For a while I saw that Xiao Yi was not very happy after coming back every day, so I wanted to communicate with him and ask him directly, he didn't want to tell me, I knew that he must be hiding some secrets. Tried, asked him when he was having a lot of fun, still didn't ask the result, so I planned to try, take him to eat something delicious, I didn't expect this trick to be very effective, I not only heard his heart, but also because I helped him solve the trouble, got his admiration, and further closer to the relationship with Xiao Yi.
But the method of exchanging food for children's secrets also requires certain skills, such as taking children to more familiar restaurants, and then ordering foods that children love to eat, talking about more relaxed topics in the process of eating, and the most critical point is to explore the children's secrets when the children are full of eight points. Finally, when inquiring into the child's secret, you can only ask one or two key questions, do not ask more, and avoid causing the child's defensive psychology.
If you just randomly set a restaurant that parents like, when you take your child, the child will become restrained and cautious because of his unfamiliarity with the restaurant, so that his heart is impossible to relax, and it is even more impossible to relax on his mouth, and he will not say something to you. So be sure to find a restaurant that your child is familiar with, or let your child decide for himself where to eat.
When you start eating, you can talk more about casual topics, or topics that don't seem to be related to the topic. You can also tell your own story first, talk about some interesting topics, and let your child relax first. When the child is eight minutes full, he has slowly begun to relax his body, and he has become casual, and at this time he can tentatively ask simple questions. Of course, the questions you are about to ask are also guessed according to the child's reaction when you are at home before, so the probability of success is higher.