the man reaches fifty, a person's blessing has begun to take shape. At such an age, we must grasp well what is closely related to our well-being and stay away from what will harm our family's well-being. Use the maturity and stability of our age to grasp the key and password of family blessings, so that our family can continue to move forward in happiness and happiness. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms have accumulated millions of fan authors, and major platforms have accumulated more than 500 million clicks. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.