Falling in love is a temporary decision, but getting along is long-lasting, and whether two people can go to the end depends on the details of getting along.
Women who are too noisy and speak without measure are really disgusting to men, people who know too well, men will not spend effort to understand and accompany.
Women want to capture men's hearts, they must know how to control their mouths, know what to say, know what not to say, pay attention to the skills of getting along, pay attention to self-improvement, in order to continuously improve the attractiveness and charm value.
Whether two people can be attractive for a long time depends on the woman's relationship skills, women know how to operate and manage, and the relationship will be smooth.
Twittering, long-winded women, will make men bored, know how to turn on the mute mode at the right time, women are often with high emotional intelligence, can get along with each other to add points.
Sooner or later, you will understand that if you want to get the continuous pampering of men, you must know how to turn on the "silent mode" in time.
Know how to leave a blank space for each other
When painting, knowing how to leave blank space will give people a space for reverie. The same is true for two people getting along, the connection is too close, it will lose its attraction, but it will be counterproductive and annoying.
Some women once they talk about love, they are very much in the posture of being a girlfriend, tired of being together all day, twittering and sharing their own things all day, and it doesn't matter whether men like it or not, whether they are willing or not.
This kind of clingy love, often unsustainable, will accelerate the fading of the hot love period, and each other will lose attraction.
No matter how much you like the dish, you will get tired of eating it every day, and the people you like it again, watch it every day, get tired of being together every day, and you will get tired of it.
In order to retain the freshness of two people getting along, we must know how to leave a blank space for each other.2
Even if you want to contact again, you must restrain yourself, do not be a mother-in-law, only have feelings in your eyes, which will make men look down on you.
Leave a little more time for yourself, dress yourself up, improve yourself at work, maintain the relationship with friends, and make your life wonderful, in fact, men will be curious about you.
Leaving a blank space for getting along with each other, there is room for imagination, and it is easier to close the distance between each other.
Keep your mouth shut
Women who are too noisy are annoying, and women who always do not choose words make people feel that there is no sense of proportion.
Some women are good-looking, but one mouth is annoying, making each other's getting along with each other more blocked.
Some women are fighting as girlfriends, pointing fingers at men's lives, speaking in a commanding tone, and when men fail, they are even more unceremonious, leaving only blows and depreciations.
The closer the relationship, the more you can't control your mouth, the more you don't choose your words, you will eventually ruin this relationship and let the man leave you.
Women should be able to control their mouths, know what to say, what not to say, and when they should praise, they should never be stingy, but when they should shut up, resolutely turn on the silent mode and let the men experience it for themselves.
It is easy to open your mouth to complain and accuse, but holding back is a kind of cultivation and measure.
Lovers also need politeness and distance, smart women know how to manage their mouths, say appropriate words, good words, so that men are convinced.
How many feelings are lost in the mouth, and the heaviest hurt sometimes comes from the people closest to them. Holding back the mouth, not poking the lover's soft underbelly, leaving the other party with dignity and dignity, in fact, is more rare.
Deliberately create a sense of mystery
If you know the plot and the ending of the TV series early on, will you watch it carefully?
Don't expose yourself so early, some women are too fond of sharing, after falling in love with men, everything will say to men, everything is big and small, let men understand themselves thoroughly.
All at once you hand over your hole card, men will no longer spend time to understand you, and you will lose your competitiveness.
There is also a contest between men and women, women should know how to turn on the silent mode, less about their own things, pull away a little distance, deliberately create a sense of mystery, but will have more attraction.
The relationship between two people is a kind of game, just like solving a mathematical problem, giving clues and answers too early, the whole problem solving process, without difficulty, will lose its meaning.
To expose the clues bit by bit, guide men to solve the problem little by little, to understand you, and your relationship will be endlessly enjoyable.
The fun of getting along needs to be created by yourself, creating a little mystery, and men will want to be closer to you.
Emotional Message:
Know how to leave a blank space for two people to get along, know what to say, what not to say, know how to create a sense of mystery in a timely manner, but will close the distance between each other.
To establish a tacit understanding between two people, turn on the silent mode at the right time, but it will be more effective with half the effort.
The fun of getting along needs to be created by themselves, and smart women know how to mobilize the atmosphere and make each other's feelings more and more intense.