After eating more and suffering, slowly, I learned to be alone

■ Author: Uncle Nanshan

■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated

01, preface.

Mr. Lu Xun once said this classic sentence: "The beast always walks alone, and the cattle and sheep are in groups." "Yes, it is an indisputable fact that a person is truly powerful, often starting from solitude. So, why do some people like to be alone? In fact, a lot of solitude is not our wish, but the strength formed after some kind of setbacks and blows.

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There is a quiet beauty called "I do not argue with anyone, and no one who fights with me disdains it." Everything is good or bad, the past is only in the bottom of the eyes, and it doesn't matter how much is filled in the bag, what is gained and lost is equally precious. Quiet people are not isolated and alone, but come and go without serving the face of others, and do not waste meaningless social time. Quiet beauty, a feeling that trumps everything.

Therefore, a person who has suffered a lot will often become cold and thin. People with a cold nature know how to reconcile with the world and themselves, and slowly, their solitude becomes a character and a different way of life. And this way of life often makes us stronger and stronger.

02, the more bitter you eat, the harder your heart becomes.

On the road of life, we always need to struggle in order to survive. In order to make a living, sometimes, we have to go out and fight. People in a foreign land for strangers, go out to struggle, we will inevitably encounter many obstacles. Because people are in a foreign land, our connections, our resources, are very scarce. In such adversity, if we want to get a chance to get ahead, we need to make great efforts. People are in a foreign country, and it is more difficult to do things. On the road to survival, we will encounter the exclusion of others, the pressure of work, and the humility of sending people under the fence.

When a person struggles in the face of the pressure of survival, we are bound to suffer one kind or another. However, suffering is not a bad thing sometimes, and sometimes, it is a good thing. Because when we suffer a lot, our hearts become hard. When a person suffers a lot, we slowly learn to be alone, learn to face with a strong heart, on the road to survival, we encounter other difficulties, we will also know how to face strong.

03, eating more bitterly, coarse tea and light rice is also a blessing.

If a person suffers more, he will reduce the requirements of life. Yes, when we are in adversity, encounter setbacks in life, and even fall into difficulties, the bitter taste of being penniless and "a penny is difficult to defeat a hero" will not be understood by people who have not experienced it. In the predicament, we are prepared to taste the blow of human feelings and the coldness of the world, and in the predicament, we will get a little happiness and will be very content.

Therefore, when a person eats a lot of bitterness, we will feel that coarse tea and light rice are also a kind of happiness. Perhaps, in the quiet of the night, we will cherish the hard-won peace, and we will truly have an epiphany of the beauty of "if there is no idle thing in the heart, it is a good season on earth". In such an atmosphere, even if we drink thin porridge and coarse tea, why not be a kind of happiness? And such a shallow happiness, we also learn to taste alone, learn to taste quietly in solitude.

04, eat a lot of bitterness, understand that everything depends on themselves.

When people are alive, they will inevitably encounter unsatisfactory times. Such unsatisfactory results in the most difficult times in our lives. When we are in the face of adversity, we always want to find some life-saving straw to get through the current crisis, which is actually a very normal idea. However, when we fall into the trough of life, we suddenly find that the friends we once had around us are gone.

Sometimes we just go looking for friends who once vowed to "taoyuan three knots" with us, and they also rejected us. At this time, we finally understand: relying on everyone will run, relying on the mountains will fall, only relying on themselves, is the most reliable. Therefore, we know how to bury our heads, continue to suffer hardships, and continue to work the road of a lonely life.

05, eat more bitterly, learned to stop the heart like water.

Some people say that a person who suffers more bitterly likes to remain silent. In fact, this sentence is very reasonable. When people live, it is inevitable that there will be times when they will suffer hardships, and if a person suffers more, he will have a deeper understanding of the feelings of life, he will have a better understanding of the people around him, and he will have more thinking about the rest of his life. And this kind of thinking is always extended and developed in the silent time that belongs to us.

When a person suffers a lot, our hearts become less flustered. At this time, we are more willing to face the ups and downs of life in a solitary way. Even if you have your own emotional problems, you will become as calm as water. And such a kind of solitude, such a kind of heart like stopping water, in fact, even if one kind of letting go, is a kind of open-mindedness after reading a thousand sails. Such a person often already has an attitude of life that is not insulted, and such a person will be more open-minded for the rest of his life.

06, Concluding Remarks.

The old ancestors warned us: "If you eat bitterly, you will be a superior person." What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is actually to remind us that if we want to achieve something and succeed in life, we must understand the principle of bearing hardships and standing hard work. On the road of life, without paying our efforts, we do not suffer losses, it is difficult to obtain success in life. However, this society is more or less unfair, and not all efforts can be successful. Some people on the road of struggle, even if they suffer a lot, they will not necessarily achieve success in life and career. Therefore, finding the right direction and knowing how to endure hardships is the only way to achieve success. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss, thank you.

【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.