■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
■ Original works, plagiarism must be investigated
01, preface.
People, it is inevitable that there will be times of discouragement. When we are down, we will understand that the fall is actually like a sharp knife, which will use blades as thin as cicada wings to cut through our memories in the dark night. Then, it will dissect those bloody, naked realities little by little and present them to your eyes. Yes, when we fall, those once glorious illusions, those once flattering flattery, will be after we fall, with bloody facts, let us understand the truth of human relations and the cold of the world in pain.
"Poor in the downtown no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives", perhaps, after we fell, we can truly understand the connotation of "human feelings are as thin as paper". Falling is like a sieve, let us see clearly who is true to you and who is false to you at the low point of life. When we are down, we must stabilize ourselves, believe in ourselves, and keep our mouths shut. When we are down, remember: never explain these things to others. Why?
02, when you fall, don't explain the reason for the fall.
First of all, when we are down, we must remember to never explain to others why we are down. This is not a secret, but our downfall, there must be our own reasons. When we are down, we just have to remember that this is a setback in life that many people have to experience, and it is not a big deal. When we are down, we must understand the principle of getting up from where we fall, instead of nagging and complaining to people with a sad face, and pouring out the grievances and pains after our fall on each other.
You know, everyone says that they like to listen to good words, and if they complain about it, we have to point out. After the fall, in addition to explaining the reasons for our downfall to our relatives and to be good, other people, if we can't say it, let's shut our mouths. If we always explain to others the reasons for our downfall, we will not only not arouse the sympathy of others, but even cause the disgust of others. At that time, if we want to find some connections to make a comeback, it will be even more difficult. Therefore, when you are down, learning to shut up and learn to learn lessons to try to make a comeback is the most correct choice.
03, when you are down, don't explain food, clothing, shelter and transportation.
Second, when we are down, we must remember to never explain to others the difficulties of our food, clothing, and housing. When a person is downcast, the most feared thing is that others look down on us. This naturally includes our food, clothing, shelter and transportation. When we are down, we must remember, let go of our face, forget our glory, and learn to start from the bottom, from the most humble things. In fact, no matter what kind of work we are engaged in, as long as we rely on our labor to obtain wages, there is no distinction between high and low.
When we have enough salary to feed our families, even if we eat coarse tea and light rice and wear coarse cloth clothes, what is the harm? Frustrated, we believe in the principle of "thirty years of Hedong and thirty years of Hexi", and we must understand the changes of "the world is like a chess game". When we are down, we should not explain to others the simplicity and difficulty of our food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and if we say too much, others will beg them because of us. Some people will even "look down on people with dog eyes" and look down on us, and over time, it will also make our family form an inferiority complex. Friends, when we are down, let us walk through the ups and downs of life strongly in the ordinary.
04, when you are down, don't explain the humiliation.
Third, when we are down, we must remember to never explain our humiliating past to others. Why? Because in the course of a person's struggle in life, he will always encounter such and such things. Some things belong to our glorious past, while others are like a knife, plucking up the most vulnerable places in our hearts from time to time, making us ashamed, painful, and even manic. Such a thing is actually our humiliating past. On the road of life, many people will encounter some unbearable past events, and some of these past events will become secrets in our hearts, and even difficult privacy.
If we self-righteously speak out about our own humiliations as the reason for our own downfall when we are down, then we will inevitably encounter the shameful laughter of others, and even the condiments after everyone's tea and dinner. It is said that "people are poor and the crowd", when a person is down, it is the time when his own people are soft-spoken, at this time, we go to the place where people gather to talk about their humiliating past, we naturally become a joke. Therefore, really smart people, even if they are down, they will not explain the humiliation they have encountered, which is actually a way to save themselves in difficult situations.
05, when you are down, don't explain the direction of the struggle.
Fourth, when we are down, we must remember to never explain to others the direction of our struggle. When a person is down, we must learn to make a comeback. If you want to make a comeback, you must set goals that you can achieve. Then, we take advantage of our time when no one is paying attention and no one is paying attention, to try to improve our abilities, to slowly accumulate our right to speak.
If, when we are down, we have just formulated a goal of life, and we are busy explaining to others the feasibility of this goal and the good prospects after its realization, then it is actually very stupid for us to explain it in this way. First, we have exposed our own goals, and it is easy to be taken by others. Second, if the goals we set in life are not achieved, in the end, we become laughing and generous figures. Therefore, when we are down, don't explain our goals to others, so that we can go further and walk more steadily.
06, the fall is not death, but another kind of rebirth.
Friends, it doesn't matter if you are down, because it is not a death, but a new birth. When we are down, as long as we do not give up on ourselves, then, with our efforts, we will inevitably achieve our goal of making a comeback in life. At that time, we will regain our right to speak, and our lives will reach a new height, and such a height is a new birth of our phoenix nirvana. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms have accumulated millions of fan authors, and major platforms have accumulated more than 500 million clicks. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.