■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, preface.
The ancients said: "People are poor and cannot enter the crowd, and words are not light and do not persuade people." What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is actually very simple, that is, to tell us not to go to places where people talk a lot when we are embarrassed for a while. At the same time, in difficult situations, we tend to be light-hearted and try not to participate in things that persuade others. I once experienced something like this:
One year, I went to a twenty-year alumni association reunion. The classmates will open in a five-star restaurant, the wine has been three times the dishes have been five flavors, and the old Song who seems to be the most capable among the students said: "Students, the 8th of next month is my birthday, I am still in this hotel to invite everyone to dinner, everyone must come Oh." There will also be special gifts. Hearing his words, we all warmly applauded. At this time, I spoke up, who was not very well mixed: "Dear students, every time you are invited." After Old Song finished, it was up to me to entertain him. "Listening to my words, everyone suddenly burst into laughter, which made me feel very embarrassed.
Later, I was also relieved, because such things, in fact, are not uncommon in our lives. Of course, this cannot mean that everyone looks down on me who is not mixed well, but feels that I cannot afford such high consumption, and that what I say is just a joke. Therefore, as a person, we must understand that "people are poor and cannot be persuaded by words": When people are poor, they should go to these few places less, and in the stage of their temporary dissatisfaction, they should try to talk as little as possible and struggle more, so as to change their unsatisfactory status quo.
02, when people are poor, go less to the short places in the parents.
First of all, when people are poor, they should go to less places where parents are short and mother-in-law. Because such a place, often some idle people gather, their favorite thing to do every day, is to gossip, find some trivial things, infinitely enlarged, and then, turn such small things into some rumors to confuse the public. As everyone knows, such rumors often cause the parties to suffer a lot of harm, and some people will even be devastated, and their lives will fall into a trough that is difficult to get out of.
When we are poor, if we go to such a place, we will inevitably become people who are ridiculed by everyone. At this time, if everyone amplifies our privacy, or our vulnerabilities, it is bound to make us the material for everyone's jokes and sneers. In such an atmosphere, if we choose to be patient, they are bound to make it difficult for us to look up. And if we break out, it is likely to cause some conflicts, and in the end, both sides will be lost, and we may also suffer immeasurable losses, which will cause great obstacles to the restart of our adversity. Therefore, when people are poor, it makes sense to go to the short places of their parents less.
03, when people are poor, go less to places where fish and dragons are mixed.
Second, when people are poor, they should go to places where fish and dragons are mixed. Because the places where the fish and dragon are complex are often the places where some people of all colors such as the three religions and nine streams gather. Some of these people are engaged in pornography, gambling and drugs, and even engaged in desperate business, if we go to these places when we are down, then we are likely to be targeted by some people with ulterior motives. Because we are in trouble, the economic side will naturally face a big crisis. At this time, if those with ulterior motives throw an olive branch of interests to us, then we are likely to be deceived and follow them to engage in some illegal and criminal things.
And once we get on this thief ship, it is very likely that we will be involuntary and difficult to exonerate. It is said that "Skynet is restored without leakage", and once the illegal activities we are engaged in are discovered, then we are likely to face legal sanctions. As pawns, we will become the shields of these backstage manipulators, and then, the one who is hurt the most is us. Therefore, when people are poor, going less to the mixed places is a kind of protection for ourselves, which should be kept in mind.
04, when people are poor, go less to ambiguous places.
Third, when people are poor, they should go to less ambiguous places. Why? Because when people are poor, it is often the time when we are most likely to fall. If we go to ambiguous places when people are poor, it is easy for us to be some kind of target. Especially a woman, if we are poor, if we go to these ambiguous places, we will be targeted by some people who like to look for flowers and ask for willows.
At that time, they will stare at us like a fly, and we will easily become the object of these people's play and manipulation. Once we are on the road of no return, then our final end is not only discredited, but also often difficult to return to the past. This will have a very negative impact on our ideals and on the rest of our lives. Therefore, when people are poor, less ambiguous places can keep the bottom line of our emotions, let us clean ourselves in adversity, and we will have a better future.
05, when people are poor, go less to places where negative energy bursts.
Fourth, when people are poor, they should strive to maintain their positive energy mentality and go less to those places where negative energy bursts. Why? Because people live, the living environment is very important, and a good living environment and learning environment can make people achieve great success. However, although a bad environment can also create talents, more often, these places where negative energy bursts are difficult to bring benefits to people, and places where negative energy bursts are often full of resentment and hostility.
After staying in such a place for a long time, we will inevitably not be affected, and over time, we will also become a person who likes to complain about others by mother-in-law and mother, and even full of anger. When we are in poverty, there is still a burst of negative energy, such a mentality, we simply can not achieve our own life counterattack goals. Therefore, when people are poor, we rarely go to places where negative energy bursts, only in this way can we seek advantages and avoid harms, make our mentality more sunny and positive, and our success rate of getting ahead is better.
06, Concluding Remarks.
Friends, "people are poor, words are not easy to persuade people": when people are poor, they should go to these four places where their parents are short, mixed, ambiguous, and negative energy, do you think it makes sense? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.