When a person reaches sixty, the meaning of life is actually these four words

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated

01, preface.

Regarding retirement, the Tang Dynasty poet Yuan Shu has this poem:

Xie Gongqian had the intention of dongshan and had opened the cave door to Zhumen.

Da Yin hesitated to fall in love with the market, and inexplicably gave up and returned to the garden.

Yes, about retirement, it is a time period that many people think and think, but do not want to come early. However, people will grow old, this is the law of life, this is the code of life that human society cannot decipher. When we reach sixty, we have entered the retirement age, and at such an age, we really have such a feeling: "Born to be a dust attendant class, retirement still has to be old lake and mountain." I am ashamed of having no hope, and I only wish that my son is relatively idle. ”

In fact, when people reach sixty, it is only the beginning of another stage of our lives. Although this is the last stage of our lives, this stage still has very important value and significance in our lives. It's just that many people can't grasp the meaning of life after sixty. Therefore, as long as we remember these four words, we grasp the meaning of life after the age of sixty.

02, the first word: zero.

When we reach sixty, we must know how to zero out the glory and shame of the past. Those who once received honors and had a glorious life now seem to have become a thing of the past. It is said that "good men do not mention the courage of that year", people to sixty, we mention the glorious years of that year, it is meaningless, everyone is not willing to listen and praise. Because, at such an age, we have basically withdrawn from the jianghu in the unit, and in the unit, our legend will slowly disappear.

In order for people to be sixty, if we want to make the rest of our lives more meaningful, we must understand that everything in the past should be zeroed out as much as possible. Retired, let's go home. Perhaps, in our hometown in the countryside, we can start our new life again. From then on, we can plant flowers and grass in front of the house, and plant vegetables and bamboo behind the house, so that our retirement life will be high and cloudy, and we will live a calm life. Perhaps, this is the most meaningful way of life we have after retirement.

03, the second word: slow.

When people reach sixty, we begin to get old. At such an age, our bodily functions begin to decline, and some diseases, large and small, begin to look at us. When people reach sixty, we must learn to stretch our mood, slow down the pace of our lives, and use a slow life posture to meet the ups and downs of life. When we reached sixty, we retired, and our time began to slow down.

Such a slow is actually a comfortable life, and such a slow is actually a life away from right and wrong. When people reach sixty, learning to slow down their lives is not only beneficial to us prolonging our lives, but also beneficial to our thinking about life and the quality of our lives in our later years. Therefore, when people reach sixty, it is an attitude to life, and it is also a wisdom to face life in old age.

04, the third word: light.

When people reach sixty, we must learn to "fade" our lives. "Light" is to learn to be indifferent to fame and fortune; "light" is to let yourself know how to be quiet as water; "light" is to let yourself be away from fox friends and return to your own loneliness. Yes, when people reach sixty, those past honors, we have received, have been obtained, and what we have not received, we have not received. If you think about these things now, it is not only exhausting, but also difficult to obtain.

Instead of doing futile work in the midst of gain and loss, let us learn to be plain, learn to meet every day of life with a calm and watery mentality. Master Hongyi once said such a classic sentence: "Salty has a salty taste, light has a light taste", if we treat our young life as a pot of heavy flavor dishes, then, when people reach sixty, our life should be a pot of light vegetable porridge. Therefore, when people reach sixty and let our lives fade, our lives can learn to precipitate and learn to understand the true meaning of life in plainness.

05, the fourth word: quiet.

When people reach sixty, we must learn to live like a stopping water. Perhaps, when we were young, we were deeply in love with someone, but not all love will have good results. When our love is hit, when the lovers we participate in choose to leave us. The kind of person who watches his beloved disappear into the loneliness and loneliness of our sight, and those who have not experienced it will not understand.

But, this is life, this is the impermanence of life. When we are far away from the people we love deeply, we are like this, running our separate ways. Years later, when we retire, we think back to the man we once loved. Perhaps, many times, we still want to meet each other. But even if we meet, what can we get? Perhaps, after cherishing each other, they will be separated from each other, and each of them will be safe, which is the end. Since then, we have learned to stop the water like a heart and learn to live a life without shock. And why isn't this the meaning of our lives after sixty?

06, Concluding Remarks.

Friends, people to sixty, people to sixty, the meaning of life, in fact, is "zero", "slow", "light", "quiet" these four words. Do you think it makes sense? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.

【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.